Charlie/Daddy's Girl

Is Everything Fair Before 'I Love You'???? ***UPDATED***

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Is it ok to see other people, have sex with other people, etc - if 'I love you' has not been said????????

Do you need to need to have a 'talk', before being faithful?

Would you be faithful to someone that you love, but do not have a commitment to?

(Faithful = talking to, dating, exchanging numbers, etc)

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I would say yes. This is a tough one. I can be feeling you before I say I love you and vice versa. IDK. People look at sex/love differently.

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If you're not in a committed then I don't see a problem with it...nowadays people say I Love You and don't even mean it

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I dont know...the feelings are there before the words are actually said, so why would you want to see other people? I think its ok to see other people if there hasnt been any discussion on your official couple status, but if you're officially in a relationship, but the words are the only things missing then no.

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Depends on the boundaries or lack of boundaries you establish in the beginning of the relationship and the character of the individual you are dealing with. I love you doesn't mean commitment

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I agree 100%. If I'm moving towards something serious, I can not see leaving part of me with someone else. I would not be able to look into the "main" guys face. It may not be at the "I love you" stage yet, but we can care deeply about each other. METHOD OF MODERN LOVE.
Devyn AKA Dominique Devereaux said:
I dont know...the feelings are there before the words are actually said, so why would you want to see other people? I think its ok to see other people if there hasnt been any discussion on your official couple status, but if you're officially in a relationship, but the words are the only things missing then no.

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I agree, completely.

Devyn AKA Dominique Devereaux said:
I dont know...the feelings are there before the words are actually said, so why would you want to see other people? I think its ok to see other people if there hasnt been any discussion on your official couple status, but if you're officially in a relationship, but the words are the only things missing then no.

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Very hard question but I say no .... most people can tell when you care about them , just because it hasn't been said it is no excuse to whore around !

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I CONCUR!

Cookie Pie said:
Very hard question but I say no .... most people can tell when you care about them , just because it hasn't been said it is no excuse to whore around !

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Co- sign
I was going to say that but not as eloquently.lol
Cookie Pie said:
Very hard question but I say no .... most people can tell when you care about them , just because it hasn't been said it is no excuse to whore around !

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i believe so, i would say if he tells you he loves you and lets the world know that your his girl then i would say no, but until then "DO YOU". Love is a very strong word...careful how you use it and be sure you mean it..

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"Love will make u do some crazy things like be faithful " with that being said saying I love u or not when u love someone why would u want to see/ hve sex w someone eles.

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it's not actually the fact of being faithful its the fact that why should she be faithful to someone who if she's not sure if he loves her. just b/c you tell a man i love you dosent mean he's going to be w/ you and you only. before you decide to be faithful to this man make sure you are his "ONE AND ONLY" before giving yourself completely to him
The real vixxen said:
"Love will make u do some crazy things like be faithful " with that being said saying I love u or not when u love someone why would u want to see/ hve sex w someone eles.

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