No Call Back After Sex

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Permalink Reply by Tee on August 23, 2009 at 9:26am

9 times out 10 when he sent that text he was "fishing" for a response from some chick cause he was bored. i have seen my baller friends do this... and whoever is the first chick to respond they will chat it up for bit until they got go do what they need. And dont sweat it. just move on & find u a new guy

Inobe said:

you hit it exactly on the head. i figured that what it must be. that i gave it up to soon.

But after we had sex, i wasnt expecting a call or anything. and he started texting and calling me to my surprise. he has sent text like "i was thinking about you" and what not. so i started to catch feelings for him. but now it seems as if hes ignoring/avoiding me. im getting mixed signals and this is really confusing to me....

Santeria XXX said:

How long were you dating this baller before you had sex with him? I'm going out on a limb here, but my first impression was that maybe you gave it up too soon. You see, a lot of men pressure women for sex, but when they give it up, men talk behind their backs to other men. Some men think women are too easy so they think, "Hey, if she gave it up to me so easily, who else is she going to have sex with at the drop of a hat." I don't know if this is the case with you. If not, ignore. If it is the case, girl, make a man work for it. IF he's worth your time, he'll wait. If not, you haven't lost anything. JMO.

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