For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
Good morning ladies.
I'll keep this short and sweet.
I have this guy on FB (yes, that's where we met thru a mutual friend) that lives in London. He is a male model. Runway, print, all of that. Gorgeous. He has two kids. We always joke about me coming over there and starting our own family. (I've known him for a few years now). He has two boys, I have one girl. He wants another girl. He says I'll be well taken care of. Blah blah blah.
So I'm talking to him today about flight prices and possibly coming in July.
But I look at his page...and he flirts with women...AND men. So I'm like (. . ) .
Then I go, "baby I have a question." He's like, "okay." I say, "are you bisexual???"
No answer.
It's been 20 minutes since I asked the question.
Not that I was gonna run off and start this family NOW, but er uhhh....
What say you?
Permalink Reply by BabyBallerCheeks on April 6, 2012 at 10:32am *jaw drops* DAMN GINA!!!
Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on April 6, 2012 at 11:01am I accept men and women who are bisexual but I just so happen to be straight. So just like I dont have sex with my bisexual female friends, I dont have sex with my bisexual male friends either. If the only why to 'accept' them is to f**k'em.......I'll pass.
Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on April 6, 2012 at 11:08am Thank you. I keep hearing we aren't accepting of black men's bisexuality. I accept there are black men that are gay and bisexual. I just don't accept fecal matter in my vagina. I've yet to hear of a dinga douche to flush all that mess out of their dingas.
University of Smitty said:
I accept men and women who are bisexual but I just so happen to be straight. So just like I dont have sex with my bisexual female friends, I dont have sex with my bisexual male friends either. If the only why to 'accept' them is to f**k'em.......I'll pass.
Permalink Reply by Goldie F***'n Fish on April 8, 2012 at 5:23am If it doesn't bother you, than the comment didnt apply to you.
I'm not coming on here to say you guys are the ones tearing our men down, let me clarify. I have this convo with my co-workers and friends. It's funny that a woman will see a man who's interested in other men and wrinkle her nose,"that nigga is sweet" then proceed to heckle him from afar but will turn around and have a threesome/fun with her lesbian friend.
But also, if exclusivity is discussed there shouldn't be any fecal matter getting in said vagina. If you(pheonix) trust him then you shouldn't have to worry about something happening without you knowing.
... But then again, we are talking about a man here. lol
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:
Whose not accepting? I am just not interested in being intimate with a man who has sex with other men. Anal to vagina sex causes a lot of diseases and problems for my vaginal area. He is welcomed to keep having sex with all the men he wants to and any woman who wishes to have sex with him. My preference is to keep fecal matter out of my vagina. Why is that wrong?
Label et Fringe said:This subject angers me. Perhaps I'm on the opposite side of the fence but I believe that men should be accepted for his bisexuality just like a woman is.
A woman being a "trysexual" is all but celebrated, yet a man can;t even expirement without being chastised. Then women wonder why men won't come out and be honest. We wouldn't accept them for who they are.
It's sad... I wish we could stop shunning our men. They need us to be accepting but they won't find it. They will stay in the closet and hide their desires from us because they know their response will fall on deaf ears.
.... But yeah, I agree, he should have said something but when did you guys start talking on a serious level. Because he might not felt it was relevant until then and by the time he got to that level, he was scared he would lose you. I don't think it's that big of a deal but If that's not something you would compromise on I can see how this could be devastating.
*disclaimer* I didn't read man
Permalink Reply by Phoenix on April 8, 2012 at 9:12am Exxxactly! He's too fine, so I've already had to deal with females messaging me on FB and this negro is in LONDON. So now I have to side eye women AND men...?! Naaaa.
Friendship it is.
Label et Fringe said:
If it doesn't bother you, than the comment didnt apply to you.
I'm not coming on here to say you guys are the ones tearing our men down, let me clarify. I have this convo with my co-workers and friends. It's funny that a woman will see a man who's interested in other men and wrinkle her nose,"that nigga is sweet" then proceed to heckle him from afar but will turn around and have a threesome/fun with her lesbian friend.
But also, if exclusivity is discussed there shouldn't be any fecal matter getting in said vagina. If you(pheonix) trust him then you shouldn't have to worry about something happening without you knowing.
... But then again, we are talking about a man here. lol
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:Whose not accepting? I am just not interested in being intimate with a man who has sex with other men. Anal to vagina sex causes a lot of diseases and problems for my vaginal area. He is welcomed to keep having sex with all the men he wants to and any woman who wishes to have sex with him. My preference is to keep fecal matter out of my vagina. Why is that wrong?
Label et Fringe said:This subject angers me. Perhaps I'm on the opposite side of the fence but I believe that men should be accepted for his bisexuality just like a woman is.
A woman being a "trysexual" is all but celebrated, yet a man can;t even expirement without being chastised. Then women wonder why men won't come out and be honest. We wouldn't accept them for who they are.
It's sad... I wish we could stop shunning our men. They need us to be accepting but they won't find it. They will stay in the closet and hide their desires from us because they know their response will fall on deaf ears.
.... But yeah, I agree, he should have said something but when did you guys start talking on a serious level. Because he might not felt it was relevant until then and by the time he got to that level, he was scared he would lose you. I don't think it's that big of a deal but If that's not something you would compromise on I can see how this could be devastating.
*disclaimer* I didn't read man
Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on April 8, 2012 at 12:54pm LOL I don't blame you! He has too much drama. In a minute he'll say that women aren't accepting him or treating him right and he'll decide or what have you to be gay. Men and their excuses for the ish they do.
Phoenix said:
Exxxactly! He's too fine, so I've already had to deal with females messaging me on FB and this negro is in LONDON. So now I have to side eye women AND men...?! Naaaa.
Friendship it is.
Label et Fringe said:If it doesn't bother you, than the comment didnt apply to you.
I'm not coming on here to say you guys are the ones tearing our men down, let me clarify. I have this convo with my co-workers and friends. It's funny that a woman will see a man who's interested in other men and wrinkle her nose,"that nigga is sweet" then proceed to heckle him from afar but will turn around and have a threesome/fun with her lesbian friend.
But also, if exclusivity is discussed there shouldn't be any fecal matter getting in said vagina. If you(pheonix) trust him then you shouldn't have to worry about something happening without you knowing.
... But then again, we are talking about a man here. lol
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:Whose not accepting? I am just not interested in being intimate with a man who has sex with other men. Anal to vagina sex causes a lot of diseases and problems for my vaginal area. He is welcomed to keep having sex with all the men he wants to and any woman who wishes to have sex with him. My preference is to keep fecal matter out of my vagina. Why is that wrong?
Label et Fringe said:This subject angers me. Perhaps I'm on the opposite side of the fence but I believe that men should be accepted for his bisexuality just like a woman is.
A woman being a "trysexual" is all but celebrated, yet a man can;t even expirement without being chastised. Then women wonder why men won't come out and be honest. We wouldn't accept them for who they are.
It's sad... I wish we could stop shunning our men. They need us to be accepting but they won't find it. They will stay in the closet and hide their desires from us because they know their response will fall on deaf ears.
.... But yeah, I agree, he should have said something but when did you guys start talking on a serious level. Because he might not felt it was relevant until then and by the time he got to that level, he was scared he would lose you. I don't think it's that big of a deal but If that's not something you would compromise on I can see how this could be devastating.
*disclaimer* I didn't read man
Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on April 8, 2012 at 1:16pm Exactly! In replying to you I was just giving her an opposing view of what may be in store for her should she decide to date him. Which she hasn't. It is always good to get both sides of the argument out there. Pros and cons.
Label et Fringe said:
If it doesn't bother you, than the comment didnt apply to you.
I'm not coming on here to say you guys are the ones tearing our men down, let me clarify. I have this convo with my co-workers and friends. It's funny that a woman will see a man who's interested in other men and wrinkle her nose,"that nigga is sweet" then proceed to heckle him from afar but will turn around and have a threesome/fun with her lesbian friend.
But also, if exclusivity is discussed there shouldn't be any fecal matter getting in said vagina. If you(pheonix) trust him then you shouldn't have to worry about something happening without you knowing.
... But then again, we are talking about a man here. lol
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:Whose not accepting? I am just not interested in being intimate with a man who has sex with other men. Anal to vagina sex causes a lot of diseases and problems for my vaginal area. He is welcomed to keep having sex with all the men he wants to and any woman who wishes to have sex with him. My preference is to keep fecal matter out of my vagina. Why is that wrong?
Label et Fringe said:This subject angers me. Perhaps I'm on the opposite side of the fence but I believe that men should be accepted for his bisexuality just like a woman is.
A woman being a "trysexual" is all but celebrated, yet a man can;t even expirement without being chastised. Then women wonder why men won't come out and be honest. We wouldn't accept them for who they are.
It's sad... I wish we could stop shunning our men. They need us to be accepting but they won't find it. They will stay in the closet and hide their desires from us because they know their response will fall on deaf ears.
.... But yeah, I agree, he should have said something but when did you guys start talking on a serious level. Because he might not felt it was relevant until then and by the time he got to that level, he was scared he would lose you. I don't think it's that big of a deal but If that's not something you would compromise on I can see how this could be devastating.
*disclaimer* I didn't read man
Permalink Reply by AllyNWonderland on April 8, 2012 at 1:35pm That nigga gay *In Riley voice*
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