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MARRIED MEN WHY DO YOU DO THIS?
Ok, I really need advice. I just read your story about the young lady who had a relationship with a married man. My story is similar. I was
16 when I met *Sean. He Told me he was 25. So we just went out Every
now and again. He never pressured me for sex. He didn't know at the
time I was a virgin. We kept in contact for years. When I turned 19 we
saw each other more and more. I finally lost m virginity to him. Our
relationship was going good. later found out he lied about his age he
is actually 35(he looks young tho).So now I'm 21 we been together for
going on 6 years. In july I found out he was getting married...and not
to me...to 31 year old woman who he had been with for 10 years. I was
shocked. I was hurt. And we stopped talking....for a while. I'm so in
love with him it hurts. So we continued to see each other. Its not just
sex with him. We go out we do bf/gf things. I found out frm his brother
that his wife is not from this country and she comes from money. He
claims he won't be married to his wife for long and just with her for
money. I'm lost because idk if he lying about the whole situation. I
know he loves me but I'm not sure if that's enough. I feel like our
relationship is partly based on a lie. But I want to be with him at the
same time. I'm just not sure if this relationship is worth it anymore.
I need advice!!!
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Tags: MARRIED, MEN, RELATIONSHIPS
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on -
Um...did she somehow miss the billboards from the mistress who was dumped after an 8 1/2 year long affair? Ok. I am going to be harsh. I don't like to be harsh but it is what it is.
*steps to podium, taps mike, turns up volume, takes a deep breath*
YOU ARE NOT HIS GIRLFRIEND! YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN HIS GIRLFRIEND! IF YOU STAY YOU WILL ALWAYS BE JUST THE OTHER WOMAN! HE WILL LEAVE YOU WHEN HE GETS GOOD AND DAMN READY! IF HIS WIFE HAS THAT MUCH MONEY HE WILL NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER LEAVE HER! PLEASE BREAK IT OFF WITH HIM! SEEK COUNSELING IF YOU HAVE TO BUT GET OUT NOW!
*leaves podium*
She ain't listening to anyone who doesn't tell her to hang in there because he might just leave his wife. Cuz fairytales really do come true. But I thought I'd give it a try. *shrug*
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on -
why would any woman stay with a man who gets MARRIED on them?
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Permalink Reply by SACK CHASER on -
Cause she luuuuuuvs him! *kanye shrug*
Tab said:Why would any woman want to be with a man that says he is using another woman for money? Okkkk....
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Permalink Reply by Jade on -
Okay first off I've never dealt with a married man before, but have been the other woman. Anywho, men like this are very selfish and incapable of knowing what real love is, because if he did he would be with his wife or girlfriend and you would not be the sidechick. I know he might say I love you, buy you nice things, and take you out but that is just to keep you around. Why would he want to just have one p**** when he can have his choice of which p**** he will be in today? These men never leave her for you and if that does happen then you will still be the other woman when he makes you his girl and gets another sidechick. You are making it easy for him, and hard for yourself. You have already invested way too much time in this one man who already has someone. Now if he truly loved you, would he really put you though this?
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on
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Truth: a friend of mine stayed with a guy for almost 10 years before deciding to break up with him after she found out he got married without telling her. He was with her on Saturday night and went to church and got married Sunday morning. smh She kept telling me how good he was in bed. That was her reason for not leaving him for so long. *SSE*
smitty said:why would any woman stay with a man who gets MARRIED on them?
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Permalink Reply by Skytz0100 on -
The fact that he started off the relationship lying should have been her clue to leave. The fact that he is marrying another women also should tell her azz to leave. I understand that he was her first and your first is always the hardest relationship to get over but she needs to move on. This man has meant her no good from the start so it is only a matter of time before that hurt turns to pain because he is going to be with that other woman. In order for him to even get anything from the women he has to be married to her for 10 years! I hope she aint that stupid to keep kicking it with dude. It sounds like on some level he is manipulating her and the poor thing is blinded by d*** and love. So sad.
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Permalink Reply by Siren on -
I ask this same thing I have a cousin who gets pregnant by this dude she works with... They all lovey dovey blah blah blah...fool gets married and doesn't tell her... People from the job went to the wedding told her! WTF
smitty said:why would any woman stay with a man who gets MARRIED on them?
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Permalink Reply by brownbombshell on -
Cookie Pie said:Remember that Vesta song ' Congratulations ...... I thought it would have been me ..... standing there with you , congratulations .... I hope you're happy , cause as long as I can breath , you'll always be the one for meeeeee.
That was my song, but I was too young to understand the implications.
When a man starts off telling lies about minor things, i.e. their age, you cannot expect them to be truthful about important things.
I cringe when I hear about men lying about their age.
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Permalink Reply by Tommy McBride on -
OK, so this man was 30ish when he started dating a 16 year old???? This perv has surely been manipulating her mind and molding her thoughts to meet his needs for like the last 6 yrs. Sadly, she isn't going anywhere anytime soon.
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Permalink Reply by Golden Child on -
Wow, that's cause for municipal ass whooping....damn and I just got out of jail. Oh well I'd be going back if that was me.
Siren said:I ask this same thing I have a cousin who gets pregnant by this dude she works with... They all lovey dovey blah blah blah...fool gets married and doesn't tell her... People from the job went to the wedding told her! WTF
smitty said:why would any woman stay with a man who gets MARRIED on them?
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Permalink Reply by Lisa on -
COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER. BEEN THERE DONE THAT AND IT HAPPENED EXACTLY LIKE YOU JUST SAID.
Jade said:Okay first off I've never dealt with a married man before, but have been the other woman. Anywho, men like this are very selfish and incapable of knowing what real love is, because if he did he would be with his wife or girlfriend and you would not be the sidechick. I know he might say I love you, buy you nice things, and take you out but that is just to keep you around. Why would he want to just have one p**** when he can have his choice of which p**** he will be in today? These men never leave her for you and if that does happen then you will still be the other woman when he makes you his girl and gets another sidechick. You are making it easy for him, and hard for yourself. You have already invested way too much time in this one man who already has someone. Now if he truly loved you, would he really put you though this?
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Permalink Reply by Elise' on -
NEVER EVER allow a man to put another woman BEFORE you--it does not matter about loot, he should ne man enough to make enough on his own (even if he has to get 3 jobs)
once you allow it--you can forget it--you'll NEVER EVER be number 1 because you allowed it to happen.
you need to cut off ALL communication and make him choose--a woman he SUPPOSEDLY only wants for money or you..
Life is too short to be waiting a nucca to scheme and scam..go enjoy your life and get two men if that'll help you move on from this b*******!
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