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Permalink Reply by JustMe on December 19, 2009 at 10:46am

1. it comes with the territory
2. some folks are never in the blogs, and its not because they aren't A-List

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Permalink Reply by yolanda on December 19, 2009 at 11:09am

Exactly but his people called me naive..I told them everyone is not the blogs but his mum told me I was not being realistic I am like it is what it is at times thanks for your response

JustMe said:

1. it comes with the territory
2. some folks are never in the blogs, and its not because they aren't A-List

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on December 19, 2009 at 11:11am

Hey, as long as there still talking... but you have to have thick skin and brush off what peolpe say, but at the same time maybe take some of those comments, opinions in stride and evaluate them- does it makes sense what their saying or are they just talking? sometimes I want to know what someone else is thinking about me, what i did, what im wearing, what i said......

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Permalink Reply by JustMe on December 19, 2009 at 11:42am

you're right... the sad part is we've all been criticized at some point or another in our lives... especially if we ever did anything that went against the grain, or wasn't considered "black"... so by the time you become "blogworthy" lol, its just another day...

yolanda said:

Exactly but his people called me naive..I told them everyone is not the blogs but his mum told me I was not being realistic I am like it is what it is at times thanks for your response

JustMe said:

1. it comes with the territory
2. some folks are never in the blogs, and its not because they aren't A-List

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on December 19, 2009 at 11:50am

What's the difference, CNN and so callled 'legitimate' news services do it all the time. Just ask Tiger. LOL
Publicity good or bad is still free :)

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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on December 19, 2009 at 11:58am

Could you live your life like this?


All that "hey, everybody has an off day" would be out the door. Not saying that your life would be on Halle's level, but if you're the wife of an NBA player or anybody famous, or if you become famous yourself, you always have to be "on". I think I started a discussion about this a while ago.

Even if you dont have the paparazzi chasing you, people still look at you and watch you. Look at how people on this site have so much to say about how a certain NBA player's wife or girlfriend looks. A freind of mine of FaceBook put on his status that this woman asked him how come he wears a different pair of shoes everyday and he was just like wow, you never know who's watching you and notices the little things you think nobody will notice. Wanna go out with that little h*** in your sock you think nobody will notice? Sheeeeit, them blogs will have a pic of you, ZOOM IN on your feet and talk about how you have holes in your sock "isnt her baller taking care of her?" is what they'll talk about.

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Permalink Reply by yolanda on December 19, 2009 at 4:59pm

Thank you to everyone who responded because I know I will never be blog worthy thank GOD..but when I was in the Navy I know how it used to be if you didn't dress correctly when we pulled into certain ports people would talk about you, take your picture and send it around the ship with captions like can you believe they wore that? Or dang how old is her baby and she still saying she has baby weight LoL...you just have to learn to take the good with the bad sometimes LOL

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Permalink Reply by Candy on December 20, 2009 at 4:06am

1st of all why would you tell your man's mom you frequent "Baller Alert", 2nd Why would you tell your man's sister you frequent "Baller Alert" and 3rd just why?

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Permalink Reply by yolanda on December 20, 2009 at 6:01am

to answer all 3 of your questions lol I don't see anything wrong coming on Baller Alert, so why should I hide it. They are at my house and I am on the computer am I suppose to hide what I am doing from them? They ask me do I come to the site which I do, its like I read necolebitchie, cnn and msnbc everyday would I hide that? Of course not lol. I like this site, like I explained to them, we discuss all types of things even what is everyone cooking for xmas dinner.

.Candy said:

1st of all why would you tell your man's mom you frequent "Baller Alert", 2nd Why would you tell your man's sister you frequent "Baller Alert" and 3rd just why?

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Permalink Reply by yolanda on December 20, 2009 at 4:08pm

Thanks @Tee and @ Cookie Pie to see where I am coming from. I like the site and see no reason to hide fact I come on here, like I stated when I was in the Navy shoot it was important to look right when we pulled into port because if not you would be talked about later on...or if you drink too much they would pass the pics around the ship only difference bwtn famous people and everyday people is a famous person's life and every move is usually recorded for the whole world to see when they make a mistake or do something off the wall

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