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Permalink Reply by Bonita on June 11, 2012 at 3:20pm

I rest my case! What blog have you written..I said your comments to people.
 
l8dy-c said:

In this case it's seems like this guy is not gonna admit and she was getting blamed.He obviously has self esteem issues.I just don't want her to take that personally. I don't want her self worth to disappear.
You seem to be on defensive and anxious.Your reviewing my blogs you can't focus your attention on anything else? Maybe you need serenity in your life?
Maybe you should do something that could nuture your mind, body and spirit.When you treat yourself with love and tenderness, you'll be able to deal with challenges that life presents. 

Bonita said:

I never get messy but have noticed you are always telling folks they have self esteem issues - are you trying to tell us something?

l8dy-c said:

Funny this psychic didn't predict any of this time for a new one or just live and learn. Trust me Boo boo everyone has promblems with their soulmates. Some how tho, I dint know exactly what kind of advice to give because I don't think he is like this all the time, I know he has good qualities. You need either a therapist or someone like me. I love to give advice, if you have self esteem issues or anything you haven't mentioned it would me help you.

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Permalink Reply by RedPopsicle on June 11, 2012 at 5:41pm

I am sorry I dont get the joke, I have hella patience and I am tired so sorry if I am not finding humor in the joke.  He is slow because we should have been further along (more time spent).

BlackSnakeMoan said:

you got patients with him? but he's slow. now that's funny

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Permalink Reply by RedPopsicle on June 11, 2012 at 5:48pm

Verbally no I cant get it across but I need to get it across in another way (my actions).  I am not settling I am I an trying to move this so I have the upper hand and I am in control.  I want him to make him open his eyes.  I know that when it is our time he is the best but when I have to wait and be patient he has the upper hand.  Is it even possible to rule over these men in the industry.  That is what i am trying to accomplish I know this is not something common that happens women dating men in the industry but I need him to see that just because you have work does not mean you can neglect me. 

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

 How are you going to get your point across if you can't speak.and what exactly do you mean by that?? 

Don't settle for anything because someone told you that was your soulmate..I saw a psychic/palm reader before and they told me that guy I was with would be my one, turned out that bastard was married.....don't believe all that, its for entertainment purposes (IMO).

 

If he knows you're desperate for a relationship, he will treat you just as he is now. Show him you don't want/need him.  How exactly is your money invested in all this. 

OAN:  Would you want this for a child right now??

 

RedPopsicle said:

We have not been able to spend anytime when we where last together he left the state to go out on business so he is just getting back.  Work takes everything and I am left giving him all the space he needs.  When we are apart I know we both want to have sex with each other he always makes me aware that I get him there.  I dont doubt that he does not miss me but when I tell him what he is doing he shuts down on me and I dont want him to shut down I want him to get it.  His way of dealing with things is to chastise me like a child and I can not speak.  He knows if I do I am going to tell him how I feel and what he is doing wrong. Now I need a new way to make him see he is doing wrong without saying it. 

Collete said:

What could he possibly be dealing with that he wouldn't wanna have sex or are u the one not tryna have sex with him? because you dont always want it to be on his terms?

Bonita said:

Did I get this right? Ya'all are together and have not had sex in months?

RedPopsicle said:

I am very invested emotionally I have not looked at another accept for him and he was the last person I had sex with months ago.

LaMonet said:

 A psychic told you all that? Tsk tsk... How much are you emotionally invested are you in this?

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Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on June 11, 2012 at 7:17pm

You obviously are going out of your way to make/prove a point.

You should one day allow yourself to feel good about yourself. 

Bonita said:

I rest my case! What blog have you written..I said your comments to people.
 
l8dy-c said:

In this case it's seems like this guy is not gonna admit and she was getting blamed.He obviously has self esteem issues.I just don't want her to take that personally. I don't want her self worth to disappear.
You seem to be on defensive and anxious.Your reviewing my blogs you can't focus your attention on anything else? Maybe you need serenity in your life?
Maybe you should do something that could nuture your mind, body and spirit.When you treat yourself with love and tenderness, you'll be able to deal with challenges that life presents. 

Bonita said:

I never get messy but have noticed you are always telling folks they have self esteem issues - are you trying to tell us something?

l8dy-c said:

Funny this psychic didn't predict any of this time for a new one or just live and learn. Trust me Boo boo everyone has promblems with their soulmates. Some how tho, I dint know exactly what kind of advice to give because I don't think he is like this all the time, I know he has good qualities. You need either a therapist or someone like me. I love to give advice, if you have self esteem issues or anything you haven't mentioned it would me help you.

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Permalink Reply by Savoir Faire on June 12, 2012 at 2:50am

People make time for they want, PERIOD, POINT BLANK, THE END. Most of the men in the industry love to phonebone (not phone sex, just talking all the time) when they can't see you because of work.  I think this is just how he is and you have to decide whether or not it's worth it to you.  I believe that there are toooooo many people in the universe to have one soulmate.  

I don't understand how money is wrapped up in the equation if you haven't seen each other for months?  Does he pay your bills or something?  If so, I wouldn't trip and continue to do me on his dime.  I definitely think you should keep your options open.

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Permalink Reply by BlackSnakeMoan on June 14, 2012 at 4:54pm

that is why it's so funny

RedPopsicle said:

I am sorry I dont get the joke, I have hella patience and I am tired so sorry if I am not finding humor in the joke.  He is slow because we should have been further along (more time spent).

BlackSnakeMoan said:

you got patients with him? but he's slow. now that's funny

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Permalink Reply by Goldie F***'n Fish on June 14, 2012 at 5:08pm

chile I can't. I thought she was a rapper/doctor. 

BlackSnakeMoan said:

that is why it's so funny

RedPopsicle said:

I am sorry I dont get the joke, I have hella patience and I am tired so sorry if I am not finding humor in the joke.  He is slow because we should have been further along (more time spent).

BlackSnakeMoan said:

you got patients with him? but he's slow. now that's funny

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Permalink Reply by Sheli on June 14, 2012 at 5:14pm

LOL @ BSM twice!!!

BlackSnakeMoan said:

that is why it's so funny

RedPopsicle said:

I am sorry I dont get the joke, I have hella patience and I am tired so sorry if I am not finding humor in the joke.  He is slow because we should have been further along (more time spent).

BlackSnakeMoan said:

you got patients with him? but he's slow. now that's funny

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