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Permalink Reply by BeautyandBrains on June 4, 2012 at 5:24pm

It all depends on what you want it to become...personally I wouldn't go that way.If you guys have already established you want to build a friendship it should now be on him as the man to pursue you and not the other way around.im sure many girls are on his tail at the moment don't be one of them it'll make you different.this is just my opinion and nothing more.lol..if he wants to hang w/you he will reach out to you.

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Permalink Reply by Bad2theGristle on June 4, 2012 at 6:11pm

Curious y wouldn't you go that way? 

BeautyandBrains said:

It all depends on what you want it to become...personally I wouldn't go that way.If you guys have already established you want to build a friendship it should now be on him as the man to pursue you and not the other way around.im sure many girls are on his tail at the moment don't be one of them it'll make you different.this is just my opinion and nothing more.lol..if he wants to hang w/you he will reach out to you.

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Permalink Reply by Bonita on June 4, 2012 at 7:59pm

she already told you why see bold statement

Bad2theGristle said:

Curious y wouldn't you go that way? 
BeautyandBrains said:

It all depends on what you want it to become...personally I wouldn't go that way.If you guys have already established you want to build a friendship it should now be on him as the man to pursue you and not the other way around.im sure many girls are on his tail at the moment don't be one of them it'll make you different.this is just my opinion and nothing more.lol..if he wants to hang w/you he will reach out to you.

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Permalink Reply by Bad2theGristle on June 4, 2012 at 9:13pm

Guess I was reading wrong

Bonita said:

she already told you why see bold statement

Bad2theGristle said:

Curious y wouldn't you go that way?  BeautyandBrains said:

It all depends on what you want it to become...personally I wouldn't go that way.If you guys have already established you want to build a friendship it should now be on him as the man to pursue you and not the other way around.im sure many girls are on his tail at the moment don't be one of them it'll make you different.this is just my opinion and nothing more.lol..if he wants to hang w/you he will reach out to you.

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Permalink Reply by MissMidwest on June 5, 2012 at 3:53am

Where & how did you meet this NFL rookie? He isn't inviting you out because he's too busy, it's because hanging out with you isn't a priority for him & he's not pressed to see you. If he wanted to see you, trust me, he'd squeeze it into your schedule....don't let an athlete hit you with that b******* either, "I'm really busy" is normally code for "I'm knee deep in p****" lol besides OTAs only take up a few hours of their time a day. Don't, I repeat don't be the aggressor & ask him to hang out, that will make you look way too eager to kick it with him and way too thirsty to him. Let him pursue you, and if he doesn't pursue you actively and intently, forget about it. 

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Permalink Reply by paperchaser on June 5, 2012 at 5:44am

i love the honesty here lmao
 
MissMidwest said:

Where & how did you meet this NFL rookie? He isn't inviting you out because he's too busy, it's because hanging out with you isn't a priority for him & he's not pressed to see you. If he wanted to see you, me, he'd squeeze it into your schedule....don't let an athlete hit you with that b******* either, "I'm really busy" is normally code for "I'm knee deep in p****" lol besides OTAs only take up a few hours of their time a day. Don't, I repeat don't be the aggressor & ask him to hang out, that will make you look way too eager to kick it with him and way too thirsty to him. Let him pursue you, and if he doesn't pursue you actively and intently, forget about it. 

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Permalink Reply by glamazon on June 5, 2012 at 7:52am

Everything Midwest said.

What are your communication dynamics?

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Permalink Reply by Bad2theGristle on June 5, 2012 at 11:39am

We met while he was bowling with his teammates. 
Yea I get it.. lol 

MissMidwest said:

Where & how did you meet this NFL rookie? He isn't inviting you out because he's too busy, it's because hanging out with you isn't a priority for him & he's not pressed to see you. If he wanted to see you, trust me, he'd squeeze it into your schedule....don't let an athlete hit you with that b******* either, "I'm really busy" is normally code for "I'm knee deep in p****" lol besides OTAs only take up a few hours of their time a day. Don't, I repeat don't be the aggressor & ask him to hang out, that will make you look way too eager to kick it with him and way too thirsty to him. Let him pursue you, and if he doesn't pursue you actively and intently, forget about it. 

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Permalink Reply by Bad2theGristle on June 5, 2012 at 11:41am

everything but his career!!. Future plans, school work to minute things like decoding each others signs...lol

glamazon said:

Everything Midwest said.

What are your communication dynamics?

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on June 5, 2012 at 12:32pm

I don't knw....... At first I was going to say go ahead and ask do he want to do lunch or something, buuut you say you guys talk on a regular and he hasn't asked you out? hmmmm...I hardly ever talk to some guys and they staaay asking me out.  Who usually does the calling when you guys talk.  Do you actually talk or are you guys only texting?  How often do you talk?  What are you looking for out of the friendship - money or a relationship?  

 

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Permalink Reply by Bad2theGristle on June 5, 2012 at 1:41pm

We talk and text it's kinda mutual as far as reaching out.. But if a couple days pass I'm usually the one to get in contact.

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

I don't knw....... At first I was going to say go ahead and ask do he want to do lunch or something, buuut you say you guys talk on a regular and he hasn't asked you out? hmmmm...I hardly ever talk to some guys and they staaay asking me out.  Who usually does the calling when you guys talk.  Do you actually talk or are you guys only texting?  How often do you talk?  What are you looking for out of the friendship - money or a relationship?  

 

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Permalink Reply by BabyBallerCheeks on June 6, 2012 at 7:43am

When it comes to rookies, you need to pull a "Kaurrache". Chris Brown's girlfriend allows him to see other women because they are "too young" and "just having fun". Look, unless you are over 25, take him how he is. Don't force it and DAMN SURE DON'T THINK he is about to be your man...anytime soon at least. If you turned into a millionaire over night, would you want to be bogged down by a man? Hell no! You would want to play the field. Let him do it. Let him play with a few seasoned groupies and get burned before he come back to you. Right now isn't the time to pressure anyone to do anything.

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