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Permalink Reply by PhoenixRising on June 12, 2012 at 8:51am

He sound like he just want some in-house pu$$y. . .

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on June 12, 2012 at 10:30am

My next question would have been, does that come with a paycheck, health benefits and 401k?

Followed by: Now baby *massage his little head while talking* you know I will be giving up my job and career to be with you 24/7. You aren't marrying me but a girl needs to think of her future.

That's when, if he cares, he should be setting up accounts and ish in your name so that whatever happens down the road you won't end up azz out and empty handed. That's just me though.

Brii said:

Thanks y'all for the advice :-)

 I don't know if we are ready to move in I almost snapped his damn neck last weekend! Also, I asked him what happens after I move in and he looked at me like I was retarded! He said we would just chill and I wouldn't have to work (This is where my red flags went up) so I asked him what I was suppose to do all day other than school and he tells me to "Just wait till I get home." <---- Now I have no problem with that, but I went to school for a reason and I explained this to him and he was like that's cool and all "You can be my private nurse." I flew home after that! Maybe I'm being emotional but damn he said it like my job wasn't s*** (I Hate that s*** but damn only I can say that) Am I overreacting?

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on June 12, 2012 at 10:31am

And that's all he wants too, she just needs to make sure she is compensated for her time.

Michella said:

He sound like he just want some in-house pu$$y. . .

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Permalink Reply by Brii on June 12, 2012 at 11:25am

LOL I know I'm being soft I have to change my mentality immediately he's A PAIN though! Plus I looked into a few schools in his state and I haven't found any that interested me :(

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

My next question would have been, does that come with a paycheck, health benefits and 401k?

Followed by: Now baby *massage his little head while talking* you know I will be giving up my job and career to be with you 24/7. You aren't marrying me but a girl needs to think of her future.

That's when, if he cares, he should be setting up accounts and ish in your name so that whatever happens down the road you won't end up azz out and empty handed. That's just me though.

Brii said:

Thanks y'all for the advice :-)

 I don't know if we are ready to move in I almost snapped his damn neck last weekend! Also, I asked him what happens after I move in and he looked at me like I was retarded! He said we would just chill and I wouldn't have to work (This is where my red flags went up) so I asked him what I was suppose to do all day other than school and he tells me to "Just wait till I get home." <---- Now I have no problem with that, but I went to school for a reason and I explained this to him and he was like that's cool and all "You can be my private nurse." I flew home after that! Maybe I'm being emotional but damn he said it like my job wasn't s*** (I Hate that s*** but damn only I can say that) Am I overreacting?

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on June 12, 2012 at 11:33am

Hmmmm...now that is a problem. How much do you like this dude?

Brii said:

LOL I know I'm being soft I have to change my mentality immediately he's A PAIN though! Plus I looked into a few schools in his state and I haven't found any that interested me :(

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

My next question would have been, does that come with a paycheck, health benefits and 401k?

Followed by: Now baby *massage his little head while talking* you know I will be giving up my job and career to be with you 24/7. You aren't marrying me but a girl needs to think of her future.

That's when, if he cares, he should be setting up accounts and ish in your name so that whatever happens down the road you won't end up azz out and empty handed. That's just me though.

Brii said:

Thanks y'all for the advice :-)

 I don't know if we are ready to move in I almost snapped his damn neck last weekend! Also, I asked him what happens after I move in and he looked at me like I was retarded! He said we would just chill and I wouldn't have to work (This is where my red flags went up) so I asked him what I was suppose to do all day other than school and he tells me to "Just wait till I get home." <---- Now I have no problem with that, but I went to school for a reason and I explained this to him and he was like that's cool and all "You can be my private nurse." I flew home after that! Maybe I'm being emotional but damn he said it like my job wasn't s*** (I Hate that s*** but damn only I can say that) Am I overreacting?

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Permalink Reply by PlaneJaneLane on June 12, 2012 at 11:45am

Don't do it.

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on June 12, 2012 at 2:43pm

I'm inclined to agree. He's a baller athlete and history tells us that they run through their money faster than water through a sieve. And he already has an entourage that he's taking care of too? The fact that there isn't a school nearby for her to complete her degree so her Plan B is taken care would greatly concern me in her shoes.  Add to it that he gets on her nerves and this looks less and less like an ideal situation. That's just my take on it though.

PlaneJaneLane said:

Don't do it.

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Permalink Reply by Brii on June 12, 2012 at 3:04pm

Ummmm lol just enough does that make sense? 

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

Hmmmm...now that is a problem. How much do you like this dude?

Brii said:

LOL I know I'm being soft I have to change my mentality immediately he's A PAIN though! Plus I looked into a few schools in his state and I haven't found any that interested me :(

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

My next question would have been, does that come with a paycheck, health benefits and 401k?

Followed by: Now baby *massage his little head while talking* you know I will be giving up my job and career to be with you 24/7. You aren't marrying me but a girl needs to think of her future.

That's when, if he cares, he should be setting up accounts and ish in your name so that whatever happens down the road you won't end up azz out and empty handed. That's just me though.

Brii said:

Thanks y'all for the advice :-)

 I don't know if we are ready to move in I almost snapped his damn neck last weekend! Also, I asked him what happens after I move in and he looked at me like I was retarded! He said we would just chill and I wouldn't have to work (This is where my red flags went up) so I asked him what I was suppose to do all day other than school and he tells me to "Just wait till I get home." <---- Now I have no problem with that, but I went to school for a reason and I explained this to him and he was like that's cool and all "You can be my private nurse." I flew home after that! Maybe I'm being emotional but damn he said it like my job wasn't s*** (I Hate that s*** but damn only I can say that) Am I overreacting?

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Permalink Reply by Brii on June 12, 2012 at 3:05pm

I'm not moving I'll just be his friend from a distance lol the schools just did it for me plus I'm not babysitting him all day 

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

I'm inclined to agree. He's a baller athlete and history tells us that they run through their money faster than water through a sieve. And he already has an entourage that he's taking care of too? The fact that there isn't a school nearby for her to complete her degree so her Plan B is taken care would greatly concern me in her shoes.  Add to it that he gets on her nerves and this looks less and less like an ideal situation. That's just my take on it though.

PlaneJaneLane said:

Don't do it.

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Permalink Reply by Bonita on June 12, 2012 at 3:12pm

If he really like you..ya'll should try a long distance relationship for some time atleast until you finish school. If he is not supportive perhaps he isn't for you. It would have been straight forward if you didn't have your own stuff going on. Dudes are so confused am sure he went for you coz you had a good head on your shoulders yet he wants you to move at  the drop of a hat.

Sounds familiar - Melanie

Brii said:

I'm not moving I'll just be his friend from a distance lol the schools just did it for me plus I'm not babysitting him all day 
CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

I'm inclined to agree. He's a baller athlete and history tells us that they run through their money faster than water through a sieve. And he already has an entourage that he's taking care of too? The fact that there isn't a school nearby for her to complete her degree so her Plan B is taken care would greatly concern me in her shoes.  Add to it that he gets on her nerves and this looks less and less like an ideal situation. That's just my take on it though.
PlaneJaneLane said:

Don't do it.

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on June 12, 2012 at 3:33pm

LOL I hear you girl. Until you said there was no school nearby I was like: Shiiid I could suck it up until my degree is finished. But uh no no. I will never forget how Dr. Dre treated his lady who he never married and then booted after she followed his funky azz around for 10 years. She left school in her last semester before she graduated, I think. I don't feel like googling. lol

Brii said:

I'm not moving I'll just be his friend from a distance lol the schools just did it for me plus I'm not babysitting him all day 

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

I'm inclined to agree. He's a baller athlete and history tells us that they run through their money faster than water through a sieve. And he already has an entourage that he's taking care of too? The fact that there isn't a school nearby for her to complete her degree so her Plan B is taken care would greatly concern me in her shoes.  Add to it that he gets on her nerves and this looks less and less like an ideal situation. That's just my take on it though.

PlaneJaneLane said:

Don't do it.

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Permalink Reply by Brii on June 12, 2012 at 6:44pm

LOL.. I'll have to google that 

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

LOL I hear you girl. Until you said there was no school nearby I was like: Shiiid I could suck it up until my degree is finished. But uh no no. I will never forget how Dr. Dre treated his lady who he never married and then booted after she followed his funky azz around for 10 years. She left school in her last semester before she graduated, I think. I don't feel like googling. lol

Brii said:

I'm not moving I'll just be his friend from a distance lol the schools just did it for me plus I'm not babysitting him all day 

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

I'm inclined to agree. He's a baller athlete and history tells us that they run through their money faster than water through a sieve. And he already has an entourage that he's taking care of too? The fact that there isn't a school nearby for her to complete her degree so her Plan B is taken care would greatly concern me in her shoes.  Add to it that he gets on her nerves and this looks less and less like an ideal situation. That's just my take on it though.

PlaneJaneLane said:

Don't do it.

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