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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on November 29, 2011 at 1:19am

When u want a man ladies can tend to come off as thirsty. Check a post from a few days ago. Just be cool and one will come to you. Its always when u dont want one that u get many! lol

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Permalink Reply by Creative Bee on November 29, 2011 at 1:47am

lol girl, what do you do when telemarketers call you? Hang up right, you don't listen, you don't care what they are trying to sell, it might be something you really need, but you are not gonna hear because you already hung up. That's easy. Leave that telemarketing strategy alone, take the sign " I need a man" off your forehead. Can you loosen up and just have fun? 

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Permalink Reply by Student Beauty on November 29, 2011 at 7:17am

I think most of us have went through something like this one time or another. Just work on yourself and stay busy. I know it is better said than done. Take some time and read up on a better you, listen to enlightment music, and switch up your style. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. Make yourself get up and go and attend functions.   GIRL, DO YOU!!!!

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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on November 29, 2011 at 8:29am

I think you should see a therapist.

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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on November 29, 2011 at 8:45am

It aint all about looks luv....to be honest when you get older it becomes more about the substance if anything.

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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on November 29, 2011 at 8:46am

hilarious

Tone said:

Send me your pic and I will see what you're missing

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Permalink Reply by SACK CHASER on November 29, 2011 at 8:52am

+1

blackfujones said:

It aint all about looks luv....to be honest when you get older it becomes more about the substance if anything.

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Permalink Reply by SACK CHASER on November 29, 2011 at 8:53am

The tone of this post makes you see desperate and unstable. Relax and enjoy your life as a single woman!

SACK CHASER said:

+1

blackfujones said:

It aint all about looks luv....to be honest when you get older it becomes more about the substance if anything.

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Permalink Reply by Desiree' on November 29, 2011 at 9:52am

+1

Love is a Losing Game said:

When u want a man ladies can tend to come off as thirsty. Check a post from a few days ago. Just be cool and one will come to you. Its always when u dont want one that u get many! lol

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on November 29, 2011 at 10:13am

Why are you fixated on just 'getting a man'? Are you looking at those around you with men and think everything is ok in their relationships?  When you get him how are you going to keep him interested when you're giving off the nervous/low self esteem/unsure vibe?

 

What sort of life do you live? ~where do you go? do you socialize? do you volunteer? do you go to charity events?   

Stop looking for a man and live life and be social and active. You'll meet men, date and you may click with someone.  Find other things to occupy your mind with, you'll calm down, seem more approachable and when the men see you as someone they want to be with they will flock to you.

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Permalink Reply by SACK CHASER on November 29, 2011 at 10:17am

ALL OF THIS!!!!

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

Why are you fixated on just 'getting a man'? Are you looking at those around you with men and think everything is ok in their relationships?  When you get him how are you going to keep him interested when you're giving off the nervous/low self esteem/unsure vibe?

 

What sort of life do you live? ~where do you go? do you socialize? do you volunteer? do you go to charity events?   

Stop looking for a man and live life and be social and active. You'll meet men, date and you may click with someone.  Find other things to occupy your mind with, you'll calm down, seem more approachable and when the men see you as someone they want to be with they will flock to you.

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on November 29, 2011 at 10:23am

~~~and are you not getting the men you're attracted to and turning down men who are actually interested? Sometimes we say we can't get a man/woman  forgetting we're turning down men/woman (goes for both men and women) who actually want us because of looks etc.

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