I SHOULD KNOW BETTER TO ASK MY BA FAM THIS BUT THEN AGAIN...LOL

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Permalink Reply by ladyt105 on July 16, 2009 at 4:22pm

How would we ever meet? If he is broke we would never be in the same places. LOL so my answer would be never.

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Permalink Reply by Monica Amazing on July 16, 2009 at 4:27pm

No

the end.

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Permalink Reply by Sheli on July 16, 2009 at 4:36pm

Nope, I can't do a man who won't support himself, so unless i popped him out myself, I can't see myself supporting dude and even if i did pop him out he only gets a 15 year free ride.

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Permalink Reply by C.J. on July 16, 2009 at 4:45pm

Nope. I feed him, provide him with food, clothing and shelter and on top of that I gotta fuck him too? Hell no!

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Permalink Reply by Babydoll on July 16, 2009 at 4:53pm

Simply put, no.

Women ARE desperate these days.

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Permalink Reply by Starr on July 16, 2009 at 4:56pm

Nah, I'm not into gigolos. Maybe if there was some definite certainty that he was going to be able to support us in the near future (like if he were in med school or something).

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Permalink Reply by OfficialGroupie on July 16, 2009 at 5:31pm

Hell to the no. I've done the shit before when I was young, dumb, and stoooopid. I was thinking that it was ok since I started my career at 22. I was stacking 60K a year at the time and figured it was ok to "help" my man out since the average 22 year old wasn't making that kind of money.

However, since that was "awhile" ago, I be damned if I date a 30 year old man that aint making the same amount or more than myself. He's had enough time to get his shit together. At the end of the day, it was and will ALWAYS be an issue. They felt intimidated by the shit.

I gotta agree with Boss on this statement. "I have messed with rich and not so rich. The not so rich guys I fucked with it was fights over stupid shit and most was about money."

They also didn't appreciate it when I picked up the tab at dinner, for example. They started feeling entitled or thinking they were kings cause I was paying for shit.

At this point in my life, he need to be on my level financially or higher. I feel like, if I can do the shit, so you can you.

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Permalink Reply by Cookie Pie on July 16, 2009 at 5:38pm

Nope .... I'm not a whore and I don't need a pimp !

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Permalink Reply by Cougar $pice on July 16, 2009 at 5:45pm

LMAO @ the responses. Boss you know we wouldn't be on here if we did this nonsense. I can't do this. How are we progressing as a couple if this is the case. His ass will get too comfortable and abandon any ambition he has. Then he'll kiss his teeth and find a Becky (j/k). lol

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Permalink Reply by Charlie/Daddy's Girl on July 16, 2009 at 6:09pm

I mean, if he took a fall and he had been supporting me - I've got his back for 6-8 months (I don't mean clothes and going out...I'm mean our bills, that's it and I'm not paying his rent)...he needs to be a true huslter though, the minute he looks like he's not on his grind to get back and better I'M OUT...

Just of the strength of supporting a nucca, fudge no...NO WAY, NO HOW!

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Permalink Reply by Moving In Silence on July 16, 2009 at 10:09pm

I don't mind picking up the tap every once and awhile but if a 'man' asked for $$ to pay a bill I'd die. ROTFLOL @ his bitch ass. What type of 'man' could form his mouth to ask his woman for some doe?

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Permalink Reply by Serafina on July 17, 2009 at 3:22am

No. Oh no. Oh hell no. I dont care if he has the cutest dimples in the world. He could be a former African prince still waiting on the donations from the folks he sent those emails to.

I met an Officer living in England, through a mutual friend of ours, this January. By February, he was paying my rent, utilities and expenses. Simply on the strenght of our phone conversations and the pics our friend and myself had shown him.

He spoiled me. So if a man doesnt have it or arent close to getting it, then he can lower his standards of thinking he's going to get me.

I take care of no adult males. If he cant pick himself up. He is not dragging me down with him.

There was a story on Necole Bitchie about a woman ruining her credit for a broke never been rapper. Said she was in love. Love should have made his azz get a paying job.

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