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So here it is, long story- short! I am married, and my baller is married- but we aren't married to each other. We have been seeing each other for 5 years until last week. He has been acting a tad distant for a few months but I chalked it up to his job and the 'lockout'. We were supposed to go on a trip HE planned but he cancels 4 days before we were supposed to go! He was saying his fam was having issues and he felt it wasn't good that he go. I wasn't too irked about that but I haven't heard from him since that call, which was a week ago! WTF?! I refuse to contact him cause he said he would call me back later that day but never did! I am DONE with him but my friends think he will call me eventually and act like everything is cool. I don't know what to do or think cause 5 years is a long time and there was love from both ends. What do ya'll think I should do?! Cause I'm already thinking about a Replacement!!
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Permalink Reply by Denise on -
"So here it is, long story- short! I am married, and my baller is married- but we aren't married to each other"...Yes that is a long story, short. Girl, if you don't cut it out and go see where your husband is and stop thinking about somebody else husband.
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Permalink Reply by Monica Amazing on -
Uhmm kiki...the ladies here on BA aren't gonna give you advice on how to get your illicit extramarital affair back on track, baller or not. I think you may be on your own...
lol
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Permalink Reply by Baller Alert on -
Maybe his silence is saying "my wife found out"
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Permalink Reply by AllyNWonderland on -
So you're upset because your MARRIED baller whom you have been cheating on YOUR husband with hasn't contacted you in a week??? I just want to make sure I get this straight...And since you said 'lockout" I'm assuming he's in the NFL...and you were taking this seriously??? You can't be upset at a married man who cheated on his wife with you...I'm pretty sure he's also seeing other people besides you and his wife...girl bye, go home to your husband...and that's explained pretty nicely.....but wtf really....
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Permalink Reply by alluringeyes on -
WTF?! You're cheating on your husband with a married man for 5 years and you're looking for advice on how to get him back and you're looking for a replacement? Here some advice:
- Get better friends 'cause one of them should've told you what you're doing is terrible.
- Get a divorce.
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Permalink Reply by kiki on -
Lol I know this is crazy and it is sooo hard to make others understand but it didn't start off the way it went on. I never looked for this to happen it just did. But I will try to not think about him and move on. But as for my own marriage, its complicated and divorce isn't an option. Why is it so wrong to allow another person 'fill in the gaps' of what isn't being given at home?!
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Permalink Reply by MissBling on -
Why are you even married?
kiki said:
Lol I know this is crazy and it is sooo hard to make others understand but it didn't start off the way it went on. I never looked for this to happen it just did. But I will try to not think about him and move on. But as for my own marriage, its complicated and divorce isn't an option. Why is it so wrong to allow another person 'fill in the gaps' of what isn't being given at home?!
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Permalink Reply by Hate my Ex on -
I co-sign on all the above. I know u really weren't expecting us to co-sign your behavior? Leave the "game" to the single people. What you're doing is trife...and from what you were saying your Baller has already found your replacement.
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Permalink Reply by kiki on
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Trust me I totally understand where you all are coming from, I do! But you can't help who you fall in love with, Regardless! Marriage is a business decision, not the fairy tale nonesense women were raised to believe. So you have to figure out in the beginning what kind of 'profit' you are expecting to leave with or how you want to retire. In my marriage, it wasn't created out of love but from mutual interests. So it does not sound nor feel bizarre to 'find balance' with others. My house is happy and so are my kids, but lfe is short and I will not live with limits!
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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on
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THIS
Baller Alert said:Maybe his silence is saying "my wife found out"
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Permalink Reply by Siren on -
Your marriage is a business decisiona and everything has a price... you weren't worried about the gapps when you got married you worried about the paper and you came to see that money doesn't keep you warm at night and money can't give you the emotional support either. So you went to seek it in another woman's husband and that wasn't enough either. You reap what you sow and karma is a b****... You need to build a bridge and get over it and climb in to the bed you made for yourself. You sound 10 kinds of delusional.
kiki said:Trust me I totally understand where you all are coming from, I do! But you can't help who you fall in love with, Regardless! Marriage is a business decision, not the fairy tale nonesense women were raised to believe. So you have to figure out in the beginning what kind of 'profit' you are expecting to leave with or how you want to retire. In my marriage, it wasn't created out of love but from mutual interests. So it does not sound nor feel bizarre to 'find balance' with others. My house is happy and so are my kids, but lfe is short and I will not live with limits!
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Permalink Reply by MissBling on
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Why include someone else's husband in this mess?
Siren said:
Your marriage is a business decisiona and everything has a price... you weren't worried about the gapps when you got married you worried about the paper and you came to see that money doesn't keep you warm at night and money can't give you the emotional support either. So you went to seek it in another woman's husband and that wasn't enough either. You reap what you sow and karma is a b****... You need to build a bridge and get over it and climb in to the bed you made for yourself. You sound 10 kinds of delusional.
kiki said:Trust me I totally understand where you all are coming from, I do! But you can't help who you fall in love with, Regardless! Marriage is a business decision, not the fairy tale nonesense women were raised to believe. So you have to figure out in the beginning what kind of 'profit' you are expecting to leave with or how you want to retire. In my marriage, it wasn't created out of love but from mutual interests. So it does not sound nor feel bizarre to 'find balance' with others. My house is happy and so are my kids, but lfe is short and I will not live with limits!
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