I SHOULD KNOW BETTER TO ASK MY BA FAM THIS BUT THEN AGAIN...LOL

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Permalink Reply by L0vie D0vie on November 15, 2009 at 6:18pm

My EX!

Moving In Silence said:

I don't mind picking up the tap every once and awhile but if a 'man' asked for $$ to pay a bill I'd die. ROTFLOL @ his bitch ass. What type of 'man' could form his mouth to ask his woman for some doe?

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Permalink Reply by Cougar $pice on November 15, 2009 at 7:15pm

LMAO @ the 2 of you.

L0vie D0vie said:

My EX!

Moving In Silence said:

I don't mind picking up the tap every once and awhile but if a 'man' asked for $$ to pay a bill I'd die. ROTFLOL @ his bitch ass. What type of 'man' could form his mouth to ask his woman for some doe?

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Permalink Reply by C*u*t*e* on November 15, 2009 at 7:45pm

No. For 1 I would never get that close to him in the first place for me to fall in love and I'm sure half of those women were lying if it came to real life. I know for sure I'd be lying if I did.

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Permalink Reply by KJ on November 15, 2009 at 8:56pm

I couldn't even date a man that couldn't support himself, instant dealbreaker

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Permalink Reply by NailCandy on November 16, 2009 at 2:03am

BAM BAM BAM....tell em gurl!!!!

Cookie Pie said:

Nope .... I'm not a whore and I don't need a pimp !

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Permalink Reply by Nancy Noel on November 16, 2009 at 12:50pm

I agree, I started a job that made me alot of money at 21 and when i started i was involed in a relationship and i was dumb enough to do that shit. even tho it was only 2 years ago, i learn that was not the beat, dude started acting diffrently he changed and i changed for the better. I mean u live and u learn and you ret real.
So no i would never help support another man, help another man get by etc etc. I mean i work hard fo my money.

OfficialGroupie said:

Hell to the no. I've done the shit before when I was young, dumb, and stoooopid. I was thinking that it was ok since I started my career at 22. I was stacking 60K a year at the time and figured it was ok to "help" my man out since the average 22 year old wasn't making that kind of money.

However, since that was "awhile" ago, I be damned if I date a 30 year old man that aint making the same amount or more than myself. He's had enough time to get his shit together. At the end of the day, it was and will ALWAYS be an issue. They felt intimidated by the shit.

I gotta agree with Boss on this statement. "I have messed with rich and not so rich. The not so rich guys I fucked with it was fights over stupid shit and most was about money."

They also didn't appreciate it when I picked up the tab at dinner, for example. They started feeling entitled or thinking they were kings cause I was paying for shit.

At this point in my life, he need to be on my level financially or higher. I feel like, if I can do the shit, so you can you.

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Permalink Reply by Keytolife on November 16, 2009 at 1:10pm

I wouldn't say I took care of a dude in the sense of providing shelter and controlling his whole lively hood, but I have given jiggas my last.... income taxes (when I didn't have to pay them back), financial aid reimbursement, school money (lol), paychecks, fly wardrobes and more all out of love and I would NEVER do that mess again. I don't care how deep the love is. Now I'd help you get on your feet (find you a job or put you onto my hustle) so we could do the 50/50 thing but it's not going further than that. Ladies hold on to your hard earned money.

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Permalink Reply by Lisa on November 16, 2009 at 9:02pm

I have done this several time and it is a very bad idea. I am just now realizing it is the exact reason why my relationships never work. Im financially supporting them and I totally lose respect for them as a man. I end up demeaning them verbally so much that it just ruins everything. A dude that needs money from a woman is a total waste of time.

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Permalink Reply by Golden Child on November 16, 2009 at 10:57pm

Fuck naw im gone still love him after we break up but hell no thts the reason i started to love you was cause of the money and amazing sex...

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