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has anyone ever felt that they have outgrown friends and in the end it left u lonely at home? i have been feeling this way for awhile. i have a boyfriend and all but its not the same as having girlfriends u can hang with, i mean i have 2 friends i can do this with but its clubbing only its not that sit down and hang out type of relationship where u go on trips n get in trouble with movie night type of friend who i can call and talk with for hours.what im saying is how do u bounce back from this and how do u go out and meet women who can be potential friends??
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Permalink Reply by Faye on -
OMG! I'm feeling the same exact way! It's really hard to meet true girlfriends as adults....Good Luck!!
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Permalink Reply by memyselfnI on -
Yea sucks right especially when u know ur a great person and friend
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Permalink Reply by Starr on -
I know exactly how you are feeling. I went through this a few years ago. I'll tell you, sitting at home is not going to help the situation at all. The way to make friends is to meet people. You have to go out and get into different things. I don't know if you are in school still or not, but join clubs and organizations. Take a cooking class (I'm sure there will be other women there). Go to receptions for different events and network. Some of my closest friendships are from people who started out as business contacts. You can also join a young professional network, or a club for people who are interested in your area of work. When you meet people, just be sure to exchange contact information and stay in contact with them. You never know how it will end up.
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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on -
where are you from?
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Permalink Reply by Ashley Banks on -
Girl, I understand what you're going through! I have close female friends, but I'm the only single one and it's starting to get uncomfortable. As much as I love my male companions, I need a single girl I can relate to that's not crazy, melodramatic, or just a dumb broad. Being a good person can make you feel even lonlier because you can see the bullshit in people from jump. If you are spiritual, start going to church. Go to a college and take some continuing education course, they're cheaper than credit courses and often consist of many women looking to get out of the house. I can be your e-friend of you get desperate. *cyber hug*
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Permalink Reply by Cougar $pice on -
LOL @ Ashley, gotta pick through the weeds.
Ashley Banks said:Girl, I understand what you're going through! I have close female friends, but I'm the only single one and it's starting to get uncomfortable. As much as I love my male companions, I need a single girl I can relate to that's not crazy, melodramatic, or just a dumb broad. Being a good person can make you feel even lonlier because you can see the bullshit in people from jump. If you are spiritual, start going to church. Go to a college and take some continuing education course, they're cheaper than credit courses and often consist of many women looking to get out of the house. I can be your e-friend of you get desperate. *cyber hug*
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Permalink Reply by Keytolife on -
Awww I feel the same way! I had about 2 or 3 good friends, but I had outgrown them in the sense where I was focused on school they were focused on boys when I was focused on my making real money they were focused on welfare and section 8 and now they all have 2+ babies and I have none. Now I have one good friend, however she isn't too adventurous like myself. So I know the feeling. The best thing to do is to get out, join groups and network. But we all know that can be hard because of how most of us females think...not trusting-thinking everyone is out get us, thinking the chick will eventually become a hater/jealous etc. and now a days alot of women are "bisexual" so the last thing I (anyway) would want to do is give a chick the wrong impression.
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Permalink Reply by memyselfnI on
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@honeycoated i live in jville fl. im 23yo no children
@key to life thats what im going through now im so into school they didnt really understand
im so lonely i have a weekly tv line up that i follow when im not studying or reading, my dude is always working so im extra alone
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Permalink Reply by memyselfnI on
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@ashleybanks awwww so sweet thanks. also thats some pretty good ideas. im always running onto women who size me up and cast the side
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Permalink Reply by Keytolife on
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Poor thing...try meeting friends who are your level in school. That is a start. I always met female friends in school, but the relationship only lasted as long as the semester.
memyselfnI said:@honeycoated i live in jville fl. im 23yo no children
@key to life thats what im going through now im so into school they didnt really understand
im so lonely i have a weekly tv line up that i follow when im not studying or reading, my dude is always working so im extra alone
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