Is he gay or is this a case of mistaken identity.
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Would like the peoples opinion....Got a friend, she met a guy, they became friends. There was a mutual attraction, that turned them into more than friends.. Turn for the worse happens, he confesses he is married, unfortunately they continued to see each other. This continues on for 3 years or so..Quick description of this guy, he is 6'2, solid 200pds..he is a mans man, former basketball player, does not like to wear open toe sandals, hates gay people, in general. Ok so due to the my friends conscious she begans trying to wean him off, however its very hard, he is well-endowed, and knows what he is doing, also he is very generous with his money..If my friend needed help with anything he was willing to help her out....So one day she says that she decided to do some investigating on the internet, she said her woman intuition was off the radar on that particular day....aside from the obvious of him being married, she said something told her to get on the internet. Did not know what she was neccesarily looking for at the time, she says she was just looking. He had used her laptop to check his email, so she started there..She hacked into the email, low and behold, she said he was all over the internet...actually paying to be on these dating sites, etc...now keep in mind he is still married...So she stumbles across one email that he sent to a white woman ( oh yea he hates white people as well)..the email was basically an invitation to a swingers set-up, the woman was looking to add an additional party to her and husband. Next she sees he has emails from his black planet account. She hacks into it..His profile is completely accurate except for he says he is single when he is actually married AND he has his sexual preference as male and female. So she reads a email from a gay man, inviting him to hook up in Chicago. Of course, soon after a confrontation ensued, my friend said dude tried to play clueless, but she hit him with so much out of nowhere, he was left speechless. She said tears started rolling down his face. He adamently denied being gay. My friend said she was going to inform his wife. Dude said go right ahead, so she did.. She confronted the wife (this wasn't their first time talking to each other) The wife was shown his profile page, after she stared at it for a minute, my friend said she did not say anything. Prior to this, dude said he would leave the black planet account open for my friend to check periodically..The next day when she tried to log in, she could not access it....All while this was going on, my friend got a new job..Small world she met a co-worker who knew dude. My friend, still in shock ran the story by her, the woman knew him from her last job..The woman said that she had heard dude had a job a while back and was fired, because he was accused of messing with some of the boys at his job( he worked at a boys school)....That is pretty much the gist of the story.....My question, IS HE GAY ON THE DL OR IS THIS SIMPLY A CASE OF MISTAKEN IDENTITY.
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Permalink Reply by Cougar $pice on -
My friend said she was going to inform his wife. Dude said go right ahead, so she did.. She confronted the wife (this wasn't their first time talking to each other) The wife was shown his profile page, after she stared at it for a minute, my friend said she did not say anything
***So wifey wasn't upset about the bi/dl revelation or with the mistress bringing this to her attention? My CSI radar & $picey senses are tingling. This is a bag of revelations and confusion. This sounds like one confused man.
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Permalink Reply by Briklin on -
He could be bicurious. Sometimes there are people who are homosexual and in such denial they are the most vocal opponents of it . I think they should be worried about the boys girl thing , go get tested for std's and encourage him to come out the closet .
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Permalink Reply by Briklin on
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spidey senses lol Im confused now so the wife and mistress are buddies or something ? Why would the mistress alert the wife to that in the first place did she alsotell her she had been bumping uglies with him?
$pice said:My friend said she was going to inform his wife. Dude said go right ahead, so she did.. She confronted the wife (this wasn't their first time talking to each other) The wife was shown his profile page, after she stared at it for a minute, my friend said she did not say anything
***So wifey wasn't upset about the bi/dl revelation or with the mistress bringing this to her attention? My CSI radar & $picey senses are tingling. This is a bag of revelations and confusion. This sounds like one confused man.
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Permalink Reply by Cougar $pice on
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Inquiring minds would like to know. LOL
Briklin said:spidey senses lol Im confused now so the wife and mistress are buddies or something ? Why would the mistress alert the wife to that in the first place did she alsotell her she had been bumping uglies with him?
$pice said:My friend said she was going to inform his wife. Dude said go right ahead, so she did.. She confronted the wife (this wasn't their first time talking to each other) The wife was shown his profile page, after she stared at it for a minute, my friend said she did not say anything
***So wifey wasn't upset about the bi/dl revelation or with the mistress bringing this to her attention? My CSI radar & $picey senses are tingling. This is a bag of revelations and confusion. This sounds like one confused man.
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Permalink Reply by california on -
geez, if i spill my guts in full detail then folks are going to know who is who....they have talked previously because basically dude got sloppy. wife made initial contact, found confirmation information for a weekend getaway..the wife pretty much accepted his cheating, from what my friend said. (the wife knew found out about the trip, date, flight time, and dude still went on the trip with my friend with no problem)(isn't this ish crazy??!)............. as a threat my friend said she was going to let his wife know about the possible DL,dude said go ahead, so she called his bluff...
$pice said:Inquiring minds would like to know. LOL
Briklin said:spidey senses lol Im confused now so the wife and mistress are buddies or something ? Why would the mistress alert the wife to that in the first place did she alsotell her she had been bumping uglies with him?
$pice said:My friend said she was going to inform his wife. Dude said go right ahead, so she did.. She confronted the wife (this wasn't their first time talking to each other) The wife was shown his profile page, after she stared at it for a minute, my friend said she did not say anything
***So wifey wasn't upset about the bi/dl revelation or with the mistress bringing this to her attention? My CSI radar & $picey senses are tingling. This is a bag of revelations and confusion. This sounds like one confused man.
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Permalink Reply by Cougar $pice on
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OK, sounds like she just 'stumbled' this but he's already deep into it. Wifey already knows & if there are children involved she's just going through the motions. Seems like 'mistress' is more bothered by this than wifey. IMO
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