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PLEASE HELP! I am a 26 year old man and I'm having some trouble assesing
the situation I am in. I started a new job roughly a year and a half
ago and this one secretary caught my eye. From the moment I saw her and
still to this day I felt like I could have STRONG feelings for her. I
decided to play it cool since I still had a girlfriend at the time, and
naturally Ms. Secretary and I became friends. I learned that she had a
boyfriend and a 1 year old son. We exchanged the occasional flirt here
and there but that's was about all, and I was genuinely ok with that.
This past november I received a txt message from Ms. Secretary telling
me that if we were to ever have sex she needed to know that I wouldn't
tell the whole office, and I agreed, I'm not one for folks bein in my
business anyway. So we went on our date and it went great and after we
went to my place and had sex. In my mind I agreed that this was only
gonna happen once, but I knew that if I did it right she would most
likely be a "regular" as I call em. And I was right we have been sexing
almost everyday since November. She tells me she loves me and I love her
too, she says that I'm the only person she's having sex with ( not even
baby daddy) but she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now. So I
decided just to spite her ill deal with a couple of other girls and she
gets mad everytime I do. Once she saw a text message from a girl and
wrote back " don't text my ni*ga", so I'm thinking after this she wants
to be with me. Nope.
My whole beef with this is I'm with her all the time, we go out on dates, and parties together all the time and I'm
feeling like I'm investing my time and money in someone that doesn't
wanna relationship with me just my penis, my time and all my attention
she doesn't want me to deal with other girls and I honestly don't want
to because right now I'm only into her. But I feel like I'm being used.
I've even asked her to just let me go because I honestly am in wayyyyy
to deep to leave her alone. I tell her if its baby daddy she wants
that's ok. Ladies and anyone else that has an opinion, IS Ms. Secretary
just using me or am I trying to rush into a relationship? Ps just got a
txt from ms. Secretary she want to come over tonite.
www.backstagepazz.com
the situation I am in. I started a new job roughly a year and a half
ago and this one secretary caught my eye. From the moment I saw her and
still to this day I felt like I could have STRONG feelings for her. I
decided to play it cool since I still had a girlfriend at the time, and
naturally Ms. Secretary and I became friends. I learned that she had a
boyfriend and a 1 year old son. We exchanged the occasional flirt here
and there but that's was about all, and I was genuinely ok with that.
This past november I received a txt message from Ms. Secretary telling
me that if we were to ever have sex she needed to know that I wouldn't
tell the whole office, and I agreed, I'm not one for folks bein in my
business anyway. So we went on our date and it went great and after we
went to my place and had sex. In my mind I agreed that this was only
gonna happen once, but I knew that if I did it right she would most
likely be a "regular" as I call em. And I was right we have been sexing
almost everyday since November. She tells me she loves me and I love her
too, she says that I'm the only person she's having sex with ( not even
baby daddy) but she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now. So I
decided just to spite her ill deal with a couple of other girls and she
gets mad everytime I do. Once she saw a text message from a girl and
wrote back " don't text my ni*ga", so I'm thinking after this she wants
to be with me. Nope.
My whole beef with this is I'm with her all the time, we go out on dates, and parties together all the time and I'm
feeling like I'm investing my time and money in someone that doesn't
wanna relationship with me just my penis, my time and all my attention
she doesn't want me to deal with other girls and I honestly don't want
to because right now I'm only into her. But I feel like I'm being used.
I've even asked her to just let me go because I honestly am in wayyyyy
to deep to leave her alone. I tell her if its baby daddy she wants
that's ok. Ladies and anyone else that has an opinion, IS Ms. Secretary
just using me or am I trying to rush into a relationship? Ps just got a
txt from ms. Secretary she want to come over tonite.
www.backstagepazz.com
Replies to This Discussion
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Permalink Reply by RayRay&Pookie'sWIFEY on -
lol, she's playing a good game, she's got his head all fcuked up lol
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Permalink Reply by Siren on -
Dear Mr. Ms. Secretary You have filled the position of "Maintenace Man" and "secretary" is so not what they call them anymore!
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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on -
i dont think shes using you because u say yall do other things together and you guys are together all the time. I say if u believe that shes only messing with you, just chill, dont bring up the "relationship" that yall not in, IMO it'll just happen naturally. continue to do what yall been doing. she doesnt want to go back on her initial word about not wanting to be in a relationship, even though you really are. if it goes on this way for a looonng time -8 months, a year - tell her she need to make up her mind its in or out. i think if you dont bring it up, it'll come out of her. i would suggest yall get the sex with other ppl thng out the way though - are you? or are you not having sex with others.
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Permalink Reply by Skytz0100 on -
Ok, so you getting some azz, it's obvious she not about the money because they work in the same place. He is supposed to spend the money on the dates anyways so don't know why he even brought that up. On top of getting the azz you don't have to worry about her hounding, she only having sex with you, so STD infections shouldn't be a factor even though you should use a condom anyways. So basically I don't know what the heck the problem iz, somebody clue me in cause I am lost. I would think all men want a relationship like that. No strings but monogamous.
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on -
hmmm....didnt he say he had a GF? Maybe he should end his current relationship before he starts worrying about the next one.
She is just not that into him. She's biding her time until the guy she really wants comes along.....at least that's my real motive in these situation LOL
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Permalink Reply by MYPRESISBLACK!!! on -
I agree I think that she's into ALMOST everything about him, genuinely cares for him, but she's looking for him to get a major bump in salary or for a man with some major cash to come along and sweep her off her feet and out of her Ms. Administrative Assistant position and into the Mrs. Trophy Wife Position. Is she on BA, j/k????
smitty said:hmmm....didnt he say he had a GF? Maybe he should end his current relationship before he starts worrying about the next one.
She is just not that into him. She's biding her time until the guy she really wants comes along.....at least that's my real motive in these situation LOL
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on
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LOL Now I wouldnt say all that. Personally, I cant be FB's with a guy I really want to be with but i do believe in every FB relationship, someone wants more than they are admitting to
MYPRESISBLACK!!! said:I agree I think that she's into ALMOST everything about him, genuinely cares for him, but she's looking for him to get a major bump in salary or for a man with some major cash to come along and sweep her off her feet and out of her Ms. Administrative Assistant position and into the Mrs. Trophy Wife Position. Is she on BA, j/k????
smitty said:hmmm....didnt he say he had a GF? Maybe he should end his current relationship before he starts worrying about the next one.
She is just not that into him. She's biding her time until the guy she really wants comes along.....at least that's my real motive in these situation LOL
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Permalink Reply by MYPRESISBLACK!!! on
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Lol, so she's just not that into him but maybe the d!ck is big? But he's trying to turn this into a marriage j/k. Also, he did say he had a girlfriend, and while he never said they broke it off, that's the impression I got that in the beginning he had a GF and now things have progressed IDK. My thing is if she doesn't want him, why block with the text if she genuinely doesn't want him. But then again, I don't want to share the d!ck if it's good, even if i don't want the entire package (no pun intended) that it's attached to.
smitty said:LOL Now I wouldnt say all that. Personally, I cant be FB's with a guy I really want to be with but i do believe in every FB relationship, someone wants more than they are admitting to
MYPRESISBLACK!!! said:I agree I think that she's into ALMOST everything about him, genuinely cares for him, but she's looking for him to get a major bump in salary or for a man with some major cash to come along and sweep her off her feet and out of her Ms. Administrative Assistant position and into the Mrs. Trophy Wife Position. Is she on BA, j/k????
smitty said:hmmm....didnt he say he had a GF? Maybe he should end his current relationship before he starts worrying about the next one.
She is just not that into him. She's biding her time until the guy she really wants comes along.....at least that's my real motive in these situation LOL
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Permalink Reply by mochagirl on -
I swear some of us are on the same page. She is waiting for something better to come along and when it does she gonna tell old boy to stop tripping you knew we weren't in a relationship. I bet dude does something like work in the mailroom or some s***....that's why she don't want everyone in the office to know.
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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on -
Now he knows what women go through.
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Permalink Reply by Miss Double Kiss on -
I know....ooh, the horror!!! A man being played for sex...lmao.
No really she may be feeling him but wants her cake too...eating it up in his face. He should just sit along for the ride. She feeling the d*** but definitely keeping her options open it sounds. He's loving the attention I'm sure...but it's got him thinking.....
Katstack'sESLTutor/Publicist said:lol, she's playing a good game, she's got his head all fcuked up lol
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Permalink Reply by alluringeyes on -
Duh.. of course she's using you. Cut your loses and move on. #thatisall
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