No Call Back After Sex

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Permalink Reply by OfficialGroupie on August 21, 2009 at 11:37pm

he's just not that into you. you gave him what he wanted. now, there is no reason to chase you. Forget him and move on. He won't be the last. If you got him ,then you can get another. The majority of these ballers are assholes and see you as a groupie anyways. So once you have sex (if its too soon), you will only validate his point.

and read this....http://www.balleralert.com/profiles/blogs/10-reasons-why-your-baller

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Permalink Reply by Charlie/Daddy's Girl on August 21, 2009 at 11:39pm

I've never not gotten a call back...(sorry)

Move on to the next "baller"...lesson learned...

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Permalink Reply by Seleeda on August 21, 2009 at 11:46pm

lesson learned my dear...now move on

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Permalink Reply by Damnstraight on August 21, 2009 at 11:49pm

Just move on. He may feel you've gotten too clingy. Men can be great actors in the beginning.

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Permalink Reply by Santeria XXX on August 22, 2009 at 1:45am

How long were you dating this baller before you had sex with him? I'm going out on a limb here, but my first impression was that maybe you gave it up too soon. You see, a lot of men pressure women for sex, but when they give it up, men talk behind their backs to other men. Some men think women are too easy so they think, "Hey, if she gave it up to me so easily, who else is she going to have sex with at the drop of a hat." I don't know if this is the case with you. If not, ignore. If it is the case, girl, make a man work for it. IF he's worth your time, he'll wait. If not, you haven't lost anything. JMO.

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Permalink Reply by Inobe on August 22, 2009 at 2:10am

you hit it exactly on the head. i figured that what it must be. that i gave it up to soon.

But after we had sex, i wasnt expecting a call or anything. and he started texting and calling me to my surprise. he has sent text like "i was thinking about you" and what not. so i started to catch feelings for him. but now it seems as if hes ignoring/avoiding me. im getting mixed signals and this is really confusing to me....

Santeria XXX said:

How long were you dating this baller before you had sex with him? I'm going out on a limb here, but my first impression was that maybe you gave it up too soon. You see, a lot of men pressure women for sex, but when they give it up, men talk behind their backs to other men. Some men think women are too easy so they think, "Hey, if she gave it up to me so easily, who else is she going to have sex with at the drop of a hat." I don't know if this is the case with you. If not, ignore. If it is the case, girl, make a man work for it. IF he's worth your time, he'll wait. If not, you haven't lost anything. JMO.

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Permalink Reply by Santeria XXX on August 22, 2009 at 3:12am

Unfortunately some men love to play games. You were probably one of few who didn't chase after him right after you had sex, so when you didn't, he came "running" after you. His ego was probably bruised. Now that he got you to respond, he's acting disinterested. I know men send mixed signals, and it's very confusing, but all I can say is chock it up to experience and leave this joker alone. I know it's easier said than done, but I believe it will save you future heartache. I'm not trying to preach, but this is the kind of "man" you don't want to be with. My mom always said, "A man worth his salt will pursue you." You don't have to settle.

I hope everything works out for you, Inobe.

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Permalink Reply by alluringeyes on August 22, 2009 at 6:12am

Refer to the blog post that Boss and her guy friend posted "10 REASONS WHY YOUR BALLER WON'T CALL YOU BACK... FROM A BALLERS POINT OF VIEW."

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Permalink Reply by Moving In Silence on August 22, 2009 at 9:23am

Don't call/text him any more. Ignore any future contact that may come from him. Erase those past text (unless there's info that can be used against him in them). Erase his number(s) and if you know it by heart call someone else when you feel like calling him. Move on to the next dude but don't give it up as fast. Learn to decode the game.

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Permalink Reply by The real vixxen on August 22, 2009 at 12:58pm

Next time he txts you write back who is this and whn he responds write "O." and dont respond anymore the O. gets them everytime noone likes to get txted that ..

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Permalink Reply by Inobe on August 22, 2009 at 3:45pm

LOL. im soooooo gonna do that. cuz i have a feeling he will text me on his own time like he usually does. but thats starting to drive me crazy. responding with a "who is this", i know that will drive him crazy. thanks!

The real vixxen said:

Next time he txts you write back who is this and whn he responds write "O." and dont respond anymore the O. gets them everytime noone likes to get txted that ..

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Permalink Reply by Time 2 Man-Up.Com on August 22, 2009 at 5:23pm

Thats means you sex game was mad lame.

Ladies, if a man doesn't call you back after sex your kat is lame. Think about it, what man gonna walk away from some good Pu**Y. If its good hes gonna want it again.

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