I just found out my dude has 4 more kids than what he told me making the grand total equal 9. WTF I'm livid and of course he says all of them r not his. Damn and we live together. Thoughts comments advice

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yes i went through this with the idiot, and he claims im giving him the 3rd degree, ohhhoooohhh. im so mad,
i laughed. i apologize. but um girl run! not worth it!
lol


sierramist said:
i laughed. i apologize. but um girl run! not worth it!
You don't want to be with a man who does not acknowledge his OWN children! On top of that he lied to you. Even if they are not his *side eye* he should've given you a heads up about the whole situation. Plus now it's got you thinking (I hope it has) what other skeletons are in his closet.

So...He disrespects his seeds, he disrespects you AND he is not trustworthy. Hmmm, where can this really go? Get out girl, run and FAST!
Lol similiar situation happen to me. Dude told me he had 2 found out months later he had 9 kids and 7 baby mommas. Is his name Benjamin? lol Anyway...can you pay the rent by yourself????
lol no. i dont work im in school, so i might have to move n get a roommate

Keytolife said:
Lol similiar situation happen to me. Dude told me he had 2 found out months later he had 9 kids and 7 baby mommas. Is his name Benjamin? lol Anyway...can you pay the rent by yourself????
Oh because what I was going to tell you to do is call the cops file a complaint and they will make him leave even if he is on the lease (I know it works like this in most states) but only do this if you really can't stand this nicca! Or just play the game, stack your paper and bounce if you really don't have a second option. Maybe start looking for a job ASAP!

memyselfnI said:
lol no. i dont work im in school, so i might have to move n get a roommate

Keytolife said:
Lol similiar situation happen to me. Dude told me he had 2 found out months later he had 9 kids and 7 baby mommas. Is his name Benjamin? lol Anyway...can you pay the rent by yourself????
You have my permission to phuck him up since y'all don't have any kids. LOL

But, seriously pack your ish and go!!! You dodged a bullet, speak to your landlord and get your name off the lease.

Get away from him before you do something you'll regret. He's in defense mode right now so he'll deny, deny and try to make you doubt yourself. Like you said, always trust your intuition.
lmao at bottle of birth control

Madison said:
GET RID OF HIM NOW DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM EVEN WITH A BOTTLE OF BIRTH CONTROL ..YOU CANNOT GET YOUR TIME BACK HE IS A TOTAL LOZER IS HE EVEN TAKING CARE OF HIS KIDS GET AWAY RUN, RUN, RUN DON'T WALK!
Co-sign to everybody!!!! He gots to go (one way or the other) *to the left to the left*

@memyselfni
I hope everything works out for you.
Stay blessed. Stay focused.
Take care... :)
Similair story, he had five, I knew about 3, was sitting there with his son at his mom house- I asked "who son is that?", cuz i had seen him around and they looked alike- he was like i dont know who that punk is- joking- the boy was about 16-17, and his mom was like thats his boy and the baby- who he told mw was his niece- If a man can deny his own, he is a selfish, hearltess, son of a *itch which i found out- (all my bad relationship stories includes him) and theres no telling what he may do- like everyone else- Get out, while u can and dont let the fact that u guys stay together hold u back.
I agree. Run for the hills. Does he pay child support? In this day and age, anyone with that many kids should be living on a farm and those brats should be working the land. How else can you feed 9 kids?

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