Saw this on www.necolebitchie.com

So last night Mashonda (who is sort of still married to Swizz Beats) decided to confront Alicia Keys on twitter. Alicia was tweeting about love earlier that day and MaShonda felt she was being insensitive to her situation since her divorce to Swizz Beats hasn’t been finalized. So she wrote up a long tweet (using twitlonger) to Alicia and claims she will tweet it every day until she gets a response. Very interesting to me that it was done in a public forum (twitter) however she was very mature about the situation. Check it below:

After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @aliciakeys twit page. I’ve never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I’ve reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.

I was a fan of AK’s last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.

Already I can hear some of you saying ” why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken”. Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, thats false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.

My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.

If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create.
Im not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I just wish you would’ve handled things more carefully. I’m not judging you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice. I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesnt exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now

This is not a publicity stunt, I dont have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don’t have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!

I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what’s real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the “people”, this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, Im sure you want to find a balance in this as well.

I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its baffling to me that you don’t understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I dont consider myself a victim anymore, Ive learned alot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong.

If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I’m not going anywhere. Theres a child to be raised.

To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone, be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the other foot.

Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity.

In case you didn’t know, A. Keys and Mashonda came face to face at Swizz Beats birthday party a little over a week ago but there was no drama as the two shook hands and went on their merry way. MaShonda has been pretty quiet about the situation over the past few months because Swizz Beats sought a gag order to keep her from talking about the divorce proceedings. However Alicia Keys has an album coming out in December, and what perfect timing to jump back on the case for MaShonda.

Now the big question is “Why isn’t the divorce finalized yet?”

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She tweeted all this in one tweet???
This whole situation is a mess and I NEVER promote a woman sleeping with another woman's husband, However there have been conflicts to this story as far as Swizz & Mashonda being seperated when they got together. Having said that Mashonda could have handled this at Swizz's party like a woman and asked AK could they step in private and talk but to me if she feels this way she should use Swizz as the mediator since their re;relationship is so great and if it is about her son'd comfort level then it should be a conversation they should all have together so boundaries and ground rules are drawn. I think her ego is what drove her to this
if it was some random chick that wasn't a superstar would she do this? The tweets I read of AK's were more generic and did not call out Swizz directly she needs to get her heart off of her sleeve. I will say that I am sure that it is beyond difficult for her to go through this but persecute the one who really betrayed you and that is your husband!
Agreed.

Siren said:
This whole situation is a mess and I NEVER promote a woman sleeping with another woman's husband, However there have been conflicts to this story as far as Swizz & Mashonda being seperated when they got together. Having said that Mashonda could have handled this at Swizz's party like a woman and asked AK could they step in private and talk but to me if she feels this way she should use Swizz as the mediator since their re;relationship is so great and if it is about her son'd comfort level then it should be a conversation they should all have together so boundaries and ground rules are drawn. I think her ego is what drove her to this
if it was some random chick that wasn't a superstar would she do this? The tweets I read of AK's were more generic and did not call out Swizz directly she needs to get her heart off of her sleeve. I will say that I am sure that it is beyond difficult for her to go through this but persecute the one who really betrayed you and that is your husband!
I think Mashonda posted her twits publicly because she is trying to be respectful but Alicia's public display of love with her husband is further humiliating and she wanted to speak out loud and let everyone know she spoke out loud......makes it hard for Alicia to act like she didn't get the same message the rest of the world did (since it was on twitter and not a personal email inbox). I think they both should be more private at the moment but at least this is not ugly and immature.........and its interesting lol
I agree with lurker because she is Alicia. Mashonda is the average woman who met Swizz when he was dead broke. This whole relationship thing sounds like Jay-Z Song Cry from his original Blueprint album.

tHeOfFiCialLuRKeR said:
If she was some random a%% chick he wouldnt have left his wife. He's with the "Superwoman" who according to LMS Doesnt know "a Womans worth" POW!

Siren said:
This whole situation is a mess and I NEVER promote a woman sleeping with another woman's husband, However there have been conflicts to this story as far as Swizz & Mashonda being seperated when they got together. Having said that Mashonda could have handled this at Swizz's party like a woman and asked AK could they step in private and talk but to me if she feels this way she should use Swizz as the mediator since their re;relationship is so great and if it is about her son'd comfort level then it should be a conversation they should all have together so boundaries and ground rules are drawn. I think her ego is what drove her to this
if it was some random chick that wasn't a superstar would she do this? The tweets I read of AK's were more generic and did not call out Swizz directly she needs to get her heart off of her sleeve. I will say that I am sure that it is beyond difficult for her to go through this but persecute the one who really betrayed you and that is your husband!
Oh so very true. Not taking any sides but jumping on Swizz's ass I've heard plenty of married men say their relationship was falling apart or they were getting a divorce and the wife knew NOTHING about it. However, Swizz is a public figure it wouldn't have taken much for Akeys to find out if she really wanted to know.

Cougar $pice said:
They do play both sides & when the get caught they beg for mercy LOL

Boss/MadamBA said:
Maybe he told her it was over...these niggas try to play both sides. And I'm not even going to say..wait for a divorce. Took my sister four years to get divorced.
The best revenge is to move on and dont look back. Is she going to write a letter behind every love song A. Keys sings? I recall reading in one of these discussions "If your man walks out on you, SHUT THE DOOR BEHIND HIM." I suggest she shut up, collect her alimony/child support, and be sure to have her new man at the next birthday party.
I feel really bad for Mashonda, but this is not the way to handle her situation. She is obviously still hurt but until she accepts what has happened she can't move on. Dwelling on the situation will only make her look sad, jealous, unhappy and so on to the public eye. Not a way to hopefully find a new love interest, if that's what she's looking for.
I'm not going to assume that they were in a happy relationship and he just decided he wanted Alicia instead. I have no idea what was going on in their marriage but it couldn't have been that great if he wanted out. You can tell from Alicia's music that she's a thoughtful person, I don't think she's a home wrecker, I think Swiss made his choice and he's happier now. If you were unhappy in a marriage for 4 years and met someone who showed you the love you'd always been looking for, would you stay in your unhappy marriage? Or, do what you feel is best for you so that you can lead a happy life? I would leave too, sorry.

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