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MS. SECRETARY
PLEASE HELP! I am a 26 year old man and I'm having some trouble assesing
the situation I am in. I started a new job roughly a year and a half
ago and this one secretary caught my eye. From the moment I saw her and
still to this day I felt like I could have STRONG feelings for her. I
decided to play it cool since I still had a girlfriend at the time, and
naturally Ms. Secretary and I became friends. I learned that she had a
boyfriend and a 1 year old son. We exchanged the occasional flirt here
and there but that's was about all, and I was genuinely ok with that.
This past november I received a txt message from Ms. Secretary telling
me that if we were to ever have sex she needed to know that I wouldn't
tell the whole office, and I agreed, I'm not one for folks bein in my
business anyway. So we went on our date and it went great and after we
went to my place and had sex. In my mind I agreed that this was only
gonna happen once, but I knew that if I did it right she would most
likely be a "regular" as I call em. And I was right we have been sexing
almost everyday since November. She tells me she loves me and I love her
too, she says that I'm the only person she's having sex with ( not even
baby daddy) but she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now. So I
decided just to spite her ill deal with a couple of other girls and she
gets mad everytime I do. Once she saw a text message from a girl and
wrote back " don't text my ni*ga", so I'm thinking after this she wants
to be with me. Nope.
My whole beef with this is I'm with her all the time, we go out on dates, and parties together all the time and I'm
feeling like I'm investing my time and money in someone that doesn't
wanna relationship with me just my penis, my time and all my attention
she doesn't want me to deal with other girls and I honestly don't want
to because right now I'm only into her. But I feel like I'm being used.
I've even asked her to just let me go because I honestly am in wayyyyy
to deep to leave her alone. I tell her if its baby daddy she wants
that's ok. Ladies and anyone else that has an opinion, IS Ms. Secretary
just using me or am I trying to rush into a relationship? Ps just got a
txt from ms. Secretary she want to come over tonite.
www.backstagepazz.com
the situation I am in. I started a new job roughly a year and a half
ago and this one secretary caught my eye. From the moment I saw her and
still to this day I felt like I could have STRONG feelings for her. I
decided to play it cool since I still had a girlfriend at the time, and
naturally Ms. Secretary and I became friends. I learned that she had a
boyfriend and a 1 year old son. We exchanged the occasional flirt here
and there but that's was about all, and I was genuinely ok with that.
This past november I received a txt message from Ms. Secretary telling
me that if we were to ever have sex she needed to know that I wouldn't
tell the whole office, and I agreed, I'm not one for folks bein in my
business anyway. So we went on our date and it went great and after we
went to my place and had sex. In my mind I agreed that this was only
gonna happen once, but I knew that if I did it right she would most
likely be a "regular" as I call em. And I was right we have been sexing
almost everyday since November. She tells me she loves me and I love her
too, she says that I'm the only person she's having sex with ( not even
baby daddy) but she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now. So I
decided just to spite her ill deal with a couple of other girls and she
gets mad everytime I do. Once she saw a text message from a girl and
wrote back " don't text my ni*ga", so I'm thinking after this she wants
to be with me. Nope.
My whole beef with this is I'm with her all the time, we go out on dates, and parties together all the time and I'm
feeling like I'm investing my time and money in someone that doesn't
wanna relationship with me just my penis, my time and all my attention
she doesn't want me to deal with other girls and I honestly don't want
to because right now I'm only into her. But I feel like I'm being used.
I've even asked her to just let me go because I honestly am in wayyyyy
to deep to leave her alone. I tell her if its baby daddy she wants
that's ok. Ladies and anyone else that has an opinion, IS Ms. Secretary
just using me or am I trying to rush into a relationship? Ps just got a
txt from ms. Secretary she want to come over tonite.
www.backstagepazz.com
Replies to This Discussion
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Permalink Reply by AllyNWonderland on -
YUP!!! LMAO SHES BEING A NINJA!!!! HA
Cougar $pice said:Now he knows what women go through.
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Permalink Reply by 6footer on -
What happened with your girlfriend? Did you dump her for Ms. Secretary? Are you really in love with HER or the challenge of making her dump the other man? I think if she was single and all into you the way she is now, this would be a whole different story. PLAY YA GAME MS. SECRETARY.
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Permalink Reply by Golden Child on -
She's having her cake and eating it too, hell what women on this site hasn't done that! Ninja it's called life, you got your feelings involved and don't know how to handle a woman playing y'all how y'all need to be played. Maybe you just don't make enough money for her, or she's looking for another job before she makes it official, I could not date or f*** someone I work with. IMO.
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on -
This is what I'm feeling too. They sexing every night so he laying the pipe right but he is not the total package she is looking for.
mochagirl said:I swear some of us are on the same page. She is waiting for something better to come along and when it does she gonna tell old boy to stop tripping you knew we weren't in a relationship. I bet dude does something like work in the mailroom or some s***....that's why she don't want everyone in the office to know.
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Permalink Reply by Miss Amerika on -
Ok seriously? Is this a joke? Never in my wildest dreams would I imagine a guy would be having this problem Wow! (audience applause) Now he sees what women go through...minus all the extra drama. Clearly, she is using you for some "good good" probably because you're better than her baby daddy. Please move on before she really pulls you deeper into this game and makes you cry. Even if you are together all the time and she may enjoy the QT, she's still using you! Find someone who wants you and isn't trying to own you. This is some twisted ish.....wait let me read this story again! lol
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Permalink Reply by GlamMoondust on -
co-sign!!!!!
Cougar $pice said:Now he knows what women go through.
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