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SO I been dating this dude for a while (6mos) and I really like him. He is 37 no kids B.A. degree and working on a master's hoping to get a PhD. He is a homeowner and handsome. He is a big dude, but still a cutie. I just turned thirty, B.A. degree, no kids, and working on getting in Law school. We have been breaking up every month sometimes every other day since we started talking. At first I was all into making him happy but then we started breaking up so I stopped cooking and doing special stuff. So now, we broke up two days ago because I had him waiting an hour for a date he planned a week ago. I dont think that it was serious enough to break up for but we did. Now I wanna know should I let us be done or try to get us back together. He says he needs to pray about it, but I am really tired of the back and forth. What should I do?
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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on -
go youre separate ways....i did the break up to make up s*** in highschool...not when i hit 30
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on -
I know I said i liked these relationship post but for some strange reason they are irritating the hell out of me today.
To the poster: Concentrate on school, hunny. You're not ready for a relationship
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Permalink Reply by onfire on -
Why isnt she ready for a relationship?
University of Smitty said:I know I said i liked these relationship post but for some strange reason they are irritating the hell out of me today.
To the poster: Concentrate on school, hunny. You're not ready for a relationship
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Permalink Reply by mese on -
Oh my. Well I say let it go. Because if you guys are breaking up over the smallest things yea uh maybe yall need some space. If you really like the guy I say take some time apart for aboiut a week.and then both of you sit down and talk.about what you both wanna do, cuz you guys breaking up every 2.5 seconds is not good at all.
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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on
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Thanks everybody...I know I should leave him alone...but I dont want to. I think we could be good together if we could ever stay together lol.
Smitty...I wanna know why u think Im not ready??
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Oh yea...I just told him that we should take a few months apart and see other people. We should set a date and time and if we meet there months from now, it means that we really wanna be together and we are going to leave the games behind. He said cool. I said ok, when is the date and place. He said he had to think about it and has not responded.
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on
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how did you come up with that idea?
Picture_perfect1913 said:Oh yea...I just told him that we should take a few months apart and see other people. We should set a date and time and if we meet there months from now, it means that we really wanna be together and we are going to leave the games behind. He said cool. I said ok, when is the date and place. He said he had to think about it and has not responded.
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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on -
he said cool like that....girl move on..."He's just not that into you"
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Smitty I think I saw it in a movie. lol and Ms. UCAN, his attitude sometimes irks the hell out of me...but during one of our thousand breakups he said cool...and we quit talking for a few days...but he was home alone every night. He doesn't club and I checked his phone on the slide and it was no action in there. I think he likes me...I go to his church every sunday..he gets mad if I am late..I call his mom and she calls me...he has tried to correct anything I say I dont like about him...but we keep breaking up over things I think are small but its usually my fault. Ijust dont wanna be "running" for a man and dropping everything cuz he ready.
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Permalink Reply by Kia Johnson on -
BREAK UP! Yall too damn old. Find someone a little more mature.
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Permalink Reply by temptin_destiny on -
Just because you care about someone doesn't mean you need to be with them. The break-up to make-up thing gets old. Sometimes people are just ment to be friends.
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Permalink Reply by Maya Wilkes on
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The 'meet at a date/time" thing came from Sex and the City 2 when Miranda and Steve werent sure they wanted to stay married after Steve cheated.
And hi everyone :-)
University of Smitty said:how did you come up with that idea?
Picture_perfect1913 said:Oh yea...I just told him that we should take a few months apart and see other people. We should set a date and time and if we meet there months from now, it means that we really wanna be together and we are going to leave the games behind. He said cool. I said ok, when is the date and place. He said he had to think about it and has not responded.
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