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Permalink Reply by Still Pretty V on April 16, 2012 at 11:59pm

What will u do if she decides she doesn't want to raise the baby? Then ur bf will have to take it in.. hopefully... r u ready for that to be ur life? Sometimes u have to look out for yourself... it def won't be easy

Permalink Reply by Student Beauty on April 17, 2012 at 12:42am

You should think about if you want to add two more people in your life! He is not the last man in the world. Move on and move up!

Permalink Reply by marissa taylor on April 17, 2012 at 1:10am

It depends on his situation .. can he afford to keep you and take care of that child ... and how much of your heart wants to stay and endure all this ... i think this requires some soul searching. This is a personal decision .. regardless of what anyone thinks .

Permalink Reply by MissMidwest on April 17, 2012 at 1:50am

Leave him. I know you cheated on him too but it sounds like you and him are both justifying HIS cheating because of this...But most importantly, your man was f****** his future baby mama on a pretty regular basis if he felt comfortable enough to hit without a condom and bust up in her...I don't care how many times he told you she was a "random"; she wasn't.

Permalink Reply by Lady on April 17, 2012 at 3:33am

damn.. I hope this aint no average dude.. is he a athlete? or is the d*** that good?

Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on April 17, 2012 at 3:46am

Nope, nope, NOPE, shaking my head. A BABY?? Nope, it's over and a DONE BUN!!!! LMAO

Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on April 17, 2012 at 3:47am

Where the hell is Brii?? Did you see his LEEEEGGGG? lol

Love is a Losing Game said:

Nope, nope, NOPE, shaking my head. A BABY?? Nope, it's over and a DONE BUN!!!! LMAO

Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on April 17, 2012 at 3:48am

THAT'S exactly why he aint gettin these OILS! LOL

Love is a Losing Game said:

Where the hell is Brii?? Did you see his LEEEEGGGG? lol

Love is a Losing Game said:

Nope, nope, NOPE, shaking my head. A BABY?? Nope, it's over and a DONE BUN!!!! LMAO

Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on April 17, 2012 at 8:27am

@ToyToy, feelings aside...are you concerned for your health??? I don't believe she's just a 'random chick' that he happened to knock up, explanation is too convenient for that. He said she was 'random' so he won't 'hurt your feelings'.  If she's 6 mos preg, r u just now finding this out?

SN: I weep for these youngins

Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on April 17, 2012 at 8:36am

This isn't random from reading this. But she ain't gonna mess her money up LOL

If you 2 don't have kids together, this is your ticket out. Sounds like you're waiting for the DNA test (but you have to actually see it and not just go by what they tell you). In the meantime be prepared to 'leave' but stack your cash while you wait. This is not healthy.

ToyToy said:

I kinda talked to the other woman, she is a EX friend of a friend. And she has been telling me whats going on. She told my friend she was keeping the baby because thats going to be her "Come Up". Thats why I was saying she is having a baby for all the wrong reasons, also its a great chance that it could be a special needs child which are very expensive. But she dosent care, she thinks her getting pregnant and having the baby will make him want to be with her. I stressed to her that it wouldnt. It even got to the point where she said he was still cheating on me and comes to her house 1-2 times a  week. So I told her if she can show me proof by text messages, photos or I see it with my bare eyes then I am throwing in the towel and she can have him. Thats when she says "No nevermind because if he catches her setting him up thats going to f*** her money up" .... So talking to her is not getting me anywhere!!!!

Tone said:

have you talked to the woman or just listing to him?
ToyToy said:

He said if it's his he will be a dad. He was telling her that he wouldnt so she wont be bring a special need kid in this world that she dont even want. I know he will take care of the child because he is a good person.
Tone said:

guy has no charter leave him if he is denying a child that could possibly be his. You think he won't do this to you if he meets a chick he likes better then you?
ToyToy said:

But, I definitely think he is the one for me and if its a mistake I dont want to ruin our future just because of a dumb choice he made. I kinda wanna just wait around until the DNA test come out and that will be the moment of truth! Because what if the baby is not even his... UGhhh I dont know! I am stressed!

 

Still Pretty Vahn said:

I would leave... cheating is one thing making a baby is another... if u can deal with it.. then its up to u... but that's the ultimate for me.... no babies outside of or relationship!!

Permalink Reply by AlyssaLo on April 17, 2012 at 9:13am

I am 23... He is 29 and she is 28. 

He said he do not want anything to do with it until he gets a DNA test. He loves children, he just didnt think he would be having a kid with her. I believe what he says because every time I talk to her she lies and he let me look in his text messages and she is a total stalker she sent him over 50 texts in one night to the tunes of

" Im hornry"

"I have a hotel room"

"Why are you treating me like this"

& once he dont respond it will get to 

"I hate you"

"I hope You die"

I hope the baby look like me" 

and mind you he hasnt talked to her since march as far as I know via text and she is still sending him texts and voicemails everyday. I even had him call her and act like a normal convo while I was sitting there and she was saying nothing about a kid more like I want to make us work ETC and he continually  told her NO you already know I am in a relationship. And whats funny is she knew about me since day 1 since we been in a relationship but that didnt stop her!

Maria said:

How old are you but It kind of sounds like you already have your mind made up to stay with him. 1. take not consideration that he had sex unprotected with someone else. That's your first flag. 2. He doesn't want anything to do with her until he finds out for sure if it's his? Or in general? If in general you def shouldn't want a man that doesn't want anything to do with his child. Me personally, I can deal with a lot of things but a kid is a completely different story. Figure out what it is you really have, and think about what it is you're really about to be dealing with if this kid is his. If you can deal with it..stay. If not, leave. I would strongly suggest speaking with her and not just going off what he tells you though.

Permalink Reply by AlyssaLo on April 17, 2012 at 9:15am

If that situation does come up then I will definitely have to leave because I am not ready for a newborn... I am not playing mommy to a child thats mine and that was conceived while we were together. I dont even want to look at that kid let alone let it live with me. Dont get me wrong I am not a mean person and I love children but thats a life changing situation and I am not ready to change my life in that way.  

Still Pretty Vahn said:

What will u do if she decides she doesn't want to raise the baby? Then ur bf will have to take it in.. hopefully... r u ready for that to be ur life? Sometimes u have to look out for yourself... it def won't be easy

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