Ladies Help a Sister Out and Give Me Some Advice. PLEASE
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Ok, so here goes. There is this guy in my class, he is sexy as hell, nice deep voice, and athletic just like I like them.And he flirts with me all the time. Which is totally perfect.
The problem is my friend liked him first. And this is like my only girlfriend because I dont keep girlfriends.
What the hell should I do, I dont want to lose her as a friend. And I know for a fact she still likes him.
The problem is my friend liked him first. And this is like my only girlfriend because I dont keep girlfriends.
What the hell should I do, I dont want to lose her as a friend. And I know for a fact she still likes him.
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Permalink Reply by Allegra_ Marie on -
Had a situation like that before. If the guy digs you he will make his move then it will be on him not on you. I won't go after him if you think you and your friend are going to fall out. Be patient , he will come around.
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Permalink Reply by Cougar $pice on -
DMV hustlers & JS thks for your input, IT'S REFRESHING.
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Permalink Reply by MY PRESIDENT IS BLACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on -
Because you are in college, your friend counts for a whole lot more than a man does becuase I doubt he's looking for a long term relationship. So I agree with most and I say ogle him from afar, and until your girl moves on, or you find her someone else to move on too, he is definitley off limits. Good luck.
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Permalink Reply by Charlie/Daddy's Girl on -
You're in college, so I say no...Now if it was me, I'd tell her to get over it...if he's feeling me and I'm feeling him - then she'd have to find another crush...
But like WS said...who does he want?
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Permalink Reply by MY PRESIDENT IS BLACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on
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Yeah but were you and LaLa BFF's though, lol? And you know it's different in real life than it is on a college campus which is a microcosm of the real world, with emotions multiplied by ten becuase everyone is running around trying to be an adult, with highschool issues still lingering. I wouldn't wan't Rose to loose her bestest (lol) friend, over some guy that may not even be a forever kinda thing, is all I'm syaing. Now in the real world I would say go for it. It's the school part that changes things.
B.B. said:your friend can't get mad if he is digging you. she never had the nerves to approach him so why trip. Hell, I should be mad at LALA for getting Carmelo, but I never pushed up on him. so I can't be mad, I may not like it. But I'm not mad. Hoping and wishing doesn't amount to a hill of beans when the actions are absent!
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Permalink Reply by Chocolate Allure on -
I wouldn't pursue anything with him! Although she and he may NEVER come to fruition, your friend's feelings are more important. And more importantly it is a lesson in self control, loyalty and respect for boundaries. I was in a similar situation. In college a guy that I liked made a play at my girlfriend. She knew it because I had his name written inside my notebook in little hearts. And I talked to her about him. But as soon as he flirted with her, she JUMPED at the opportunity. I was a little disturbed that she would do it, and it made me re-evaluate our friendship.Then one day while walking to class he ran up behind me and put his arm around my shoulder and whispered, "If I was looking for a girlfriend or a wife, you would be my choice, but right now I just want to have fun!" Did I tell my friend "Nope"! I let him have fun and her get used!
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Permalink Reply by Rose on -
lol
Chocolate Allure said:I wouldn't pursue anything with him! Although she and he may NEVER come to fruition, your friend's feelings are more important. And more importantly it is a lesson in self control, loyalty and respect for boundaries. I was in a similar situation. In college a guy that I liked made a play at my girlfriend. She knew it because I had his name written inside my notebook in little hearts. And I talked to her about him. But as soon as he flirted with her, she JUMPED at the opportunity. I was a little disturbed that she would do it, and it made me re-evaluate our friendship.Then one day while walking to class he ran up behind me and put his arm around my shoulder and whispered, "If I was looking for a girlfriend or a wife, you would be my choice, but right now I just want to have fun!" Did I tell my friend "Nope"! I let him have fun and her get used!
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Permalink Reply by Rose on
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@ Everyone...Thank you so much for your advice it is greatly appreaciated...however I decided not to go after him..almost all the girls in my class like him, I seen a girl buy him breakfast yesterday, and from my obsevation I think he is fucking two or three of the girls in my class. I dont want to be on that list, Its not worth being a piece of ass to him and loosing my friendship with my bff...who knows I might take my panties off, fuck him and he might not make me cum which would be much worse than loosing my friendship...lol
On the bright side though..I do have a new crush...drum rolls please...he is a white guy, this is my first time I ever had a crush on a white guy...aaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....lol...I always said I would never go out with a white guy, I dont like white men..then I realized if you like men...your gonna like a man matter what color he is....its not his color its his personality, his swagger, that your attracted to.
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Permalink Reply by Miss Vogue on -
LOL, good for you Rose, Im happy you moved on.... Good luck with the white boy...and I agree if you like men then color shouldnt matter!!! Let us know how it plays out.. im curious...
and LOL at the girl buyin him breakfast.... can we say desperate...
Rose said:@ Everyone...Thank you so much for your advice it is greatly appreaciated...however I decided not to go after him..almost all the girls in my class like him, I seen a girl buy him breakfast yesterday, and from my obsevation I think he is fucking two or three of the girls in my class. I dont want to be on that list, Its not worth being a piece of ass to him and loosing my friendship with my bff...who knows I might take my panties off, fuck him and he might not make me cum which would be much worse than loosing my friendship...lol
On the bright side though..I do have a new crush...drum rolls please...he is a white guy, this is my first time I ever had a crush on a white guy...aaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....lol...I always said I would never go out with a white guy, I dont like white men..then I realized if you like men...your gonna like a man matter what color he is....its not his color its his personality, his swagger, that your attracted to.
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