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So i'm talking to "SugarDADDY" and he said he's going to atlantic city this weekend... my response was of course oh really? have fun!! win something for me lol ;) --he replies back with I'ma give you $$$ so you can put in the machine ... so I'm like wait you want me to come with you? and he goes NO! you are already going with me and you're driving me! ... see now my thing is... we haven't went shopping yet... i haven't got any money from him yet ...I wanna push back atlantic city a little till I get some more stuff out of him.. I'm not tryna do a quick gateways with him and I ain't get s*** yet! what yall think??
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i agree! See if you can get money outta him without going on a trip with him. Taking you out to eat aint s*** and unless the money he's given you is at least $800 or more several times, then he aint no SD.
What did he say when you said you wanted to go shopping first for a new wardrobe, luggage, hair, nails, etc?
queen of the coast said:
Boo Boo! You're gonna catch a fed case messing with this dude! First of all you're 18, you can't get into a casino! Next, he wants you to "buy" you an apartment. Aka you are going to live at the stash house! He wants you to drive to AC....if you were to get pulled over, you would be held responsible for crossing state lines. He would be an accessory and do like 2 years max. He's not going to pay for your lawyer and you will be appointed a public defender. He wants you to be his "ride or die b****"? He's basically telling you to be his partner in crime.....just sayin!
Permalink Reply by Bonita on April 19, 2012 at 6:55pm I can't stop...lol this guys sounds broke as hell. Is "you drive to AC" code for he doesn't have a car. Is I will get you an apartment code for the apartment will be in your name and you will be stuck paying the rent or mortgage. Lastly you will be my right hand b****..code for I will pimp the mess out of you.
Gurl run..its not worth it and no man should be talking you like that in the first place.
SN: I would like to go out on the limp and say black guys make the worst sugar daddies especially to black women.
HA! And what the hell is buying an apartment? I could see if he said the word "condo". I mean, a condo is an apartment that you buym basically, especially if it's in a highrise, type building but damn, at least say "condo"
Bonita said:
I can't stop...lol this guys sounds broke as hell. Is "you drive to AC" code for he doesn't have a car. Is I will get you an apartment code for the apartment will be in your name and you will be stuck paying the rent or mortgage. Lastly you will be my right hand b****..code for I will pimp the mess out of you.
Gurl run..its not worth it and no man should be talking you like that in the first place.
SN: I would like to go out on the limp and say black guys make the worst sugar daddies especially to black women.
Permalink Reply by Nala on April 19, 2012 at 10:53pm He does have a car.. he just wants me to drive the range..lol cause he knows I like driving it lol
Bonita said:
I can't stop...lol this guys sounds broke as hell. Is "you drive to AC" code for he doesn't have a car. Is I will get you an apartment code for the apartment will be in your name and you will be stuck paying the rent or mortgage. Lastly you will be my right hand b****..code for I will pimp the mess out of you.
Gurl run..its not worth it and no man should be talking you like that in the first place.
SN: I would like to go out on the limp and say black guys make the worst sugar daddies especially to black women.
Permalink Reply by Nala on April 19, 2012 at 10:55pm well... some of yall never fail lol ..always looking for the negative in things.. but to those who r actually giving me advice! thank you lol I'm really not interested in this guy.. I just wanna milk this cow till I can't milk it no more..
Permalink Reply by Nala on April 19, 2012 at 11:02pm You obviously skipped out on your criminal justice class.. in NY the legal age is 17 other states its.. 16 ..and others it's 18 .. do don't pull that boo boo s*** with me .. I'm 18 .. I'll be in 19 next month .. and yes I'm catching men older than me .. I know they look @ me like i'm easy young ass..but it's okay ..because I look to them like they're a f****** easy vintage bank...( I decided to start early ... stack my money up as high as possible.. ) Hey.. He said he wants to buy me an apartment .. okay? hey idc.. it's not like I would take the offer ..I personally isn't comfortable with that.. i rather take that apartment money and invest it in something else... he wants me to drive to AC as in he wants me to drive his range rover.. because he saw how much i liked driving it the last time....( Which by the way I'm not even planning to do as well ... I wanna keep things local between us ) & WHYYY THE hell did you just make a big ass criminal scene? when it's nothing like that? how did you think of all of that in your head? sick ass. I can't stand people like you because you created this drastic ass criminal story out of something so simple.. you seriously over thought this whole situation and made it into a negative one..GIRL BYE! get out my thread you're irrelevant and no help whatsoever
queen of the coast said:
Boo Boo! You're gonna catch a fed case messing with this dude! First of all you're 18, you can't get into a casino! Next, he wants you to "buy" you an apartment. Aka you are going to live at the stash house! He wants you to drive to AC....if you were to get pulled over, you would be held responsible for crossing state lines. He would be an accessory and do like 2 years max. He's not going to pay for your lawyer and you will be appointed a public defender. He wants you to be his "ride or die b****"? He's basically telling you to be his partner in crime.....just sayin!
Permalink Reply by Nala on April 19, 2012 at 11:05pm yes he does seem like that guy! I peepd it as well! little does he not know.. i'm not gullible like these other 18 year olds living that yolo life .. i'm a proud member of BA & I've learned alot from the other older men I've dealt with. I see what he's doing .. he thinks i'm young dumb and naive ... but he's gonna get it .. I'ma milk that nigga like no other.
PinkBeautyXxX said:
He definitely sounds like one of those guys that just runs their mouth and says whatever it is they can because they think it sounds great. Especially with him being older, he probably thinks you're gullible. But you never know he could be a potential SD. But I have had a few SD's of my own, and still do. And he just sounds SHADY!!!!!! Be careful!!!
Nala, you don't think this type of stuff happens? How long have you been dating him? Have you Googled him? Have you read The Coldesy Winter Ever? Yeah, that's a fictitious story, but look at what happened to Winter at the end. That type of s*** happens.
One post you said you wouldnt go past men in their 20s now you done jumped up to some guy in his 40s?
NalaLOVE said:
You obviously skipped out on your criminal justice class.. in NY the legal age is 17 other states its.. 16 ..and others it's 18 .. do don't pull that boo boo s*** with me .. I'm 18 .. I'll be in 19 next month .. and yes I'm catching men older than me .. I know they look @ me like i'm easy young ass..but it's okay ..because I look to them like they're a f****** easy vintage bank...( I decided to start early ... stack my money up as high as possible.. ) Hey.. He said he wants to buy me an apartment .. okay? hey idc.. it's not like I would take the offer ..I personally isn't comfortable with that.. i rather take that apartment money and invest it in something else... he wants me to drive to AC as in he wants me to drive his range rover.. because he saw how much i liked driving it the last time....( Which by the way I'm not even planning to do as well ... I wanna keep things local between us ) & WHYYY THE hell did you just make a big ass criminal scene? when it's nothing like that? how did you think of all of that in your head? sick ass. I can't stand people like you because you created this drastic ass criminal story out of something so simple.. you seriously over thought this whole situation and made it into a negative one..GIRL BYE! get out my thread you're irrelevant and no help whatsoever
queen of the coast said:Boo Boo! You're gonna catch a fed case messing with this dude! First of all you're 18, you can't get into a casino! Next, he wants you to "buy" you an apartment. Aka you are going to live at the stash house! He wants you to drive to AC....if you were to get pulled over, you would be held responsible for crossing state lines. He would be an accessory and do like 2 years max. He's not going to pay for your lawyer and you will be appointed a public defender. He wants you to be his "ride or die b****"? He's basically telling you to be his partner in crime.....just sayin!
Permalink Reply by Nala on April 19, 2012 at 11:38pm YES! I believe these things happen ... but her story has nothing to do w/ me .. theres nothing illegal about what i'm doing w/ him & etc .. lmaoo honestly i think some of you watch a little too much law n order & read too many sista soulja ! & yes .. I've read "The Coldest Winter Ever" it's actually my fav book.. picked up when i was 12 years old...yeah i said that.. I wanted a change.. I just experienced something recently ..and a grown ass man wanna treat me so be it .. as long as i play my cards right. Why think so negative .. yall so quick to defend the dumbest s*** .. n in this case the queen of coast drag out f****** story .. okay now... this couldn't happen to someone who's 23? lol .. I think you guys are acting like this because I'm 18 .. i'm sorry I'm 18 & I'm sorry I grab the attention of older men .. I apologize .. if some of you are upset that i'm snatching from let to right..instead of finding negative things to say to make me feel some way .. or look dumb as hell.. or even dumb young and naive . ask for some damn advice.
Honeycoated said:
Nala, you don't think this type of stuff happens? How long have you been dating him? Have you Googled him? Have you read The Coldesy Winter Ever? Yeah, that's a fictitious story, but look at what happened to Winter at the end. That type of s*** happens.
One post you said you wouldnt go past men in their 20s now you done jumped up to some guy in his 40s?
NalaLOVE said:You obviously skipped out on your criminal justice class.. in NY the legal age is 17 other states its.. 16 ..and others it's 18 .. do don't pull that boo boo s*** with me .. I'm 18 .. I'll be in 19 next month .. and yes I'm catching men older than me .. I know they look @ me like i'm easy young ass..but it's okay ..because I look to them like they're a f****** easy vintage bank...( I decided to start early ... stack my money up as high as possible.. ) Hey.. He said he wants to buy me an apartment .. okay? hey idc.. it's not like I would take the offer ..I personally isn't comfortable with that.. i rather take that apartment money and invest it in something else... he wants me to drive to AC as in he wants me to drive his range rover.. because he saw how much i liked driving it the last time....( Which by the way I'm not even planning to do as well ... I wanna keep things local between us ) & WHYYY THE hell did you just make a big ass criminal scene? when it's nothing like that? how did you think of all of that in your head? sick ass. I can't stand people like you because you created this drastic ass criminal story out of something so simple.. you seriously over thought this whole situation and made it into a negative one..GIRL BYE! get out my thread you're irrelevant and no help whatsoever
queen of the coast said:Boo Boo! You're gonna catch a fed case messing with this dude! First of all you're 18, you can't get into a casino! Next, he wants you to "buy" you an apartment. Aka you are going to live at the stash house! He wants you to drive to AC....if you were to get pulled over, you would be held responsible for crossing state lines. He would be an accessory and do like 2 years max. He's not going to pay for your lawyer and you will be appointed a public defender. He wants you to be his "ride or die b****"? He's basically telling you to be his partner in crime.....just sayin!
Permalink Reply by Tone © on April 19, 2012 at 11:39pm I can't stop...lol this guys sounds broke as hell. Is "you drive to AC" code for he doesn't have a car. Is I will get you an apartment code for the apartment will be in your name and you will be stuck paying the rent or mortgage. Lastly you will be my right hand b****..code for I will pimp the mess out of you.
Gurl run..its not worth it and no man should be talking you like that in the first place.
SN: I would like to go out on the limp and say black guys make the worst sugar daddies especially to black women.
Permalink Reply by Nala on April 19, 2012 at 11:42pm See.. now all this information I feel comfortable telling you ... via text .. everyone on BA don't need to know some of the answers to these questions.
Brii said:
(In my philly girl voice) You got you an old head LOL.. Y'all know I'm all down for the cause, but something ain't right what does he want out of all of this? What do YOU WANT? What's the arrangement?
1.) Why are you chauffeuring him around? He's a grown ass man who wants YOU so his ass needs to shift them gears
2.) What does he do? Does he have any kids? Is he married or divorced? What's his yearly income? LOL Where he from? Run a thorough background check before you cross state lines with anybody they might be crazy I KNOW
3.) What is a do everything gangsta b****? He ain't even dropped no dollars and you his gangsta b**** NOT.. You're no where near a b**** so check his tongue immediately
4.) Buy you an apartment? Tell him you found a place and see what he do.. Live with him HELL NO like he said BUY YOU an apartment ( He must be old but you an apartment?)
5.) Run them pockets dry and press forward he does too much talking for me so I'm kind of skeptical
6.) Tell him you need tuition money, hair money, shoe money, bag money, clothes money, s*** you need money LOL
*CONGRATS ON YOUR OLD HEAD LOL BE CAREFUL ABD HAVE FUN
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