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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on March 21, 2012 at 12:20am

i wanna know this too....and he wants you to think its your fault for getting him fired and you know its not, but he still claims it is..chile.. Like Spice say, when your well runs dry, he will be gone.....Think of it like this (not trying to be negative)  but your heart going to get broken one way or the other, may as well have it broken on your own terms than someone else's.

I hope you listen to everyone but if not Good Luck!!

 
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

.....and what job was this, what was he doing?

Honeycoated said:

oh, well maybe that's why you're so careless with it because you didnt work for that money, it just fell in your lap. Depending on how much it is, you can blow through it before you know it if you're not smart.
 I agree with Old Spice. He's just hanging out.

 

You never answered the question about his job(s). What does he do for a living? he has gotten all these jobs rather quickly and why would he cuss you out for showing  up at his job for lunch?
 Sw33tNeSS said:

I won a settlement so.....yea I do have cash just sitting around but it's not like I'm tryna blow it

 

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Permalink Reply by mese on March 21, 2012 at 12:22am

No the hell it was NOT! Lol! Haha it was sweetness. i think smitty is saying it was my posts thats you did the gif in. 

MissBling said:

Wait, So it was Mese who had sex in the back of the car and got preggers? I could have sworn it was Sweetness because Tone was taunting her about it...

University of Smitty said:

@Siren    You are my Guru.

 

@Bling   it was in one of mese's post about that azzhole she was going back and forth with....

 

Sweetness, if you've only known his since January, you dont know him AT ALL. How long was he on this 'job' he lost??  Was he the only person there to lose his job???  Does he get an unemployment check????? 

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Permalink Reply by MissBling on March 21, 2012 at 1:41am

Lol! Ohh ok, I was like wayment!! I tried to wait until after your b-day to clarify lol! This ish is so like whoa, I forgot about the gif completely. I need to know if it's the same dude, if so she's dickmatized.

mese said:

No the hell it was NOT! Lol! Haha it was sweetness. i think smitty is saying it was my posts thats you did the gif in. 

MissBling said:

Wait, So it was Mese who had sex in the back of the car and got preggers? I could have sworn it was Sweetness because Tone was taunting her about it...

University of Smitty said:

@Siren    You are my Guru.

 

@Bling   it was in one of mese's post about that azzhole she was going back and forth with....

 

Sweetness, if you've only known his since January, you dont know him AT ALL. How long was he on this 'job' he lost??  Was he the only person there to lose his job???  Does he get an unemployment check????? 

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Permalink Reply by Sw33tNeSS on March 21, 2012 at 2:21am

*sigh*
Well I kno what I gotta do. Rather break my own heart on my terms. Damn this gonna be hard. 

:'(

MissBling said:

Lol! Ohh ok, I was like wayment!! I tried to wait until after your b-day to clarify lol! This ish is so like whoa, I forgot about the gif completely. I need to know if it's the same dude, if so she's dickmatized.

mese said:

No the hell it was NOT! Lol! Haha it was sweetness. i think smitty is saying it was my posts thats you did the gif in. 

MissBling said:

Wait, So it was Mese who had sex in the back of the car and got preggers? I could have sworn it was Sweetness because Tone was taunting her about it...

University of Smitty said:

@Siren    You are my Guru.

 

@Bling   it was in one of mese's post about that azzhole she was going back and forth with....

 

Sweetness, if you've only known his since January, you dont know him AT ALL. How long was he on this 'job' he lost??  Was he the only person there to lose his job???  Does he get an unemployment check????? 

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on March 21, 2012 at 2:46am

sweetness every guy you have told us about has been a loser. The guy that played drums was using you this guy is using you.
Sw33tNeSS said:

I must say I do disagree with u lol. U don't know me only thru Internet but everyone always says I have such high self esteem and I'm bright and young ad all of that. 
I was speaking with a male friend of mine who stated that maybe he is intimidated by me and therefore rejects my love
I could believe it BUT I hate the whole "I'm intimidated by you" crap. I'm a small girl lol. 
I kno I can do better but.....unfortunately my heart wants this guy

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

You don't love him, you just want to 'be with someone' and you don't have confidence in yourself that you can do better. I weep for you. I don't know how many times we can give you the same advice.

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Permalink Reply by Student Beauty on March 21, 2012 at 9:44am

Hello, I hope you are well. This site is about empowering yourself. For real, you are taking care of a child. You are not his mother it is not your job to make sure "he is comfortable." I dont feel that you are in a postition to "drop dough" on this man. You only known him for lest than 120 days! You are not allowing him to be a man. Right now you are HIS b**** and you lost control.

He is not your Future Husband! He is your present headache! ONLY you can make this EASY decision. First you have to understand, "Who you are and why you constantly allow yourself to be placed in a position for instant failure. I understand that no one wants to be lonely. But I would rather be lonely and spending 5k in Paris than to come home to a man who just gobbled up my damn Captn Crunch Peanut butter cereal with his boxers and ESPN! "Oh HELL NAW."

Your new man should have just as much as you can bring to the table. It might take some time, but you need the time to figure out somethings about yourself. We have all made mistakes but you need to learn from it.
I would rather be lonely in luxury than be miserable with "Nat the Wino" <-- Not calling your man that.
I wish you all the best! Seek a therapist your cycle needs to stop. You love will come. As long as dude is there, how do you ever think that love will show itself?

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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on March 21, 2012 at 10:08am

THANK YOU!!!!  That sh*t was pure manipulation at its WORST.  I bet his azz QUIT his job because he knew your money was coming in.  Every loser with a woman quits his job during income tax season

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

i wanna know this too....and he wants you to think its your fault for getting him fired and you know its not, but he still claims it is..chile.. Like Spice say, when your well runs dry, he will be gone.....Think of it like this (not trying to be negative)  but your heart going to get broken one way or the other, may as well have it broken on your own terms than someone else's.

I hope you listen to everyone but if not Good Luck!!

  OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

.....and what job was this, what was he doing?
Honeycoated said:

oh, well maybe that's why you're so careless with it because you didnt work for that money, it just fell in your lap. Depending on how much it is, you can blow through it before you know it if you're not smart.  I agree with Old Spice. He's just hanging out.

 

You never answered the question about his job(s). What does he do for a living? he has gotten all these jobs rather quickly and why would he cuss you out for showing  up at his job for lunch?  Sw33tNeSS said:

I won a settlement so.....yea I do have cash just sitting around but it's not like I'm tryna blow it

 

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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on March 21, 2012 at 10:08am

i get mese and sweetness mixed up too
 
MissBling said:

Lol! Ohh ok, I was like wayment!! I tried to wait until after your b-day to clarify lol! This ish is so like whoa, I forgot about the gif completely. I need to know if it's the same dude, if so she's dickmatized.

mese said:

No the hell it was NOT! Lol! Haha it was sweetness. i think smitty is saying it was my posts thats you did the gif in. 

MissBling said:

Wait, So it was Mese who had sex in the back of the car and got preggers? I could have sworn it was Sweetness because Tone was taunting her about it...

University of Smitty said:

@Siren    You are my Guru.

 

@Bling   it was in one of mese's post about that azzhole she was going back and forth with....

 

Sweetness, if you've only known his since January, you dont know him AT ALL. How long was he on this 'job' he lost??  Was he the only person there to lose his job???  Does he get an unemployment check????? 

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Permalink Reply by Ms. BoiBye on March 21, 2012 at 10:36am

Ok what is a gif?

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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on March 21, 2012 at 10:50am

A .gif is those pictures we put up to show that facial expresision you might make when reading the post or whatever like the gif I put up of the man closing his laptop when I read how she spent 5K on some dude

 
Ms. BoiBye said:

Ok what is a gif?

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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on March 21, 2012 at 11:04am

.....which brings me to another question, did you tell this loser how you supported the last loser????  If so, please dont do that again.  As far as men are concerned, you have NEVER nor will you EVER, financially take of one.  You have to get your manipulate on, Sweetness......or else they will get you every time

Tone said:

sweetness every guy you have told us about has been a loser. The guy that played drums was using you this guy is using you.
Sw33tNeSS said:

I must say I do disagree with u lol. U don't know me only thru Internet but everyone always says I have such high self esteem and I'm bright and young ad all of that.  I was speaking with a male friend of mine who stated that maybe he is intimidated by me and therefore rejects my love
I could believe it BUT I hate the whole "I'm intimidated by you" crap. I'm a small girl lol. 
I kno I can do better but.....unfortunately my heart wants this guy

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

You don't love him, you just want to 'be with someone' and you don't have confidence in yourself that you can do better. I weep for you. I don't know how many times we can give you the same advice.

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Permalink Reply by Sheli on March 21, 2012 at 11:24am

I'll kill a nigga over some Capt'n Crunch Berries, but anyway....I really hope you're "HEARING" what is being said and not just going along "yesing us" and then doing the exact opposite. That man isn't the one for you, you're the one for him right now and as soon as you stop doing all that you're doing he'll show you his true colors. If you can't find the strength to leave, then at least find the courage to tell him you can't take care of him anymore and see how long he sticks around. I guarantee he'll make the decision to leave for you. If this is the same guy that you were pregnant by then he was no good for your from day one, leave before you're in too deep, it's only been 90 days, you're not in love with him, your infatuated with the idea of LOVING him. 

Student Beauty said:

Hello, I hope you are well. This site is about empowering yourself. For real, you are taking care of a child. You are not his mother it is not your job to make sure "he is comfortable." I dont feel that you are in a postition to "drop dough" on this man. You only known him for lest than 120 days! You are not allowing him to be a man. Right now you are HIS b**** and you lost control.

He is not your Future Husband! He is your present headache! ONLY you can make this EASY decision. First you have to understand, "Who you are and why you constantly allow yourself to be placed in a position for instant failure. I understand that no one wants to be lonely. But I would rather be lonely and spending 5k in Paris than to come home to a man who just gobbled up my damn Captn Crunch Peanut butter cereal with his boxers and ESPN! "Oh HELL NAW."

Your new man should have just as much as you can bring to the table. It might take some time, but you need the time to figure out somethings about yourself. We have all made mistakes but you need to learn from it.
I would rather be lonely in luxury than be miserable with "Nat the Wino" <-- Not calling your man that.
I wish you all the best! Seek a therapist your cycle needs to stop. You love will come. As long as dude is there, how do you ever think that love will show itself?

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