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I played myself *vent* **UPDATE**
Ok....let's not mention the front page blog....so here's the deal, for those who know me I be on some other s***. I'm usually a "hustling" "get it anyway I can" kind of girl. I've been chilling on the dude tip for a while and hadn't had sex in about 6/7 months. Well recently i went to visit a baller friend of mine that I met back in 2010 I think. Now before this first occasion, we've chatted many times within the past 2 years through text or Skype. When I met him he was just so beautiful to me, breathtaking actually, well he had invited me to see him many times before and I had agreed but then stood him up about 4 maybe 5 times. So when we exchanged new numbers, through fb and the chatting started again I knew I really wanted to see him. This time I agreed to go visit him, I flew in after work and stayed 2.5 days. We had an amazing time together enjoying each others company, the first day i felt like a schoolgirl around him, blushing and s***...we had great in depth conversation about what we both wanted and he asked if I was coming back next week and I said sure but it would be after my mini vacation trip to DR which is next week...that night kissing amd cuddling led to sex. It is what it is...he dropped me off at the airport we said our goodbyes and then texted while I was waiting for my flight and later on that night once I was in my hotel.
I texted him the following day asking his schedule for specific days in a few weeks because I'd planned on going there for my girls party. I got no response. I didn't think anything of it because I've gone a day or 2 and not responded to his text before because I get busy, and i know his lifestyle and i sure hes busy as well because this was ine thing we loved that we had in common...then the next day he text me and its back and forth then it stops abruptly a few hours later i call him and no answer....then he text me again that night but I still haven't responded cause I don't play this back and forth text s***. now after spending time with him and knowing how he operates and how he usually has his phone around (and he's briefly been on twitter) it makes me wonder if all it was was sex. I mean, I'm cool with that if that's what it is but see, heres the s*** I don't like. Don't start talking to me about relationships and potential s*** if all your intentions are in the first place are to f***. Don't get me to open up and talk about s*** I usually don't talk about if all you want is sex. My guard stays up and I can usually dismiss men without a second thought because my lifestyle makes it easy not to get attached but for some reason this is a tad bit different.
Be honest, don't take away MY CHOICE to decide if I want to sleep with you or not. 9/10 if I flew out to see you, you have only one bed that we're sharing, cuddling usually leads to a little more. But don't lie to get it.
Basically, I know I played myself because I knew better. I guess this is just a venting post. I'm not angry more like, I had a good foundation, I was chilling not really concerned with finding a man or making it my priority then he came along and just kicked the dirt around and made s*** hazy for me.
UPDATE::::
** sooooooo long story short because I wanna get off this now, I found out he has a girl and she lives out of town and she does the same job as me so she flies to see him frequently as well. I'm done, I'm good, a little upset but nothing I wont bounce back from**
Written on the iPad sorry for the errors
I texted him the following day asking his schedule for specific days in a few weeks because I'd planned on going there for my girls party. I got no response. I didn't think anything of it because I've gone a day or 2 and not responded to his text before because I get busy, and i know his lifestyle and i sure hes busy as well because this was ine thing we loved that we had in common...then the next day he text me and its back and forth then it stops abruptly a few hours later i call him and no answer....then he text me again that night but I still haven't responded cause I don't play this back and forth text s***. now after spending time with him and knowing how he operates and how he usually has his phone around (and he's briefly been on twitter) it makes me wonder if all it was was sex. I mean, I'm cool with that if that's what it is but see, heres the s*** I don't like. Don't start talking to me about relationships and potential s*** if all your intentions are in the first place are to f***. Don't get me to open up and talk about s*** I usually don't talk about if all you want is sex. My guard stays up and I can usually dismiss men without a second thought because my lifestyle makes it easy not to get attached but for some reason this is a tad bit different.
Be honest, don't take away MY CHOICE to decide if I want to sleep with you or not. 9/10 if I flew out to see you, you have only one bed that we're sharing, cuddling usually leads to a little more. But don't lie to get it.
Basically, I know I played myself because I knew better. I guess this is just a venting post. I'm not angry more like, I had a good foundation, I was chilling not really concerned with finding a man or making it my priority then he came along and just kicked the dirt around and made s*** hazy for me.
UPDATE::::
** sooooooo long story short because I wanna get off this now, I found out he has a girl and she lives out of town and she does the same job as me so she flies to see him frequently as well. I'm done, I'm good, a little upset but nothing I wont bounce back from**
Written on the iPad sorry for the errors
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Permalink Reply by DdoubleD on -
I always wonder what the hell is the point of lying. Just be honest because if you are you will be respected you so much more for it (PASS ON TO ALL MEN). I’m glad you got it off your chest. Don’t take it personally some ninjas just aren‘t use to a real women who want honesty. The Most important thing is to not let this one man make you not trust the next man. I have seen so many woman become bitter because of what a man did and miss their soul mates because of it!
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Permalink Reply by MissBling on -
A f*** nigga,that's that s*** I don't like... I don't think dudes are capable of being honest when it comes to just wanting to get some.
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Permalink Reply by Lady on -
Wow... Next time he text you or call you ask him what it is then tell him about himself "we were talking about relationships and you don't text me back, were you just talking or were you forreal blah blah blah". Please give me a update Im curious to find out how it goes.
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Permalink Reply by Rad on
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I'm confused at exactly what he did wrong before you guys slept together. I'm even more confused how he took your choice away to sleep with him. It's entirely possible he meant everything he said before you guys slept together. You're a beautiful girl. I'm sure he was seeing rainbows and butterflies and long term possibilities before the sex, but afterwards he changed his mind. It happens. You were feeling him and you slept with him. No shame in that - even if you do feel played.
Meh, I tend to be a little naive with men so take it with a grain.
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Permalink Reply by Miss Good on -
Youre not alone, men do this all the time and then wonder why girls act crazy. If they would be honest about their intentions first hand, they could get more play b/c alot of women are ok with just sex. But that relationship talk and all that other s*** JUST to get the drawls is that s*** i dont like. It just really blows me. He may come around and if nOt, f*** him.
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Permalink Reply by Moving In Silence on -
This
ms ESPN said:Wow... Next time he text you or call you ask him what it is then tell him about himself "we were talking about relationships and you don't text me back, were you just talking or were you forreal blah blah blah". Please give me a update Im curious to find out how it goes.
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Permalink Reply by PhoenixRising on -
Hey ally u live in charlotte?
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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on -
Maybe I missed it, but how long has it been since ur visit? Don't take it personal. I sometimes have my phone with me but still don't have the time to talk or text because I could be focused on something else. I 've went a few days without calling my dad when I had intentions of calling him days before. I can be like let me call my dad, then someone may call me, then I gotta run in da store, fix dinner, eat, workout, work, check BA, twitter, shower, quiet time - sometimes life does get a hold of us.
OAN: Its as if when we are closed, we're good...as soon as we open up to someone a little, some BS happens and make us doubt the reason we decide to be open. Maybe you wanna be in a relationship right now, so don't let what he may have done change ur mind.
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Permalink Reply by AllyNWonderland on -
I haven't pyhsically seen him since I met him 2 years ago but we've communicated in between then...but I think that subconsciously I want a relationship but I'm super guarded and I started to relax a little but I gotta pull back a little now.
MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:Maybe I missed it, but how long has it been since ur visit? Don't take it personal. I sometimes have my phone with me but still don't have the time to talk or text because I could be focused on something else. I 've went a few days without calling my dad when I had intentions of calling him days before. I can be like let me call my dad, then someone may call me, then I gotta run in da store, fix dinner, eat, workout, work, check BA, twitter, shower, quiet time - sometimes life does get a hold of us.
OAN: Its as if when we are closed, we're good...as soon as we open up to someone a little, some BS happens and make us doubt the reason we decide to be open. Maybe you wanna be in a relationship right now, so don't let what he may have done change ur mind.
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Permalink Reply by AllyNWonderland on
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Ok so basically come out straight to the point? Got it and I will let you know
Moving In Silence said:This
ms ESPN said:Wow... Next time he text you or call you ask him what it is then tell him about himself "we were talking about relationships and you don't text me back, were you just talking or were you forreal blah blah blah". Please give me a update Im curious to find out how it goes.
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Permalink Reply by Quita on
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girl, he is just being a man. dont even trip...u win some, u lose some. u went, enjoyed yourself, did what you wanted to do.
do you feel as though he got your hopes up, only to disappoint? if you are naturally a hustler and always guarded, it shouldnt be a thing to bounce back. u can't let him (or yourself for that matter) feel as though he got the upperhand.
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