Looking( Or Trying to be) Presentable AT ALL TIMES

 

I wanted to vent, because of  THIS:

Why is it that so many of us leave our scarves on to take the kids to school in the morning? Others of us go to Wal-Mart with our house shoes and pajamas still on, LOOKING A MESS.

Why is that some of us only put the time and effort into ourselves when we are going out to lunch with girlfriends or hunting for our future Ballers. That’s a problem because when can spot a baller anywhere and at any moment. And here you are in the produce section at Safeway looking like  who did it, what for, why, and please don’t do that again.

When looking at someone  for the first time you want to be attracted to something  and most time it is the beauty of that person , and you with your have tied up and your SpongeBob slipper with the holes them  IS NOT (AND WILL NOT BE ) attractive to a Baller or any half-way decent man for that matter. EVER!

I totally understand that you just rolled out of bed and your slightly hung over from the night before, and you wish you would have left LIL’RayRay at your momma house, but take a few minutes to get the crust out your eyes, un-wipe your hair, and put on something other than pajamas ON: even if your plans are to get right back in the bed.

You are a billboard, and you advertising your product which is YOU. And you advertising is not  a good looking.

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You can have  a head scarf but don't 'tie it at the front' like Auntie Jemima lol

Wear jeans or sexy sweats and you're presentable.

You can the ulgiest looking beautiful with a little bit of work. Im not saying that you can not be fly while wearing a hea scarf because you can. I was just using that as a example of what not to do. I know many of times s*** happens, because I know that I have on many occasion have went to the chinesse market for a mango and end up doing 100 other things. Im not  saying do your errands with on a face full of make-up and put your "f*** me" pumps on. What I am saying is make your presentable when you leave the house.

 

BUT WHAT IS PRESENTABLE TO YOU MAYBE  NOT PRESENTABLE TO ME

Lol. 

I have aunts in Louisiana (no other part of my family does this) that get up, do their hair, put on a full face of makeup & dressed to the nines to sit in the house & watch tv... I developed an early aversion to it, I think that's why I'm so overly casual... 

CCDreamer aka Eve Davis said:
I went natural so I don't have these issues. Never was one for wearing pjs anywhere but around the house. I get dressed to take out the trash. *shrug*
I don't get super dressed up when doing casual things, but I can't wear my head scarf or pajamas outside my house, I just can't!
Hey, if you must... at least do a ponytail and baseball hat. At least you'll look "sporty." Some guys dig the tomboy look.
@ JM- wow, really?

JustMe said:
Lol. 
I have aunts in Louisiana (no other part of my family does this) that get up, do their hair, put on a full face of makeup & dressed to the nines to sit in the house & watch tv... I developed an early aversion to it, I think that's why I'm so overly casual... 

CCDreamer aka Eve Davis said:
I went natural so I don't have these issues. Never was one for wearing pjs anywhere but around the house. I get dressed to take out the trash. *shrug*
Girl yes!!!!! I mean hair laid, and face beat!!! Drawn on eyebrows and ALL...
And when I dress up, I'm still casual... If I need a party dress, it's dressy but it's not overtly dressy... I just like to look like me... 

Honeycoated said:
@ JM- wow, really?

JustMe said:
Lol.  I have aunts in Louisiana (no other part of my family does this) that get up, do their hair, put on a full face of makeup & dressed to the nines to sit in the house & watch tv... I developed an early aversion to it, I think that's why I'm so overly casual... 

CCDreamer aka Eve Davis said:
I went natural so I don't have these issues. Never was one for wearing pjs anywhere but around the house. I get dressed to take out the trash. *shrug*
Who do they think is gonna drop by? And like someone said earlier, I want to get some "dressier" casual stuff like the Vickie Secret sweatsuit, ect

JustMe said:
Girl yes!!!!! I mean hair laid, and face beat!!! Drawn on eyebrows and ALL... And when I dress up, I'm still casual... If I need a party dress, it's dressy but it's not overtly dressy... I just like to look like me... 

Honeycoated said:
@ JM- wow, really?
JustMe said:
Lol.  I have aunts in Louisiana (no other part of my family does this) that get up, do their hair, put on a full face of makeup & dressed to the nines to sit in the house & watch tv... I developed an early aversion to it, I think that's why I'm so overly casual... 
CCDreamer aka Eve Davis said:
I went natural so I don't have these issues. Never was one for wearing pjs anywhere but around the house. I get dressed to take out the trash. *shrug*
I have older relatives that do because they never know who's going to drop by.

JustMe said:
Lol. 

I have aunts in Louisiana (no other part of my family does this) that get up, do their hair, put on a full face of makeup & dressed to the nines to sit in the house & watch tv... I developed an early aversion to it, I think that's why I'm so overly casual... 

CCDreamer aka Eve Davis said:
I went natural so I don't have these issues. Never was one for wearing pjs anywhere but around the house. I get dressed to take out the trash. *shrug*
I guess this whole go out in your scarf thing is just declasse' to me.  I wouldn't put on full make-up to go to the market, but I do think through my outfit. And yes, even casual...it's an outfit.  I am single in a big city...I never know who I might have the opportunity to meet. Once I ran into my ex's girl...and she had a rag on her head at the market, so I was just glad my lipgloss was popping.

I'm working on looking more presentable when I'm out in public....

Hello, my name is Kissyface and I am a  flip flops too often in public wearer :(

Honeycoated said:

Hello, my name is Honeycoated, am I a serial head-scarf in-public wearer!

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 Now, I know I will not be getting out of the car, so that's my justification for it. Most of the time when i drop my daughter off @ school, i just pull up and she gets out. Just today I went to the beauty supply, it was in the hood, so i felt it was okay to wear my headscarf! LOL Sure, you can bump into anyone, at anytime, but yes, i do this. LOL

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