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Permalink Reply by Ashley Banks on June 10, 2009 at 2:21pm

Exactly! R. Kelly (or ar-ruh as we call him) was p!ssing on children and paying them for sex. Rick James was kidnapping and drugging women, but he was allowed a comeback. Roman Polanski raped a 13-year-old, yet he gets an academy award. Britney Spears was wacked out on drugs and endangering her children (because I truly believe they hid some stuff, all you can do is pray for the girl), but these people are allowed comebacks and sold out toors. Bullsh!t.

Dominique P. Smith said:

I totally agree with your post.. again not condoning Chris hitting Rhianna... but come on now it's like "Baby Boy" when Jody told ol girl not to hit him & she kept hitting him, so he smacked her ass; he had a valid point to do so! But people got to realize females are not always the victim; not saying Rhianna did this..but again movie reference lol sorry, "A Thin Line Between Love & Hate", ol girl had hit her damn self & blamed it on Martin Lawrence character! And even though these may be movies, this stuff does happen in real life!
But also a lot of people still support R. Kelly & he was having sex with little girls! Come now, I guess it's okay to sleep with young girls but as soon as you hit one you need to go to jail! The world is so backwards!
We all make mistakes...you live & you learn...people always judging each other...when we should judging ourselves & look at how we live out lives! I wish people would stop acting like they haven't done dirt, only thing is Chris Brown got caught & told on, that's the only difference!

P.S. they knew they wasn't meant to be together with a match up name like "Chrihanna" is sounds like a new sexual disease!

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Permalink Reply by Ph@tty on June 10, 2009 at 2:48pm

Where does all this sympathy for abusive men come from?!?! Of course these sickos come back to life. When ppl make excuses for their behavior. "Well Chris was provoked to hit Rhi so its not all his fault! Btw I just copped his cd Friday." GTFOH, all those ppl are a mess and they aren't resurrected cuz of me but because ppl ignore their transgressions and cop their shit anyway. We may not know the truth of that night but we do know that Rhi was fucked up and she said Chris did it AND the evidence points that way. Rhi very may well have been callin his mama a bitch, spittin in his face, throwing a mad tantrum and all but that doesn't warrant an ass whoopin like the one he gave her. I mean come on ppl, what's next? So if a kid does the same thing, beat up the kid? What about the elderly or the handicapped?

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Permalink Reply by tHeOfFiCialLuRKeR on June 10, 2009 at 7:25pm

to be honest, what ppl do in their personal lives, is just that, theirs! I'm pretty sure everyone has done some f^cked up $hit in their lives, but what if your job suffered because of it? From what I hear, he defended himself! Sounds like she shouldn't have gone there. Maybe next time he'll let his mom beat her a$$ for jumping on him. Always remember we are all outsiders looking in, we don't know the real Rihanna or Chris Brown! Hell, i didn't even know her name was Robyn for this whole ordeal went down!

Ph@tty said:

Where does all this sympathy for abusive men come from?!?! Of course these sickos come back to life. When ppl make excuses for their behavior. "Well Chris was provoked to hit Rhi so its not all his fault! Btw I just copped his cd Friday." GTFOH, all those ppl are a mess and they aren't resurrected cuz of me but because ppl ignore their transgressions and cop their shit anyway. We may not know the truth of that night but we do know that Rhi was fucked up and she said Chris did it AND the evidence points that way. Rhi very may well have been callin his mama a bitch, spittin in his face, throwing a mad tantrum and all but that doesn't warrant an ass whoopin like the one he gave her. I mean come on ppl, what's next? So if a kid does the same thing, beat up the kid? What about the elderly or the handicapped?

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Permalink Reply by Zaria 22 on June 10, 2009 at 7:25pm

I agree 110%

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Permalink Reply by Madison on June 10, 2009 at 8:15pm

FROM PEREZ HILTON:

"Chris Bown has more to worry about than going to jail over beating on Rihanna earlier this year.

Turns out the douchebag has been getting death threats. Shocker!

And according to reports, the authorities are believing the threats to be legit.

An inside source reveals that the threats have been coming from a group calling itself the "Women's Protection Action League." Or then again, it could just be from a crazy ass with a fake group.

Some threats have even indicated that the assassin would be posing as a paparazzi.

Either way, Brown isn't taking the threats lightly. Recently, he won't go out without a minimum of three visible bodyguards.

And one LAPD insider adds that Brown also has three or four undercover bodyguards tagging along, with some being female "but who are easily as tough as any man."

The threats have left Brown apparently "totally paranoid" and very obsessed with his security.

Brown may be a douche but that's no reason to kill him or make threats! "

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Permalink Reply by Ellen on June 10, 2009 at 8:39pm

I agree with alot of what most of you have said thus far. In that I too don't agree with a man beating a woman. By all means walk/run away is the first choice if possible. However, a man does have a right to defend himself from any person including a female who is trying to harm him even if it means physically pushing her away or hitting her as a last resort just to get away. I don't have any children but if I had a son I'd surely tell him not to let any woman beat his ass and have him in a hospital. But..in defending himself I wouldn't expect for him to go the extra mile to stomp her out and batter her.

Now, I don't mean to be prejudice but most carribean women I've dealt with have had short tempers. This may not be the case for Rihanna but for some reason she never came acroos to me as being sweet and innocent.

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Permalink Reply by Necole Bitchie on June 10, 2009 at 9:30pm

Why did i wonder in here thinking i was going to see some relationship crisis (re: just venting).

@phatty Rihanna is atleast 125-130. I met her twice in 2007 and she was hoovering over me. I' only weigh about 110. I'm considered petite. She's about 5'9-5'10. even in photos of the two they are very close in height. just wanted to clear that up because people act like she is a tiny girl and truth be told that broad can hold her own in a fight. Especially when she's f*cking up a dude who is driving a stick shift. i'm just sayin'...

Hey Boss..just wanted to stop through

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Permalink Reply by Hotter on June 10, 2009 at 10:14pm

I bet her lil ass will think twice about doing this ish again. No I do not condone what he did, as I have had to fight men before. But I can bet one thing is for sure, they all started it. I never have reached over while a ninja is driving and hit his ass with my stiletto. She slapped her brother with an iron or a bottle for crying out loud. That shows her temper. Do you really think she was gonna just let CB walk away??? That girl was mad as hell and she was not gonna stop until he stopped her ass. One good lick would have done it but he was enraged. Yeah it was a fucked up situation and he did her bad, but women need to stop jumpin bad with these ninjas or be fully prepared one.

And as far as R-Kelly goes, I have not bought another cd his nasty ass! I refuse to go to concerts or partake in anything dealing with him. Damn dirty bird.

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Permalink Reply by Ph@tty on June 10, 2009 at 11:07pm

I'm so tired of "I don't condone men hitting women, but..." Instead say "I don't condone men hittin women unless the women hits first." Its funny that some of yall sayin that Rhi deserved to be beat up are also women who have hit men. So in essence you should have been beaten up just like Chris did Rhi. Rhi may not have let him "walk" away then his ass should have ran. Even at 5'10, 125 lbs is freakin small and doesn't compare to the 200 lbs Chris is. The fact is he took yall route and hit back, now his career is in danger, his rep is shot, and he has court dates. So maybe hittin a woman cuz she hit you with a stelleto wasn't the right decision. If it was you, your mother, sister, auntie, or best friend istead of Rhi I doubt your response would be "Well you did hit him first."

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Permalink Reply by Hotter on June 10, 2009 at 11:16pm

As I stated, I never started any of the fights. But I fah damn sho wasnt gonna get my ass tore up either. So when I was hit. My ass hit back!!!! And like I said he did her bad and nope its not justifiable but I bet she will think about it before doing it again. As far as my mother, sister, auntie or whoever, I have the same approach. WE as Women cannot simply Jump bad to these men and feel as though nothing is going to happen. The same way WE as women may get tired and kill a ninja or whatever the case may be, A man may get tired and beat that ass. What I am saying is be prepared when u jump bad. Thats just like going to someones house to fight them, hell that person may stab or shoot your ass, so just BE PREPARED at all times!!!! You never know someones emtional state!


Ph@tty said:

I'm so tired of "I don't condone men hitting women, but..." Instead say "I don't condone men hittin women unless the women hits first." Its funny that some of yall sayin that Rhi deserved to be beat up are also women who have hit men. So in essence you should have been beaten up just like Chris did Rhi. Rhi may not have let him "walk" away then his ass should have ran. Even at 5'10, 125 lbs is freakin small and doesn't compare to the 200 lbs Chris is. The fact is he took yall route and hit back, now his career is in danger, his rep is shot, and he has court dates. So maybe hittin a woman cuz she hit you with a stelleto wasn't the right decision. If it was you, your mother, sister, auntie, or best friend istead of Rhi I doubt your response would be "Well you did hit him first."

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Permalink Reply by Ph@tty on June 11, 2009 at 12:40am

R u sayin a dude hit you unprovoked? You didn't jump bad AND still got hit! Damn, that's crucial... Looks like your talkin to one of these boys whose mama told em to slap a bitch when she gets reckless. No wonder you sympathize with Chris so much. You know how it feels to defend yourself against an abuser. But Chris outweighs her, is stronger than her, taller than her and highly doubt he fought back because he felt his life was in danger. However like I said she was WRONG for hitting him but he stomped her out, literally! US women shouldnt jump bad to men, but a man should know his strength and not exert it to such a degree where a lady has to go to the hospital. Now, if Chris had his face lookin like hers then I would be talkin about her just the same. Yet, he had no scratches on him and Rhi lumped up like Klumps.

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Permalink Reply by Damnstraight on June 11, 2009 at 12:48am

And you couldn't be more wrong. First off, I have never hit any man. For what? Second, if it was a relative, I would say the same thing. If you're grown enough to be hitting another grown person, then don't be surprised when you get hit back. Third, not only has she admitted to having a temper and knocking the shit out of her own brother, but didn't this broad take his ass back like a couple of weeks later? Wasn't she photographed sneaking around with him in Miami? Didn't Diddy put them on blast saying they were staying at his house? And you expect some crocodile tears for her from us? lol I wish the hell I would.

I would teach my son to keep his hands to himself unless he needs to defend himself...and the same with my daughter. I don't give a damn because you have a vagina. Keep ya damn hands to yourself. Problem solved.

Ph@tty said:

I'm so tired of "I don't condone men hitting women, but..." Instead say "I don't condone men hittin women unless the women hits first." Its funny that some of yall sayin that Rhi deserved to be beat up are also women who have hit men. So in essence you should have been beaten up just like Chris did Rhi. Rhi may not have let him "walk" away then his ass should have ran. Even at 5'10, 125 lbs is freakin small and doesn't compare to the 200 lbs Chris is. The fact is he took yall route and hit back, now his career is in danger, his rep is shot, and he has court dates. So maybe hittin a woman cuz she hit you with a stelleto wasn't the right decision. If it was you, your mother, sister, auntie, or best friend istead of Rhi I doubt your response would be "Well you did hit him first."

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