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Permalink Reply by OfficialGroupie on July 23, 2009 at 4:26pm

When I see a chick and her panties is showing, I always say something. I tell her that her panties are showing and tuck her panties down into her pants. Tell her that she can't show the fellas what's she's working with and leave things to the imagination. They always laugh with that comment. Then, I tell her to do the panty check every 10 minutes. Watch she make some changes cause she'll be embarrassed that someone noticed and said something.

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Permalink Reply by Puma Kimikoko73 on July 23, 2009 at 5:02pm

That sounds like good advice. A good way to get her to listen to you and not take it the wrong way. Now of course if she catches an attitude anyway, then I say hit her with the raw and uncut

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Permalink Reply by miss_p on July 24, 2009 at 11:32am

thanks for the advice ladies

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Permalink Reply by Emerald on July 24, 2009 at 11:49am

Is your goal to let her know how you feel about how she's dressed or is it to see her look her best at all times?

First check your motive and then strategize your approach. If she is not your friend, you really don't have the authority(in her mind) to let her know about how she dresses...according to her mirror she may look the bomb. And depending upon her personality she may get really embarrased and duck and hide when she sees you but if you see her in her own part of town she will still be rockin the same ish with pride, she may cop a tude and turn hater towards you, or she may not have the money/style to buy the clothes that really fit her. If your heart is to help her look her best then you will figure out how to deal with that....if you had this issue how would you want someone to let you know?

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Permalink Reply by miss_p on July 24, 2009 at 11:59am

that's just it: we are friends, not real close but still close enough to call a friend. if my ish was hanging out, i would want someone to tell me. but she has proudly stated she "only wears thongs" which leads me to believe she wants it to be seen, but she needs to cover that ish up. i have no idea if she's going to be sensitive about it or turn totally bitchy, because she can be both, which is why i asked for some advice. i am not the type to go around and be completely insensitive, so im kinda at a loss here... *sigh*

thanks for the advice, though. it helped me realize i should look at it from her eyes and not my own, and that will help me determine how to say it.

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Permalink Reply by SACK CHASER on July 25, 2009 at 10:27am

Diddo!

OfficialGroupie said:

When I see a chick and her panties is showing, I always say something. I tell her that her panties are showing and tuck her panties down into her pants. Tell her that she can't show the fellas what's she's working with and leave things to the imagination. They always laugh with that comment. Then, I tell her to do the panty check every 10 minutes. Watch she make some changes cause she'll be embarrassed that someone noticed and said something.

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Permalink Reply by Allie on July 26, 2009 at 10:37am

No woman should show their thong.....shouldn't be wearing them- they are so 1990's.

I would tell her ass...no pun intended..look broad I don't want to see your damn 90's thong, and all that ish. Cover that s*** up.

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Permalink Reply by Dominique P. Smith on July 27, 2009 at 9:26pm

I agree! Just tell her:)

OfficialGroupie said:

When I see a chick and her panties is showing, I always say something. I tell her that her panties are showing and tuck her panties down into her pants. Tell her that she can't show the fellas what's she's working with and leave things to the imagination. They always laugh with that comment. Then, I tell her to do the panty check every 10 minutes. Watch she make some changes cause she'll be embarrassed that someone noticed and said something.

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