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Permalink Reply by Zaria 22 on June 2, 2012 at 8:18pm

Hmm...I don't think your late at all. As long as your still in your 20's, and even then, there are older ballers out there for older women. Anyway, the older you get, the wiser you get to this game, and personally you learn and grow and know what to look out for.

I would be typing multiple pages if I could tell you the do's, dont's, and what to look out for. But for starters I would say this:

There are so many types of ballers in the world. Corporate/Professional ballers, athletes, Entrepreneurs, trust fund babies, some Politicians, Actors, etc. You have to decide who you are, and what type of guys you want to meet. That will determine where you go, how you dress, what your into, where you live etc.

Once you have that down pat, determine what your goal is. Is it to get married? Is it to have a sugar daddy? Is it to have a fling with a dude, go shopping, or travel w/o any real commitment? Do you want love?

Once you kinda have a grasp on what it is you want, then you can proceed accordingly. There are so many blogs and forum posts on here with years worth of info. Whatever you're looking for type it in the forum I'm sure something will pop up.

Also do google research and read books. Before you know it, you'll have all the info you need to find you dream man! :)

 

PS, I don't live in LA so, I can't help you with that one. But if you want a rich man, go where the rich go.

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Permalink Reply by Winter Wonderland on June 3, 2012 at 1:47pm

Wow, it's like a whole science to this .... Thank
You.. That was a lot of into .. Detailed 

Zaria 22 said:

Hmm...I don't think your late at all. As long as your still in your 20's, and even then, there are older ballers out there for older women. Anyway, the older you get, the wiser you get to this game, and personally you learn and grow and know what to look out for.

I would be typing multiple pages if I could tell you the do's, dont's, and what to look out for. But for starters I would say this:

There are so many types of ballers in the world. Corporate/Professional ballers, athletes, Entrepreneurs, trust fund babies, some Politicians, Actors, etc. You have to decide who you are, and what type of guys you want to meet. That will determine where you go, how you dress, what your into, where you live etc.

Once you have that down pat, determine what your goal is. Is it to get married? Is it to have a sugar daddy? Is it to have a fling with a dude, go shopping, or travel w/o any real commitment? Do you want love?

Once you kinda have a grasp on what it is you want, then you can proceed accordingly. There are so many blogs and forum posts on here with years worth of info. Whatever you're looking for type it in the forum I'm sure something will pop up.

Also do google research and read books. Before you know it, you'll have all the info you need to find you dream man! :)

 

PS, I don't live in LA so, I can't help you with that one. But if you want a rich man, go where the rich go.

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Permalink Reply by BeautyandBrains on June 3, 2012 at 1:49pm

I'm in L.A and need a new partner in crime,let's meet for drinks sometime :)

Zaria 22 said:

Hmm...I don't think your late at all. As long as your still in your 20's, and even then, there are older ballers out there for older women. Anyway, the older you get, the wiser you get to this game, and personally you learn and grow and know what to look out for.

I would be typing multiple pages if I could tell you the do's, dont's, and what to look out for. But for starters I would say this:

There are so many types of ballers in the world. Corporate/Professional ballers, athletes, Entrepreneurs, trust fund babies, some Politicians, Actors, etc. You have to decide who you are, and what type of guys you want to meet. That will determine where you go, how you dress, what your into, where you live etc.

Once you have that down pat, determine what your goal is. Is it to get married? Is it to have a sugar daddy? Is it to have a fling with a dude, go shopping, or travel w/o any real commitment? Do you want love?

Once you kinda have a grasp on what it is you want, then you can proceed accordingly. There are so many blogs and forum posts on here with years worth of info. Whatever you're looking for type it in the forum I'm sure something will pop up.

Also do google research and read books. Before you know it, you'll have all the info you need to find you dream man! :)

 

PS, I don't live in LA so, I can't help you with that one. But if you want a rich man, go where the rich go.

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Permalink Reply by Winter Wonderland on June 3, 2012 at 4:04pm

Let's set It up ... Inbox me 

BeautyandBrains said:

I'm in L.A and need a new partner in crime,let's meet for drinks sometime :)

Zaria 22 said:

Hmm...I don't think your late at all. As long as your still in your 20's, and even then, there are older ballers out there for older women. Anyway, the older you get, the wiser you get to this game, and personally you learn and grow and know what to look out for.

I would be typing multiple pages if I could tell you the do's, dont's, and what to look out for. But for starters I would say this:

There are so many types of ballers in the world. Corporate/Professional ballers, athletes, Entrepreneurs, trust fund babies, some Politicians, Actors, etc. You have to decide who you are, and what type of guys you want to meet. That will determine where you go, how you dress, what your into, where you live etc.

Once you have that down pat, determine what your goal is. Is it to get married? Is it to have a sugar daddy? Is it to have a fling with a dude, go shopping, or travel w/o any real commitment? Do you want love?

Once you kinda have a grasp on what it is you want, then you can proceed accordingly. There are so many blogs and forum posts on here with years worth of info. Whatever you're looking for type it in the forum I'm sure something will pop up.

Also do google research and read books. Before you know it, you'll have all the info you need to find you dream man! :)

 

PS, I don't live in LA so, I can't help you with that one. But if you want a rich man, go where the rich go.

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Permalink Reply by Lady on June 3, 2012 at 6:16pm

Hey, I live in L.A, and I can tell you all the spots. I’m 19, but I use my friends sisters I.D to get in the hot spots, Shes moving, so I wont be able to use that anymore, so i have another 2 years or im waiting on my cousin to send me hers so I can get back on the scene. But even though im young, I mingled with the right people to know where to go on what days. But welcome to the site, Fee free to ask me any questions

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Permalink Reply by BestCoast on June 4, 2012 at 3:32am

I'm in the exact same position, LA and all, so thanks for making this! I'll be 21 next month but I'm never here in LA except for summers so don't know where to go.

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Permalink Reply by Winter Wonderland on June 4, 2012 at 3:30pm

I know where you can get an Id ... But it's a but pricey
Seeing how it's the kind than you can scan at the clubs
And use at the airport .. Anyway I'll give you the details 
And I think we should all link up since were in la .. Inbox me

Lady Letty said:

Hey, I live in L.A, and I can tell you all the spots. I’m 19, but I use my friends sisters I.D to get in the hot spots, Shes moving, so I wont be able to use that anymore, so i have another 2 years or im waiting on my cousin to send me hers so I can get back on the scene. But even though im young, I mingled with the right people to know where to go on what days. But welcome to the site, Fee free to ask me any questions

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Permalink Reply by Winter Wonderland on June 4, 2012 at 3:32pm

Next month will be here before you know it . ..& your right on time for all the summer events ...let's all link up ..

BestCoast said:

I'm in the exact same position, LA and all, so thanks for making this! I'll be 21 next month but I'm never here in LA except for summers so don't know where to go.

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Permalink Reply by Lady on June 6, 2012 at 12:46am

Sounds like a plan, im inboxing you right now

Winter Wonderland said:

I know where you can get an Id ... But it's a but pricey
Seeing how it's the kind than you can scan at the clubs
And use at the airport .. Anyway I'll give you the details 
And I think we should all link up since were in la .. Inbox me

Lady Letty said:

Hey, I live in L.A, and I can tell you all the spots. I’m 19, but I use my friends sisters I.D to get in the hot spots, Shes moving, so I wont be able to use that anymore, so i have another 2 years or im waiting on my cousin to send me hers so I can get back on the scene. But even though im young, I mingled with the right people to know where to go on what days. But welcome to the site, Fee free to ask me any questions

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