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Hello ladies! I am new to the site, post-Anderson Cooper and let me just say I am VERY upset that I am JUST learning about this site lbs. I am a rookie in this particular "game" & looking for advice from more seasoned vets on how to snag a baller. To be honest I think the gist of it is I simply do not know the right ppl. I have all the other qualities just not the connections. I need one of you to take me under your wing! Lol! (but so serious haha) Just to give a bit of bkground: most/all of the men I've dated have been BROKE as hell lol (college students, part-time jobs, etc) but I was in it for the love. I'm 24 now with not much to show for from all this "love." It has become pretty clear to me now that I'm not at all content w/ the "average joe" NOR his lifestyle. I've never been the type to mess w/ a guy for $$ but as I'm getting a lil older my mindset has changed, & now am feeling silly as hell for NOT doing so lbs. Not necessarily mess w/ him for $$, but at least get SOMETHING out the deal; I've left too many relationships/flings empty-handed, left with nothing but a broken heart, a broken spirit, a broken ego and an even broker wallet...I'm over it. Never again! Like I said, I strongly believe I have all the physical attributes, the drive, the wit, the personality and the bedroom knowledge to be a BOSS "groupie" lol...just don't know the right ppl!! Which I'm currently working on. But I'm sure there's more to it...what advice would u give to a newbie like myself??
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Permalink Reply by Baller Alert on -
Welcome to the site.. make sure you check the archives and search this site. It's a lot of useful information on here. I'm sure the members will be happy to lend some advice too. Again.. welcome.
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Permalink Reply by Damnstraight on -
Wow 24 is still kinda young...But honestly, I have met some without even looking...Or I'd be at a popular/big event and they'd approach. I have never been the type to pursue any particular man first unless I was just a fan and just wanted a pic or an autograph.lol So guys that I have met were by coincidence...They weren't on my radar. But sometimes it is about location and timing too...Also, I never ran with a pack of women either...Either by myself or just one other person. I will say this, I am friends with a couple and by summer approaching, this is the time where they get it in with charity events/appearances, camps, parties, etc. I will be attending some myself. Also KY Derby is this wknd...You would be wise to go if you can....Ballers from all area codes, races, and walks of life and in ALL fields will be there...
Hope this helps...Can't say too much...Those friendships are too important.lol
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Permalink Reply by Nicole Royale on -
Thank you so much @Baller Alert! Will do...
@Damnstraight yes 24 is still KINDA young but time is a'tickin, I need to get started while I still have some youth lol. At 24 I really feel like a late bloomer in this game! I could've been a vet by now lol smh. Its all about "who you know" though and that is very clear to me. I'm trying to get my connections up little by little. thank you so much for dropping those gems, they are def appreciated!
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on -
Search in the blog posts also, you'll find a lot of helpful info. I think Damnstraight said everything I would have said. Just relax and let your natural personality shine through. People know a faker when they see one. And it is usually better to be on your own if you don't have a real friend who is of the same mindset as you.
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on -
I don't understand why you picked the broke dudes in the first place. If you are everything you claim it was never a reason for you to be dealing with them
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Permalink Reply by Phoenix on -
She said LOVE. Love knows no salary. But love don't live there no more!
Tone said:I don't understand why you picked the broke dudes in the first place. If you are everything you claim it was never a reason for you to be dealing with them
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on
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Why did she even give these guys a chance in the first place ?
Phoenix said:She said LOVE. Love knows no salary. But love don't live there no more!
Tone said:I don't understand why you picked the broke dudes in the first place. If you are everything you claim it was never a reason for you to be dealing with them
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Permalink Reply by Sheli on -
Ninja she said LOVE, DAMN!!! You just asked the same question twice.
Tone said:Why did she even give these guys a chance in the first place ?
Phoenix said:She said LOVE. Love knows no salary. But love don't live there no more!
Tone said:I don't understand why you picked the broke dudes in the first place. If you are everything you claim it was never a reason for you to be dealing with them
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Permalink Reply by Phoenix on
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Thank you!
I was just going to ignore that... smh.
Sheli said:Ninja she said LOVE, DAMN!!! You just asked the same question twice.
Tone said:Why did she even give these guys a chance in the first place ?
Phoenix said:She said LOVE. Love knows no salary. But love don't live there no more!
Tone said:I don't understand why you picked the broke dudes in the first place. If you are everything you claim it was never a reason for you to be dealing with them
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Permalink Reply by Nicole Royale on
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Thanks so much for the feedback ladies. @Tone just like the ladies said, I was in it for love. Money was never an issue because honestly, I didn't know any better lol. You know the phrase "if you knew better, you'd do better?" Well I'm trying to do better now!
@Phoenix I live in Chicago...alot of ballers here. Whether it be athletes, businessmen, or street niggas. I know of a few chicks cashing out on all 3, and I need in. LOL
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Permalink Reply by ATown SouthernGal on -
Girl yes Chicago is filled with ballers!!! Love Michigan Ave..
Step your dress game up and read the book why men love b****** to get your confidence up. Confidence is key. Don't be afraid to go out alone. Pay attention to your body language, make sure when eating out you sit up straight even hood nigrams(with big pockets not corner boys) notice the little details. Make sure a man can look at you and tell he needs to come proper.
I'd also hang with girls you know who are cashing in with all 3.
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