For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
Yess hunn, straight to the point, make it clear to him
Ok so basically come out straight to the point? Got it and I will let you know
Moving In Silence said:
ms ESPN said:Wow... Next time he text you or call you ask him what it is then tell him about himself "we were talking about relationships and you don't text me back, were you just talking or were you forreal blah blah blah". Please give me a update Im curious to find out how it goes.
This same thing is why I went celibate.....it was like dudes was just interested in hittin. I was like cool, I guess cuz I wasnt tryna be in a relationship either, but then the weirdest thing happened, when I wanted to initaite it. I had a lil steady and that is what I came to him for. When I did, he hit me with the"you don't call, text, or check on me" basically he wasn't tryna give up the D. LOL I was like this ish is for the birds....so I just decided to do the infamous BA Mancation. I took control of it and was good. During this time, I became the biggest tease of my life. I had so much fun. I was meeting guys and going on dates...sometimes twice in one day. Sex was ....so.....far......from.....my.....mind, that it allowed me to "talk s*** to these men and demand the treatment I deserved, cuz they was playing by my terms, and THEY WANTED TO PLAY BY MY TERMS." Also, don't feel like you played yourself, cuz u obviously WANTED to f***....I guess you just wanted him to be ur man too......but next time, talk about being in a relationship before you have sex and that being the only way you will have sex, if you are in a relationship. They still gon play games and do man stuff, but they will see you as a different kind of girl, cuz they will know that u just aint f***** to be f*****. IMO when you f*** without being in a "relationship" you severely limit your chances of gettin in one with that guy. If they can hit witout any kind of commitment to you, then once they get it, in their minds you will not be worthy of their commitment.
Ok bumped for the update
He's lucky you're one those chicks that didn't go ape s*** on his ass. *breathe in, breathe out*
Next time he won't be so lucky lol
shiiiiiiit lol...cuts out all the hassle
But I agree with RAD sometimes people lose their luster oh well on to the next.
A f*** nigga,that's that s*** I don't like... I don't think dudes are capable of being honest when it comes to just wanting to get some.
Ok bumped for the update
What a d***! I'm sorry. :)