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Permalink Reply by Tone © on April 20, 2012 at 1:12pm

What are you talking about no straight man is checking for another man.

darnell nelson said:

Interesting convoy ladies and gents, now amp that a 1000 times, and you have competition between gay men. I am a pretty man, always was, always will be, it's just a fact. I live in NYC, and these men are so incredibly insecure, till I took drastic measures, and became celibate, and have been for over 5 years. Men, period are children that need to be coddled and egos need to be stroked, and that not what I do. Many of you don't know this, but that is the very reason, why many of us are "crossing" over, and beginning to date straight or bicurious men, cause men these days don't have the backbone that makes a real man. When I was growing up, men were still strong and self assured, a man knew his place, and appreciated beauty in all its forms. Now days physical beauty is like a curse, your damn if your decent looking, with some semblance of a self esteem, and a career, in fact your a damn unicorn, and people don't mind treating u as such. I simply left it all behind, and concentrated on my spiritual self,best decision I have ever made. It's sad, in a sense, cause I have so much to offer, but if the world does not see it,.....then I make sure I do,...and keep it moving. Love is wonderful, and I would give my eyeteeth to have a man that I could call my own,...but I leave that to the universe,...will I just continue to be me.  Don't give up ladies,...there is someone for everyone, just believe you are worthy,..and he will come.

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Permalink Reply by Phoenix on April 20, 2012 at 1:45pm

Straight men get turned out just like straight women honey.

I just had a post about it! You commented on it. It happens. 

Tone said:

What are you talking about no straight man is checking for another man.

darnell nelson said:

Interesting convoy ladies and gents, now amp that a 1000 times, and you have competition between gay men. I am a pretty man, always was, always will be, it's just a fact. I live in NYC, and these men are so incredibly insecure, till I took drastic measures, and became celibate, and have been for over 5 years. Men, period are children that need to be coddled and egos need to be stroked, and that not what I do. Many of you don't know this, but that is the very reason, why many of us are "crossing" over, and beginning to date straight or bicurious men, cause men these days don't have the backbone that makes a real man. When I was growing up, men were still strong and self assured, a man knew his place, and appreciated beauty in all its forms. Now days physical beauty is like a curse, your damn if your decent looking, with some semblance of a self esteem, and a career, in fact your a damn unicorn, and people don't mind treating u as such. I simply left it all behind, and concentrated on my spiritual self,best decision I have ever made. It's sad, in a sense, cause I have so much to offer, but if the world does not see it,.....then I make sure I do,...and keep it moving. Love is wonderful, and I would give my eyeteeth to have a man that I could call my own,...but I leave that to the universe,...will I just continue to be me.  Don't give up ladies,...there is someone for everyone, just believe you are worthy,..and he will come.

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Permalink Reply by darnell nelson on April 20, 2012 at 1:56pm

 wasn't. Going to reply, but phoenix just made my point, what YOU won't do,..with enough patrons,coupled with friendship and comfort, another brother will,..and come back for seconds. In this "let live" sexual climate of today, walk into any hot club in Miami,30 to 35% of the "straight men" you see, grinding on the prettiest young lady near them,..well if she ain't giving it up,...a can guarantee,the dude next to him,watching his every move,...will, in the name of "brotherhood",..lol!! When I was in college, we use to turn out so many men, we made a game of it. Men love sex,..and a lot DON'T care if the h*** belongs to a man or a woman,..all they care about is if your clean, and condoms are within reach!!!.just don't tell nobody!!!!! And I usually don't cause it's nobodies business. Ladies, wrap it up, these dudes are running wild, and discovering themselves.

Phoenix said:

Straight men get turned out just like straight women honey.

I just had a post about it! You commented on it. It happens. 

Tone said:

What are you talking about no straight man is checking for another man.

darnell nelson said:

Interesting convoy ladies and gents, now amp that a 1000 times, and you have competition between gay men. I am a pretty man, always was, always will be, it's just a fact. I live in NYC, and these men are so incredibly insecure, till I took drastic measures, and became celibate, and have been for over 5 years. Men, period are children that need to be coddled and egos need to be stroked, and that not what I do. Many of you don't know this, but that is the very reason, why many of us are "crossing" over, and beginning to date straight or bicurious men, cause men these days don't have the backbone that makes a real man. When I was growing up, men were still strong and self assured, a man knew his place, and appreciated beauty in all its forms. Now days physical beauty is like a curse, your damn if your decent looking, with some semblance of a self esteem, and a career, in fact your a damn unicorn, and people don't mind treating u as such. I simply left it all behind, and concentrated on my spiritual self,best decision I have ever made. It's sad, in a sense, cause I have so much to offer, but if the world does not see it,.....then I make sure I do,...and keep it moving. Love is wonderful, and I would give my eyeteeth to have a man that I could call my own,...but I leave that to the universe,...will I just continue to be me.  Don't give up ladies,...there is someone for everyone, just believe you are worthy,..and he will come.

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on April 20, 2012 at 2:02pm

  A woman can easily be  turned out trying to please her man with a threesome.  But a guy has to be thinking gay thoughts to even want to deal with another man on that level.

Phoenix said:

Straight men get turned out just like straight women honey.

I just had a post about it! You commented on it. It happens. 

Tone said:

What are you talking about no straight man is checking for another man.

darnell nelson said:

Interesting convoy ladies and gents, now amp that a 1000 times, and you have competition between gay men. I am a pretty man, always was, always will be, it's just a fact. I live in NYC, and these men are so incredibly insecure, till I took drastic measures, and became celibate, and have been for over 5 years. Men, period are children that need to be coddled and egos need to be stroked, and that not what I do. Many of you don't know this, but that is the very reason, why many of us are "crossing" over, and beginning to date straight or bicurious men, cause men these days don't have the backbone that makes a real man. When I was growing up, men were still strong and self assured, a man knew his place, and appreciated beauty in all its forms. Now days physical beauty is like a curse, your damn if your decent looking, with some semblance of a self esteem, and a career, in fact your a damn unicorn, and people don't mind treating u as such. I simply left it all behind, and concentrated on my spiritual self,best decision I have ever made. It's sad, in a sense, cause I have so much to offer, but if the world does not see it,.....then I make sure I do,...and keep it moving. Love is wonderful, and I would give my eyeteeth to have a man that I could call my own,...but I leave that to the universe,...will I just continue to be me.  Don't give up ladies,...there is someone for everyone, just believe you are worthy,..and he will come.

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Permalink Reply by darnell nelson on April 20, 2012 at 2:03pm

And a lot of them don't need patron, they just horny as hell. I PERSONALLY know of several "kept" men, just for these purposes, he is a celeb,..high profile,..and he wants something "different" tonight,...I have heard this line a million times.

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Permalink Reply by darnell nelson on April 20, 2012 at 2:13pm

Tone, never make sexual assumptions and speak where another man will stick his dyck. Only speak for self,speak for what YOU won't do. And to assume a woman gets turned out "quicker" than a man is not really true. I have been a first for a few men,they wanted to try it, and I never heard from them again. It's a slow tedious process to turn a man out, very true, but once they reach that "point of no return", they always make that jump. Does that make them "gay",..In my book, no,...makes them freaky as hell,..horny toads, hornballs,..whatever. Loose the labels, cause sexuality, especially if you reach a certain social rank and status, is as fluid as water.

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Permalink Reply by Phoenix on April 20, 2012 at 2:18pm

I was "turned" out one on one with another female.

You don't know every scenario honey. I'm sorry.

Tone said:

  A woman can easily be  turned out trying to please her man with a threesome.  But a guy has to be thinking gay thoughts to even want to deal with another man on that level.

Phoenix said:

Straight men get turned out just like straight women honey.

I just had a post about it! You commented on it. It happens. 

Tone said:

What are you talking about no straight man is checking for another man.

darnell nelson said:

Interesting convoy ladies and gents, now amp that a 1000 times, and you have competition between gay men. I am a pretty man, always was, always will be, it's just a fact. I live in NYC, and these men are so incredibly insecure, till I took drastic measures, and became celibate, and have been for over 5 years. Men, period are children that need to be coddled and egos need to be stroked, and that not what I do. Many of you don't know this, but that is the very reason, why many of us are "crossing" over, and beginning to date straight or bicurious men, cause men these days don't have the backbone that makes a real man. When I was growing up, men were still strong and self assured, a man knew his place, and appreciated beauty in all its forms. Now days physical beauty is like a curse, your damn if your decent looking, with some semblance of a self esteem, and a career, in fact your a damn unicorn, and people don't mind treating u as such. I simply left it all behind, and concentrated on my spiritual self,best decision I have ever made. It's sad, in a sense, cause I have so much to offer, but if the world does not see it,.....then I make sure I do,...and keep it moving. Love is wonderful, and I would give my eyeteeth to have a man that I could call my own,...but I leave that to the universe,...will I just continue to be me.  Don't give up ladies,...there is someone for everyone, just believe you are worthy,..and he will come.

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Permalink Reply by darnell nelson on April 20, 2012 at 2:28pm

You know what phoenix, I personally never liked that word, " turned out". I like to instead say "turned on".when u experience another facet of your sexuality, something is "turned on" inside you, how u relate to the world, the opposite sec, as well as the same sex, it's an eye opening experience. I have personally witnessed men that were once cruel, become kind, not sissies, but a kinder version of themselves, after their first same sex experience. I have witnessed men open up more to their female partners emotionally, after that type of experience. Just my opinion:)

Phoenix said:

I was "turned" out one on one with another female.

You don't know every scenario honey. I'm sorry.

Tone said:

  A woman can easily be  turned out trying to please her man with a threesome.  But a guy has to be thinking gay thoughts to even want to deal with another man on that level.

Phoenix said:

Straight men get turned out just like straight women honey.

I just had a post about it! You commented on it. It happens. 

Tone said:

What are you talking about no straight man is checking for another man.

darnell nelson said:

Interesting convoy ladies and gents, now amp that a 1000 times, and you have competition between gay men. I am a pretty man, always was, always will be, it's just a fact. I live in NYC, and these men are so incredibly insecure, till I took drastic measures, and became celibate, and have been for over 5 years. Men, period are children that need to be coddled and egos need to be stroked, and that not what I do. Many of you don't know this, but that is the very reason, why many of us are "crossing" over, and beginning to date straight or bicurious men, cause men these days don't have the backbone that makes a real man. When I was growing up, men were still strong and self assured, a man knew his place, and appreciated beauty in all its forms. Now days physical beauty is like a curse, your damn if your decent looking, with some semblance of a self esteem, and a career, in fact your a damn unicorn, and people don't mind treating u as such. I simply left it all behind, and concentrated on my spiritual self,best decision I have ever made. It's sad, in a sense, cause I have so much to offer, but if the world does not see it,.....then I make sure I do,...and keep it moving. Love is wonderful, and I would give my eyeteeth to have a man that I could call my own,...but I leave that to the universe,...will I just continue to be me.  Don't give up ladies,...there is someone for everyone, just believe you are worthy,..and he will come.

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Permalink Reply by Phoenix on April 20, 2012 at 2:35pm

I'll subscribe to that. Makes sense.

I was TURNED ON by another woman. 

;)

darnell nelson said:

You know what phoenix, I personally never liked that word, " turned out". I like to instead say "turned on".when u experience another facet of your sexuality, something is "turned on" inside you, how u relate to the world, the opposite sec, as well as the same sex, it's an eye opening experience. I have personally witnessed men that were once cruel, become kind, not sissies, but a kinder version of themselves, after their first same sex experience. I have witnessed men open up more to their female partners emotionally, after that type of experience. Just my opinion:)

Phoenix said:

I was "turned" out one on one with another female.

You don't know every scenario honey. I'm sorry.

Tone said:

  A woman can easily be  turned out trying to please her man with a threesome.  But a guy has to be thinking gay thoughts to even want to deal with another man on that level.

Phoenix said:

Straight men get turned out just like straight women honey.

I just had a post about it! You commented on it. It happens. 

Tone said:

What are you talking about no straight man is checking for another man.

darnell nelson said:

Interesting convoy ladies and gents, now amp that a 1000 times, and you have competition between gay men. I am a pretty man, always was, always will be, it's just a fact. I live in NYC, and these men are so incredibly insecure, till I took drastic measures, and became celibate, and have been for over 5 years. Men, period are children that need to be coddled and egos need to be stroked, and that not what I do. Many of you don't know this, but that is the very reason, why many of us are "crossing" over, and beginning to date straight or bicurious men, cause men these days don't have the backbone that makes a real man. When I was growing up, men were still strong and self assured, a man knew his place, and appreciated beauty in all its forms. Now days physical beauty is like a curse, your damn if your decent looking, with some semblance of a self esteem, and a career, in fact your a damn unicorn, and people don't mind treating u as such. I simply left it all behind, and concentrated on my spiritual self,best decision I have ever made. It's sad, in a sense, cause I have so much to offer, but if the world does not see it,.....then I make sure I do,...and keep it moving. Love is wonderful, and I would give my eyeteeth to have a man that I could call my own,...but I leave that to the universe,...will I just continue to be me.  Don't give up ladies,...there is someone for everyone, just believe you are worthy,..and he will come.

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on April 20, 2012 at 2:42pm

Those men are gay. I would never sleep with a man or want a man in a romantic way and I assume most straight men feel the same way.  No amount of liquor drugs is ever going to make me look at a man in the way i look at a woman.

darnell nelson said:

Tone, never make sexual assumptions and speak where another man will stick his dyck. Only speak for self,speak for what YOU won't do. And to assume a woman gets turned out "quicker" than a man is not really true. I have been a first for a few men,they wanted to try it, and I never heard from them again. It's a slow tedious process to turn a man out, very true, but once they reach that "point of no return", they always make that jump. Does that make them "gay",..In my book, no,...makes them freaky as hell,..horny toads, hornballs,..whatever. Loose the labels, cause sexuality, especially if you reach a certain social rank and status, is as fluid as water.

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Permalink Reply by Phoenix on April 20, 2012 at 2:45pm

That's all he's asking you to do. Is speak for yourself.

You making broad assumptions about other "straight men" makes no sense.  

Tone said:

Those men are gay. I would never sleep with a man or want a man in a romantic way and I assume most straight men feel the same way.  No amount of liquor drugs is ever going to make me look at a man in the way i look at a woman.

darnell nelson said:

Tone, never make sexual assumptions and speak where another man will stick his dyck. Only speak for self,speak for what YOU won't do. And to assume a woman gets turned out "quicker" than a man is not really true. I have been a first for a few men,they wanted to try it, and I never heard from them again. It's a slow tedious process to turn a man out, very true, but once they reach that "point of no return", they always make that jump. Does that make them "gay",..In my book, no,...makes them freaky as hell,..horny toads, hornballs,..whatever. Loose the labels, cause sexuality, especially if you reach a certain social rank and status, is as fluid as water.

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on April 20, 2012 at 2:54pm

If i said all straight men like big butt women that would be a broad assumption. But to say that straight men don't have sex with men is not a broad assumption.

Phoenix said:

That's all he's asking you to do. Is speak for yourself.

You making broad assumptions about other "straight men" makes no sense.  

Tone said:

Those men are gay. I would never sleep with a man or want a man in a romantic way and I assume most straight men feel the same way.  No amount of liquor drugs is ever going to make me look at a man in the way i look at a woman.

darnell nelson said:

Tone, never make sexual assumptions and speak where another man will stick his dyck. Only speak for self,speak for what YOU won't do. And to assume a woman gets turned out "quicker" than a man is not really true. I have been a first for a few men,they wanted to try it, and I never heard from them again. It's a slow tedious process to turn a man out, very true, but once they reach that "point of no return", they always make that jump. Does that make them "gay",..In my book, no,...makes them freaky as hell,..horny toads, hornballs,..whatever. Loose the labels, cause sexuality, especially if you reach a certain social rank and status, is as fluid as water.

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