Is he gay or is this a case of mistaken identity.
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Would like the peoples opinion....Got a friend, she met a guy, they became friends. There was a mutual attraction, that turned them into more than friends.. Turn for the worse happens, he confesses he is married, unfortunately they continued to see each other. This continues on for 3 years or so..Quick description of this guy, he is 6'2, solid 200pds..he is a mans man, former basketball player, does not like to wear open toe sandals, hates gay people, in general. Ok so due to the my friends conscious she begans trying to wean him off, however its very hard, he is well-endowed, and knows what he is doing, also he is very generous with his money..If my friend needed help with anything he was willing to help her out....So one day she says that she decided to do some investigating on the internet, she said her woman intuition was off the radar on that particular day....aside from the obvious of him being married, she said something told her to get on the internet. Did not know what she was neccesarily looking for at the time, she says she was just looking. He had used her laptop to check his email, so she started there..She hacked into the email, low and behold, she said he was all over the internet...actually paying to be on these dating sites, etc...now keep in mind he is still married...So she stumbles across one email that he sent to a white woman ( oh yea he hates white people as well)..the email was basically an invitation to a swingers set-up, the woman was looking to add an additional party to her and husband. Next she sees he has emails from his black planet account. She hacks into it..His profile is completely accurate except for he says he is single when he is actually married AND he has his sexual preference as male and female. So she reads a email from a gay man, inviting him to hook up in Chicago. Of course, soon after a confrontation ensued, my friend said dude tried to play clueless, but she hit him with so much out of nowhere, he was left speechless. She said tears started rolling down his face. He adamently denied being gay. My friend said she was going to inform his wife. Dude said go right ahead, so she did.. She confronted the wife (this wasn't their first time talking to each other) The wife was shown his profile page, after she stared at it for a minute, my friend said she did not say anything. Prior to this, dude said he would leave the black planet account open for my friend to check periodically..The next day when she tried to log in, she could not access it....All while this was going on, my friend got a new job..Small world she met a co-worker who knew dude. My friend, still in shock ran the story by her, the woman knew him from her last job..The woman said that she had heard dude had a job a while back and was fired, because he was accused of messing with some of the boys at his job( he worked at a boys school)....That is pretty much the gist of the story.....My question, IS HE GAY ON THE DL OR IS THIS SIMPLY A CASE OF MISTAKEN IDENTITY.
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Permalink Reply by Damnstraight on -
Whoa ok. Too much going on. Now he's a former bball player, but worked at a boys school and was accused of messing with little boys? I mean if he's a former bball player, wouldn't this have been made more public...like wouldn't she have been able to access that info on the internet?
And based off of this story, I would suspect he is on the DL...All of this cannot possibly be a coincidence or a case of mistaken identity. He's been lying about being married, so he could lie about that as well. Why is he hooking up on black planet and inviting people to a swingers setup...like this dude is triflin to the 10th power. Your friend needs to stop wasting her time. This guy has too many skeletons in his closet and IMO, it's just not worth it.
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Permalink Reply by Lovely1 on -
gay, gay, gay, gay...........i sorry too many gay concidences not to be. But if that little boy shit is true, he is sick and needs to be in somebodys jail, not on black planet and dating websites.....
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Permalink Reply by Ishtar on -
This is very detailed. Does your friend go by the California on a message board called BA? *smile* just messing with ya lol.
Here is the thing, your "friend" went snooping, call it woman's intuition or whatever, she set out to seeking information about this man. As fate would have it, seek and you shall find. And she most definitely found, apparently more than she is able to accept right now. The information she obtained eluded that this man is batting for both teams came from various sources...now she is doubting how accurate the information is??? Sounds like her feelings are clouding her better judgment, tell your friend she must AGAIN rely on her woman's intuition and keep it moving.... The evidence before her are clear on convincing, there shouldn't be a doubt, especially when some of the leads came from the man himself via his BP profile (btw, ppl are still on BP like that?Wow)...
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Permalink Reply by california on -
nooo waay jose it nots me.....i actually went out with my friend and him a few times, i thought he was ok, he did not give off any type of signs as to being gay...as for being a former athelete, he was a bencher, low-profile only played in the league for a year or two if that, he worked for this boys school years ago..its pretty detailed because, you know,she's my friend,,we had tried to analyze every single thing from day one. I told her based off of my (csi analyzation:) i thought it was a great possibility that something was fishy...
Ishtar said:This is very detailed. Does your friend go by the California on a message board called BA? *smile* just messing with ya lol.
Here is the thing, your "friend" went snooping, call it woman's intuition or whatever, she set out to seeking information about this man. As fate would have it, seek and you shall find. And she most definitely found, apparently more than she is able to accept right now. The information she obtained eluded that this man is batting for both teams came from various sources...now she is doubting how accurate the information is??? Sounds like her feelings are clouding her better judgment, tell your friend she must AGAIN rely on her woman's intuition and keep it moving.... The evidence before her are clear on convincing, there shouldn't be a doubt, especially when some of the leads came from the man himself via his BP profile (btw, ppl are still on BP like that?Wow)...
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Permalink Reply by Ishtar on
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LOL, cali I was messing with ya...but on the serious tip your girl sounds like she is trying to justify staying/returning to dude. I don't know why ppl go snooping and then can't handle the truth? She should have just left well enough alone, continued getting her supplemental subsidy and good wood- since those where her motivation for staying in the first place. Some DL men don't give off vibes, matter of fact, many don't even see themselves as DL or homo/bisexual. They see the other man as the punk. She cracked his accounts and the proof was there, all the other second hand information from a former coworker simply solidified her findings...on top of that he had a bitch moment when confronted. Did he in fact worked at the school he was allegedly fired from?? How can it be a case of mistaken identity?? The facts are there and they are not weak either...is up to her whether to let her emotions over take her better judgment & turn a blind eye to it all or take heed to her intuition and put this in her past. It would be best that she just get over it, he is married anyway. NOthing good can come of this.
california said:nooo waay jose it nots me.....i actually went out with my friend and him a few times, i thought he was ok, he did not give off any type of signs as to being gay...as for being a former athelete, he was a bencher, low-profile only played in the league for a year or two if that, he worked for this boys school years ago..its pretty detailed because, you know,she's my friend,,we had tried to analyze every single thing from day one. I told her based off of my (csi analyzation:) i thought it was a great possibility that something was fishy...
Ishtar said:This is very detailed. Does your friend go by the California on a message board called BA? *smile* just messing with ya lol.
Here is the thing, your "friend" went snooping, call it woman's intuition or whatever, she set out to seeking information about this man. As fate would have it, seek and you shall find. And she most definitely found, apparently more than she is able to accept right now. The information she obtained eluded that this man is batting for both teams came from various sources...now she is doubting how accurate the information is??? Sounds like her feelings are clouding her better judgment, tell your friend she must AGAIN rely on her woman's intuition and keep it moving.... The evidence before her are clear on convincing, there shouldn't be a doubt, especially when some of the leads came from the man himself via his BP profile (btw, ppl are still on BP like that?Wow)...
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Permalink Reply by Misting on -
That niggy is a homophopic d.l gay man. lol That dude would have a field day here in the Atl lol
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Permalink Reply by lady lynxx- ladylynxx.ning.com on -
Hey is bi or gay and your friend should have left that ninja since she found the emails and black planet page. I'm just saying...why stick around with someone who clearly has issues with himself in the first place? Also the wife must know cos she just kept quiet. Maybe she likes him that way or just likes the luxury of his paycheck.
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Permalink Reply by DUVALBeauty on -
Oh yes he would.....have a damn good time.
Misting said:That niggy is a homophopic d.l gay man. lol That dude would have a field day here in the Atl lol
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Permalink Reply by L0vie D0vie on -
She found what she was looking for, so why is she questioning it! Dude is bi-sexual if he engages in sex with both sexes. The problem seems deeper than his sexual preferences. "The woman said that she had heard dude had a job a while back and was fired, because he was accused of messing with some of the boys at his job( he worked at a boys school" That takes this to a WHOLE diffrerent level!
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