Wesley Weston aka Lil Flip and I have a 4 year old son together. I am not one of those fame hungry women that puts all of their business out there for attention, but I feel that I have been pushed to the limit by this man, and I want people to know the real “Lil Flip”. Wesley (LilFlip) and I were together for about 6 and a half years. When we first started dating I had a 2 year old daughter that he raised as his own (she called him daddy and everything), because her real father has never been in her life. Well back in January of 2009 I decided to end our very volatile relationship due to personal reasons that I’d rather not discuss. So now, jumping forward to December of 09, he has only talked to my children maybe 5 times this year, and thats because I’ve called him! They missed their daddy, and he never calls! He didn’t even call on Christmas nor did he get his ONLY son anything! He did not get his son anything for his birthday in June, and didn’t call him either. No call on Thanksgiving as well. So yesterday on Christmas, around 8pm at night he sends me a text message that said “Wow it’s 8 o’clock and you still haven’t had my son call me, great mothering skills” then went on to say that I was ungrateful, and money hungry, because I had previously asked him for a little extra money on top of the little $500 he pays a month for child support to do some Christmas shopping. He sent me $150 through western union THE DAY BEFORE CHRISTMAS knowing his son needed winter cloths and shoes!!! (I have the Western Union receipt with the date and child support paper work if you’d like me to send you all a copy). And as if that weren’t bad enough, this pompous a**h*** sent my 9 year old daughter (who she refers to as daddy) a text message that said and I quote “By the way Im not your real dad, just so you’ll know the truth!” on Christmas night! So I feel I have no choice but to put his sorry a** on blast. My daughter did not deserve that, and she was so confused and upset after reading that. And I don’t allow anyone to hurt my children, not even Lil Flip. So after posting what happened on my twitter page last night, I have decided to contact you guys at bossip. I really don’t want to exploit my children, but I want people to know how arrogant and evil this man is. So I really hope you guys decide to post this. Because he basically ruined my daughters Christmas, and I am beyond pissed! bossip.com

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You know throughout the whole TI/Lil Flip thing I rode with Flip because of my loyalty to Houston,Texas, and the third coast in general. I am from Galveston County so we are technically neighbors. And how it goes,specifically when you are in the pen,is that you always ride with home. Whether you blood or crip it doesn't make a difference, Houston rides with Houston, Mississippi rides with Missippi, etc. etc. But this bull s*** here is when i have to take a step back and say f*** Lil Flip with that dead beat dad s***. I don't like it when dudes don't take care of their responsibilities especially when it pertains to your son and your "adopted" daughter. What a s*** head and that's why his b**** ass ain't selling no records. He got this little girl calling him daddy and when he no longer wants the mother all or the sudden she not his anymore and the fact that you only paying 500.00 a month on child suppport! Mother f*****!
What a douchebag!!
wooww!!! that was very ignorant of the bastard to email a child saying im not ur dad. i hope someone run his ass over on New Years so she can tell her daughter- "dont cry he wasnt ur real father" but he probably doesnt have any extra money to send cuz no one i know has bought a lil flip album or even listens to him- BTW beautiful kids
Some dudes ain't ish... i won't even bother calling him a Man he is unworthy of the title! Sad for those kids and praying they are resilient enough too heal from that.
I don;t know if I can agree that $500 is plenty of $$ to buy clothes for a child. Child Support is not just for "clothes etc" it is for ALL of the chids needs it is supposed to help with FOOD, SHELTER, & Neccesities. BTW I know dudes who have WAY more modest jobs who pay MORE than $500 a month. There is no excusing what he did to that baby whether he is the child's faher or not it was HEARTLESS

Tee said:
Question how did your daughter receive the text msgs. (if she has a phone you wasting money right there) If he wasnt there for any of the other major holidays WHY did you assume he would be there for this one. If he sends you $500 for child support a month you have PLENTY of money to buy HIS SON clothes. Then you got $150 the day before technically you straight. Yes, he treated your daughter like his but it aint his so you cant be mad actually. You wanted to much from a person you didnt like and barely communicated with. If $650 wasnt enough for the December month you doing to much. Go get a better job and stop depending his dead beat ass
That's a f***** up thing to do to a child. He ain't s***! I can't believe he sent that to a little kid...
I seriously hate when men call a woman money hungry when they are paying some low ass amount of child support. Come on $500 a month is $16 a day...not quite money hungry.
You clearly don't have kids. How can you say this dumb s***? No it's not his biological child but if he raised her and she has been calling him daddy since she was a baby then it's his child. If he didn't want her to think that anymore, he and the mother should have discussed this and sat the child down and explained it. Not through a text on Christmas day. When you a rapper running around with THOUSANDS of $$$ worth of jewelry around his neck and in his mouth $500 is not enough. My sister gets 800 a month from her baby daddy and he makes $38k a year.


Tee said:
Question how did your daughter receive the text msgs. (if she has a phone you wasting money right there) If he wasnt there for any of the other major holidays WHY did you assume he would be there for this one. If he sends you $500 for child support a month you have PLENTY of money to buy HIS SON clothes. Then you got $150 the day before technically you straight. Yes, he treated your daughter like his but it aint his so you cant be mad actually. You wanted to much from a person you didnt like and barely communicated with. If $650 wasnt enough for the December month you doing to much. Go get a better job and stop depending his dead beat ass
You are so right. 500.00 aint s***,my sister makes 21/hr and still struggling between food,rent,health care,and other things. You can't raise a child on those pennies!

Bish said:
You clearly don't have kids. How can you say this dumb s***? No it's not his biological child but if he raised her and she has been calling him daddy since she was a baby then it's his child. If he didn't want her to think that anymore, he and the mother should have discussed this and sat the child down and explained it. Not through a text on Christmas day. When you a rapper running around with THOUSANDS of $$$ worth of jewelry around his neck and in his mouth $500 is not enough. My sister gets 800 a month from her baby daddy and he makes $38k a year.


Tee said:
Question how did your daughter receive the text msgs. (if she has a phone you wasting money right there) If he wasnt there for any of the other major holidays WHY did you assume he would be there for this one. If he sends you $500 for child support a month you have PLENTY of money to buy HIS SON clothes. Then you got $150 the day before technically you straight. Yes, he treated your daughter like his but it aint his so you cant be mad actually. You wanted to much from a person you didnt like and barely communicated with. If $650 wasnt enough for the December month you doing to much. Go get a better job and stop depending his dead beat ass
Am I the only one that gets irritated when women only want to blast one father? I'm not excusing Lil Flip by no means. Because if you are man enough to make them or have them call you Daddy then damnit man up and do what's right. But, its the same thing with the Rick Ross situation. You have two other sons and two other fathers but because they aren't famous we roll right pass that situation. If you're going to blast one blast them all. This was your opprotunity to let everyone know who her real father is, who is also a deadbeat. If you are going to put it out there then don't hold back.

Second, I do not agree with her allowing her children's faces to be seen. They didn't ask for this so their privacy should be respected. Where is her picture?

Third, let's be real we only know one side of the story. Ya'll don't know if he really has it like that or not. Real talk not all rappers are rich and in fact most are broke. I'm a believer that it takes more than money to raise a child and my main issue isn't about him sending her extra money (because I'm not his accountant so I don't know if he has it or not) its really why isn't he more involved in these kids life. Kids don't understand about child support that's between the adults and the courts. But, they do have feelings and they feel sad when they feel their love has been rejected.
Yeah, I'm out done with the misconception that child support comes with guidelines on where it can be spent or that all it takes to take care of a child is clothes and kicks. What about mortgage, lights, gas(for home or car), water, food and child care? Believe it or not mommy does not use that sh*t by herself.

And $500 ain't sh*t. That tells me Flip must be flipping burgers.
I agree with the part about blasting one father...

C.J. said:
Am I the only one that gets irritated when women only want to blast one father? I'm not excusing Lil Flip by no means. Because if you are man enough to make them or have them call you Daddy then damnit man up and do what's right. But, its the same thing with the Rick Ross situation. You have two other sons and two other fathers but because they aren't famous we roll right pass that situation. If you're going to blast one blast them all. This was your opprotunity to let everyone know who her real father is, who is also a deadbeat. If you are going to put it out there then don't hold back.

Second, I do not agree with her allowing her children's faces to be seen. They didn't ask for this so their privacy should be respected. Where is her picture?

Third, let's be real we only know one side of the story. Ya'll don't know if he really has it like that or not. Real talk not all rappers are rich and in fact most are broke. I'm a believer that it takes more than money to raise a child and my main issue isn't about him sending her extra money (because I'm not his accountant so I don't know if he has it or not) its really why isn't he more involved in these kids life. Kids don't understand about child support that's between the adults and the courts. But, they do have feelings and they feel sad when they feel their love has been rejected.</</b>div>
I think her anger and the decision to put him on blast came from the way her treated her baby girl on Christmas. If you already ran out on your own, why call and torture her's on the holiday? Child support comes in the mother's name, not the child's. So mother can spend it on whatever she sees fit. Whatever Flip's situation is, the boy is his and it's Christmas. Those mothers that dont get sh*t make a way out of no way and his sorry azz should too. I'm totally against kissing a man's azz so he will support his or making excuses for why he can't. Clothiing kids is not what cost an arm and a leg. Food, shelter, medical and child care cost an arm and both legs.

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