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Is this what's up nowadays???

What the hell is up with dudes asking you to send them a picture of you? This has happened with the last two guys i was talking to. This oe guy kept askig for one till i finally sent one. This one guy i met just text me 'send me a cute picture of you' it seems nice that he may want to see my smile pop up when i call but what's with the thirst of wanting a picture so bad? is it to show they're friends like 'is she cute?' does he want to jerk off to my picture?

What's up with guys texting 'can I c** over?' HELL NAW YOU CAINT C** OVER!! that pissed me off. I know dudes be wanting to do these 'house dates' but they're making it blatantly obvious they're looking to F*** by saying c** and not come. lately i have not been going to no man's home or inviting him to mine because they think you're down to F***, even if he does give a legit excuse as to why i should come in for a minute.

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on March 19, 2012 at 3:12pm

*laughing and choking* DJ!!!! LOL

DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN said:

yep. cuz i got homeboyz like that. exact quote from one of my boyz.

"man here one of the chicks i smash on a regular she bad aint she" in my head im like nigga u probably still a virgin.

CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

More than likely they are fronting to their friends about how many pretty women they have on their roster. smh That is so junior high.

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Permalink Reply by Ms. BoiBye on March 19, 2012 at 3:34pm

Yeah this is the new thing. My homegirls was just talking about this. They said they gets a lot of unwarrented d*** pics too. I am not ready for this bs. I have been off the dating scene too long.

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on March 19, 2012 at 4:26pm

Invest in Moscato. It will help you keep your sense of humor.

Ms. BoiBye said:

Yeah this is the new thing. My homegirls was just talking about this. They said they gets a lot of unwarrented d*** pics too. I am not ready for this bs. I have been off the dating scene too long.

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Permalink Reply by MissBling on March 19, 2012 at 5:04pm

I don't do pics. Dudes are messy and some need validation from the homies. You never know who they will show it to or where it will end up. I'm not willing to risk it.

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Permalink Reply by lady in red on March 19, 2012 at 5:11pm

i thought i was the only one irritated by this when dudes asked.

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Permalink Reply by livelife25 on March 19, 2012 at 10:58pm

The "can I come over" text thing is my personal peeve. I can admit, I've done the "drive by" thing before when I just wanted to get some action , so I guess I am (or have been in the past) part of the problem. However, that was with guys who I already knew and had previously had non-sexual hangout withs, not guys who I just met. It seems like many guys expect you to roll out the welcome mat with all the trim (pun intended) just cause they make contact.

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on March 20, 2012 at 12:17am

me too. Im like maybe Im too old for this new age ish. When I ask, whats up with dudes wanting pics...one said so he could see who it was when i called...I said thats why you save my name in it. Its irritates the s*** outta me with this "send me a pic" revolution....I mean like really - It makes me wanna cuss any dude out that asks for a pic..wanna cuss yall a**** out for bringing it up

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