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I played myself *vent* **UPDATE**
Ok....let's not mention the front page blog....so here's the deal, for those who know me I be on some other s***. I'm usually a "hustling" "get it anyway I can" kind of girl. I've been chilling on the dude tip for a while and hadn't had sex in about 6/7 months. Well recently i went to visit a baller friend of mine that I met back in 2010 I think. Now before this first occasion, we've chatted many times within the past 2 years through text or Skype. When I met him he was just so beautiful to me, breathtaking actually, well he had invited me to see him many times before and I had agreed but then stood him up about 4 maybe 5 times. So when we exchanged new numbers, through fb and the chatting started again I knew I really wanted to see him. This time I agreed to go visit him, I flew in after work and stayed 2.5 days. We had an amazing time together enjoying each others company, the first day i felt like a schoolgirl around him, blushing and s***...we had great in depth conversation about what we both wanted and he asked if I was coming back next week and I said sure but it would be after my mini vacation trip to DR which is next week...that night kissing amd cuddling led to sex. It is what it is...he dropped me off at the airport we said our goodbyes and then texted while I was waiting for my flight and later on that night once I was in my hotel.
I texted him the following day asking his schedule for specific days in a few weeks because I'd planned on going there for my girls party. I got no response. I didn't think anything of it because I've gone a day or 2 and not responded to his text before because I get busy, and i know his lifestyle and i sure hes busy as well because this was ine thing we loved that we had in common...then the next day he text me and its back and forth then it stops abruptly a few hours later i call him and no answer....then he text me again that night but I still haven't responded cause I don't play this back and forth text s***. now after spending time with him and knowing how he operates and how he usually has his phone around (and he's briefly been on twitter) it makes me wonder if all it was was sex. I mean, I'm cool with that if that's what it is but see, heres the s*** I don't like. Don't start talking to me about relationships and potential s*** if all your intentions are in the first place are to f***. Don't get me to open up and talk about s*** I usually don't talk about if all you want is sex. My guard stays up and I can usually dismiss men without a second thought because my lifestyle makes it easy not to get attached but for some reason this is a tad bit different.
Be honest, don't take away MY CHOICE to decide if I want to sleep with you or not. 9/10 if I flew out to see you, you have only one bed that we're sharing, cuddling usually leads to a little more. But don't lie to get it.
Basically, I know I played myself because I knew better. I guess this is just a venting post. I'm not angry more like, I had a good foundation, I was chilling not really concerned with finding a man or making it my priority then he came along and just kicked the dirt around and made s*** hazy for me.
UPDATE::::
** sooooooo long story short because I wanna get off this now, I found out he has a girl and she lives out of town and she does the same job as me so she flies to see him frequently as well. I'm done, I'm good, a little upset but nothing I wont bounce back from**
Written on the iPad sorry for the errors
I texted him the following day asking his schedule for specific days in a few weeks because I'd planned on going there for my girls party. I got no response. I didn't think anything of it because I've gone a day or 2 and not responded to his text before because I get busy, and i know his lifestyle and i sure hes busy as well because this was ine thing we loved that we had in common...then the next day he text me and its back and forth then it stops abruptly a few hours later i call him and no answer....then he text me again that night but I still haven't responded cause I don't play this back and forth text s***. now after spending time with him and knowing how he operates and how he usually has his phone around (and he's briefly been on twitter) it makes me wonder if all it was was sex. I mean, I'm cool with that if that's what it is but see, heres the s*** I don't like. Don't start talking to me about relationships and potential s*** if all your intentions are in the first place are to f***. Don't get me to open up and talk about s*** I usually don't talk about if all you want is sex. My guard stays up and I can usually dismiss men without a second thought because my lifestyle makes it easy not to get attached but for some reason this is a tad bit different.
Be honest, don't take away MY CHOICE to decide if I want to sleep with you or not. 9/10 if I flew out to see you, you have only one bed that we're sharing, cuddling usually leads to a little more. But don't lie to get it.
Basically, I know I played myself because I knew better. I guess this is just a venting post. I'm not angry more like, I had a good foundation, I was chilling not really concerned with finding a man or making it my priority then he came along and just kicked the dirt around and made s*** hazy for me.
UPDATE::::
** sooooooo long story short because I wanna get off this now, I found out he has a girl and she lives out of town and she does the same job as me so she flies to see him frequently as well. I'm done, I'm good, a little upset but nothing I wont bounce back from**
Written on the iPad sorry for the errors
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Permalink Reply by Lady on -
Yess hunn, straight to the point, make it clear to him
AllyNWonderland said:Ok so basically come out straight to the point? Got it and I will let you know
Moving In Silence said:This
ms ESPN said:Wow... Next time he text you or call you ask him what it is then tell him about himself "we were talking about relationships and you don't text me back, were you just talking or were you forreal blah blah blah". Please give me a update Im curious to find out how it goes.
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This same thing is why I went celibate.....it was like dudes was just interested in hittin. I was like cool, I guess cuz I wasnt tryna be in a relationship either, but then the weirdest thing happened, when I wanted to initaite it. I had a lil steady and that is what I came to him for. When I did, he hit me with the"you don't call, text, or check on me" basically he wasn't tryna give up the D. LOL I was like this ish is for the birds....so I just decided to do the infamous BA Mancation. I took control of it and was good. During this time, I became the biggest tease of my life. I had so much fun. I was meeting guys and going on dates...sometimes twice in one day. Sex was ....so.....far......from.....my.....mind, that it allowed me to "talk s*** to these men and demand the treatment I deserved, cuz they was playing by my terms, and THEY WANTED TO PLAY BY MY TERMS." Also, don't feel like you played yourself, cuz u obviously WANTED to f***....I guess you just wanted him to be ur man too......but next time, talk about being in a relationship before you have sex and that being the only way you will have sex, if you are in a relationship. They still gon play games and do man stuff, but they will see you as a different kind of girl, cuz they will know that u just aint f***** to be f*****. IMO when you f*** without being in a "relationship" you severely limit your chances of gettin in one with that guy. If they can hit witout any kind of commitment to you, then once they get it, in their minds you will not be worthy of their commitment.
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Permalink Reply by AllyNWonderland on -
Ok bumped for the update
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on -
Damn. *hugs*
AllyNWonderland said:Ok bumped for the update
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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on -
*hugs* puddin
He's lucky you're one those chicks that didn't go ape s*** on his ass. *breathe in, breathe out*
Next time he won't be so lucky lol
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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on -
shiiiiiiit lol...cuts out all the hassle
But I agree with RAD sometimes people lose their luster oh well on to the next.
MissBling said:A f*** nigga,that's that s*** I don't like... I don't think dudes are capable of being honest when it comes to just wanting to get some.
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