I'm so tired of these f#@king athletes!
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I just needed to vent because i'm fed up. I'm so tired of these athletes (especially the married ones) trying to hit it! I swear, if one more millionaire tries to sleep with me i'm gonna go off! Now...let me back up here. I have worked in the sports industry in some capacity for about 8 years now. I come across alot of athletes. In the beginning my side hustle was marketing for athletes so I met them through networking. Now my 9-5 is within a professional sports organization. Now, anyone that knows anything about working in sports will know that it doesnt pay shit. I took the job (and the pay cut) to get my foot in the door. Now, i'm definitely living on a budget and just started looking for a part time job. But I absolutely love my job. More and more i'm getting these athletes that are trying to have sex. I'm cool with alot of them and you really get to see a different side of them when you meet in a professional manner as opposed to the club. But i'm starting to get hit on by rookies, married, single and guys I met 3-4 years ago (you know how they will send a text out the blue saying "just wanted to see how you were doing" and it starts from there) To sum it up, my frustration comes from this...I'm sitting here barely making ends meet and i'm tired of these millionaires trying to blow my back out and yet I don't have anyone I can call when i need something. But the question is...do I tell them this is why I don't want to be bothered? Not that this is the only reason because I really just dont want the drama that comes with dating athletes. I would rather be cool with them but shit...some of them are FINE! And i'm only human. Ive been without sex for quite some time and it's getting harder and harder to say no. LOL. I just had a conversation with one that I met about 6 years ago. We used to talk and had sex once. I dont understand why he's reaching out again but he wanted me to go on a trip with him. I said that I was working 2 jobs because I had to make 5K quick so my student loans wouldnt go into default. Now, none of this is true. I just wanted to see what he would say. His reply was...well, pick anywhere that you want to go and I will send you. You need to get away and relax and take your mind off of things. You need to be pampered. WTF! That's not what I wanted to hear. I just wanted to see if he would offer to help. So how can I go back down that road with him? I cant.
I know this post is all over the place but i'm so fed up and want to tell all of them to kiss my ass.
I know this post is all over the place but i'm so fed up and want to tell all of them to kiss my ass.
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Permalink Reply by Siren on -
Tell him great and you are going to need a few stacks of spending money on that trip cause you are overextended.... They are not mind readers, they have no problem telling you what they want, you need to do the same.
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Permalink Reply by Monica Amazing on -
I know all about the pay in pro sports. I couldn't take it anymore. I miss it but not the pay. lol
Anywway, If these athletes want to just have sex and not help, don't give them the time of day. Fuck'em.
But if they wanna send you on a trip and be cool..girl, pack yo bags and maybe next time you need something, it'll be "I gotchu. What's your account number?
Hell, you gotta start somewhere. *shrugs*
I'm gonna co-sign with Siren. On point.
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Permalink Reply by Boss/MadamBA on -
I agree with Siren...ASK! And if you want to trick a lil then do you. lol
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Permalink Reply by Cherry on -
I guess I should ask because obviously they don't pick up on the hints. LOL. The bad thing is that I have a negative attitude towards athletes anyway. I guess because I've seen so much negative stuff and I hear them when they talk about women. But reality is, some of them are such gentlemen and nice and caring once you really get to know them. And most of the time it's not them...it's these thirsty ass women out here that will do any and everything to get next to them. So when I get approached by athletes I already have a bad attitude. That's not right. So, I will start tonight by telling this dude that he can fly me to this nice resort in Phoenix. It's so beautiful. (Or do you guys have any suggstions on places) Then I will take it from there.
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Permalink Reply by alluringeyes on -
I know what resort you are talking about. You should also check out resorts in CA or the Dominican Republic (my all time favorite place). Just a thought. Have a nice trip!
Cherry said:I guess I should ask because obviously they don't pick up on the hints. LOL. The bad thing is that I have a negative attitude towards athletes anyway. I guess because I've seen so much negative stuff and I hear them when they talk about women. But reality is, some of them are such gentlemen and nice and caring once you really get to know them. And most of the time it's not them...it's these thirsty ass women out here that will do any and everything to get next to them. So when I get approached by athletes I already have a bad attitude. That's not right. So, I will start tonight by telling this dude that he can fly me to this nice resort in Phoenix. It's so beautiful. (Or do you guys have any suggstions on places) Then I will take it from there.
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Permalink Reply by Moving In Silence on -
How much do massage therapist and trainers make? Man that's depressing.
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