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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on August 27, 2010 at 1:05pm

Wow.

I was in a situation where I found out a guy I was messing around with had other b****** in his house (and we always talked, texted, ALWAYS answered when I called, etc) but what I realized after crying and thinking he liked her better and they are gonna be together forever is that, he was doing the same thing to her as he was doing to me. Had I never found out about her, he would have kept right on seeing me and telling her whatever lie he wanted to tell when we were together, etc. Basically playing the both of us.
And come to find out this nigga's on Match.com and from the date he signed up, was around the time a little after I found out about the other chick! So, he's STILL out there looking for other b****** to f***. She wasn't special and I wasn't special. And dude is about 16 years older than me and probably 20 years older than the other girl. I don't know now, but they probay aint even talking or seeing each other anymore, but if they are, he is still talking to other chicks and s***, she probably doing her thang too. I was the one taking the s*** way to seriously!

I had to realize some harsh reality like Mesha said like, while I'm crying and thinking of some revenge s***, that nigga's probably balls deep in that girl and aint even thinking about me! And if he was, he would never let me know it. And like CCDreamer said and I have had many people tell me, he will get his! I never wanted to get at the other girl, my issue was with him being a liar.

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Permalink Reply by Irreplaceable_me on August 27, 2010 at 1:36pm

KARMA is alive and well and every DOG has its day.

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Permalink Reply by AllyNWonderland on August 28, 2010 at 12:15am

Hey ladies, ok so today was a good day...finallly in my hotel and winding down...I wrote on the plane all day today...my affirmations, thoughts, tits and tats...it just feels good to get over it

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Permalink Reply by Allergic2Counterfeit on August 28, 2010 at 12:29am

Yep, writing helped me a lot. It feels good to get your thoughts on paper, it's like a therapy and it helped me move on. Glad you're feeling better! :-)

The chick formerly known as Ally said:

Hey ladies, ok so today was a good day...finallly in my hotel and winding down...I wrote on the plane all day today...my affirmations, thoughts, tits and tats...it just feels good to get over it

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Permalink Reply by ChiGeminiGirl on August 28, 2010 at 1:31am

Totally agree, take some time out for you to feel and get better, take a vacay have a spa day i hope everything works out for the better, and you get well soon.

Golden Child said:

Ditto I agree, this is just what you needed, I don't mean to be harsh but good thing you're not pregnant anymore. Just imagine being prego with all those hormones going through your body and finding out some ish like this. EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON!

Ashley Banks said:

Smitty hit the nail on the head! This is just confirmation that you did the right thing. I know it hurts so bad right now, but girl, be glad you're rid of the drama. Let her deal with his trifling behind. Smitty's Bed & Breakfast said:

It's over right?? Let it go. Take this as confirmation that you made the right decision.

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Permalink Reply by Butter_Cup on August 28, 2010 at 12:05pm

Wow!!! I'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother & your health I myself just lost my mother to cancer 1 1/2months ago. I no how hard this can be. Even if you did break up with his ass your going through alot right now, he should be there for you no matter what girl. I'm in shock at this post. Please just pray.. everytime you think about the pain and hurt he's put you through re-think about everything your going through RIGHT NOW and his no good ass isnt there for you... He was more then just a lover but one of your best friends and you need his support and he's no where around. Let that f*ck boy go.... Now put all of that energy into YOURSELF... Take a trip if you can to clear your mind dnt let this jerk add more on your plate beautiful.. Good luck :o)

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Permalink Reply by AllyNWonderland on August 28, 2010 at 12:37pm

yea, I have come to realize that and I am coping and dealing with the situation through rebuilding myself....thanks love

Butter_Cup said:

Wow!!! I'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother & your health I myself just lost my mother to cancer 1 1/2months ago. I no how hard this can be. Even if you did break up with his ass your going through alot right now, he should be there for you no matter what girl. I'm in shock at this post. Please just pray.. everytime you think about the pain and hurt he's put you through re-think about everything your going through RIGHT NOW and his no good ass isnt there for you... He was more then just a lover but one of your best friends and you need his support and he's no where around. Let that f*ck boy go.... Now put all of that energy into YOURSELF... Take a trip if you can to clear your mind dnt let this jerk add more on your plate beautiful.. Good luck :o)

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Permalink Reply by Elise' on August 28, 2010 at 3:21pm

wow, you've been through alot!! you need to continue to take care of you, treat yourself like a queen. eat good and take something to help you sleep if need be.

now, it sounds like she knew about you and was determined to move to the main spot--he knows he was messing w/this chick, come on--chicks are desperate and they have no shame now days. He is a a******, he has not called and he has been sneaky!

I say, keep it cute and hopefully-you'll run into him looking GORGEOUS!!

I'm kind pissed off at the ho hopping s*** too, like very!

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