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Permalink Reply by PhoenixRising on June 8, 2012 at 8:28pm

TOTALLY AGREE!
I like a man to show me that he knows how to wine and dine a woman

Goldie F***'n Fish said:

that's a CUTE test and all but that's hardly a good option for a date. He needs to take you out to a nice dinner or to wine festival(something romantic), not allow you in his presence as he picks up a shirt from the mall. I've had firefighters do more for me than that.  He doesn't value your presence or time. 

Just cause you have money, doesn't excuse you from courtship. But that's also why I don't like young boys. They don't know how to act... at all.

Michella said:

Maybe he is testing you. . . .wanna see if you got your hand out for something, especially on the first date.

Tricky. . .

Bad2theGristle said:

Zip zero STINGY WIT DINERO!!! Lol wow..we went  out (mall) he bought a shirt I got NOTHING! Of course I didn't ask. But that situation is DEAD!! Lol

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Permalink Reply by PhoenixRising on June 8, 2012 at 8:33pm

Now he sounds a lil arrogant. You should have been nonchalant about the situation and antennas if you weren't bothered by it. You shouldn't have contacted him you should have waited at least a few days before you took any of his calls


Bad2theGristle said:

That's exactly how I felt!!! Like he was just allowing me In his presence! Mind you while we were together he tweeted first impressions can make or break you... Not really sure what that's about ? I texted and asked. No response. I'm kinda disappointed I ain't gone lie he was very cool & laid back

Goldie F***'n Fish said:

that's a CUTE test and all but that's hardly a good option for a date. He needs to take you out to a nice dinner or to wine festival(something romantic), not allow you in his presence as he picks up a shirt from the mall. I've had firefighters do more for me than that.  He doesn't value your presence or time. 

Just cause you have money, doesn't excuse you from courtship. But that's also why I don't like young boys. They don't know how to act... at all.

Michella said:

Maybe he is testing you. . . .wanna see if you got your hand out for something, especially on the first date.

Tricky. . .

Bad2theGristle said:

Zip zero STINGY WIT DINERO!!! Lol wow..we went  out (mall) he bought a shirt I got NOTHING! Of course I didn't ask. But that situation is DEAD!! Lol

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Permalink Reply by marissa taylor on June 8, 2012 at 8:39pm

@MissMidwest .... your comment holds the truth .... i would never ask a man to see me .... If he doesn't make an effort to see me ... that's a bad sign ... Athlete or no Athlete a man should show some interest .... The first sign of interest is to see you ... if he hasn't got that far then .... he may just be into  u for the phone discussions ... or maybe he thinks of you as texting buddy .... but really ... i would not take him too serious .... just let it flow ... stop calling ... stop texting ... and if u get a reaction ... like he ends up calling you and asking you about your where abouts and why u haven't been calling ..then that means u sparked his interest ... stay on the ride and just be friends .... if he doesn't call ... u got your answer ..... some of these guys keep women on a list...there serial F*** list ....lol... watch and study his movements

MissMidwest said:

Where & how did you meet this NFL rookie? He isn't inviting you out because he's too busy, it's because hanging out with you isn't a priority for him & he's not pressed to see you. If he wanted to see you, trust me, he'd squeeze it into your schedule....don't let an athlete hit you with that b******* either, "I'm really busy" is normally code for "I'm knee deep in p****" lol besides OTAs only take up a few hours of their time a day. Don't, I repeat don't be the aggressor & ask him to hang out, that will make you look way too eager to kick it with him and way too thirsty to him. Let him pursue you, and if he doesn't pursue you actively and intently, forget about it. 

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Permalink Reply by Bonita on June 8, 2012 at 8:40pm

Sorry but he sounds like a jerk..did you even get coffee from the mall trip anything..wow

Next time do not text someone about a tweet..now it seems like you have stalker tendencies.

Michella said:

Now he sounds a lil arrogant. You should have been nonchalant about the situation and antennas if you weren't bothered by it. You shouldn't have contacted him you should have waited at least a few days before you took any of his calls

Bad2theGristle said:

That's exactly how I felt!!! Like he was just allowing me In his presence! Mind you while we were together he tweeted first impressions can make or break you... Not really sure what that's about ? I texted and asked. No response. I'm kinda disappointed I ain't gone lie he was very cool & laid back
Goldie F***'n Fish said:

that's a CUTE test and all but that's hardly a good option for a date. He needs to take you out to a nice dinner or to wine festival(something romantic), not allow you in his presence as he picks up a shirt from the mall. I've had firefighters do more for me than that.  He doesn't value your presence or time. 

Just cause you have money, doesn't excuse you from courtship. But that's also why I don't like young boys. They don't know how to act... at all.

Michella said:

Maybe he is testing you. . . .wanna see if you got your hand out for something, especially on the first date.
Tricky. . .

Bad2theGristle said:

Zip zero STINGY WIT DINERO!!! Lol wow..we went  out (mall) he bought a shirt I got NOTHING! Of course I didn't ask. But that situation is DEAD!! Lol

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Permalink Reply by PhoenixRising on June 8, 2012 at 9:02pm

Yea that text you sent could have set u back. Get on your game girl!

Bonita said:

Sorry but he sounds like a jerk..did you even get coffee from the mall trip anything..wow

Next time do not text someone about a tweet..now it seems like you have stalker tendencies.

Michella said:

Now he sounds a lil arrogant. You should have been nonchalant about the situation and antennas if you weren't bothered by it. You shouldn't have contacted him you should have waited at least a few days before you took any of his calls

Bad2theGristle said:

That's exactly how I felt!!! Like he was just allowing me In his presence! Mind you while we were together he tweeted first impressions can make or break you... Not really sure what that's about ? I texted and asked. No response. I'm kinda disappointed I ain't gone lie he was very cool & laid back
Goldie F***'n Fish said:

that's a CUTE test and all but that's hardly a good option for a date. He needs to take you out to a nice dinner or to wine festival(something romantic), not allow you in his presence as he picks up a shirt from the mall. I've had firefighters do more for me than that.  He doesn't value your presence or time. 

Just cause you have money, doesn't excuse you from courtship. But that's also why I don't like young boys. They don't know how to act... at all.

Michella said:

Maybe he is testing you. . . .wanna see if you got your hand out for something, especially on the first date.
Tricky. . .

Bad2theGristle said:

Zip zero STINGY WIT DINERO!!! Lol wow..we went  out (mall) he bought a shirt I got NOTHING! Of course I didn't ask. But that situation is DEAD!! Lol

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on June 8, 2012 at 9:44pm

ditto.....So he invited you to brunch initially, but yall didn't even eat?  Who suggested the mall?  
 
Bonita said:

Sorry but he sounds like a jerk..did you even get coffee from the mall trip anything..wow

Next time do not text someone about a tweet..now it seems like you have stalker tendencies.

Michella said:

Now he sounds a lil arrogant. You should have been nonchalant about the situation and antennas if you weren't bothered by it. You shouldn't have contacted him you should have waited at least a few days before you took any of his calls

Bad2theGristle said:

That's exactly how I felt!!! Like he was just allowing me In his presence! Mind you while we were together he tweeted first impressions can make or break you... Not really sure what that's about ? I texted and asked. No response. I'm kinda disappointed I ain't gone lie he was very cool & laid back
Goldie F***'n Fish said:

that's a CUTE test and all but that's hardly a good option for a date. He needs to take you out to a nice dinner or to wine festival(something romantic), not allow you in his presence as he picks up a shirt from the mall. I've had firefighters do more for me than that.  He doesn't value your presence or time. 

Just cause you have money, doesn't excuse you from courtship. But that's also why I don't like young boys. They don't know how to act... at all.

Michella said:

Maybe he is testing you. . . .wanna see if you got your hand out for something, especially on the first date.
Tricky. . .

Bad2theGristle said:

Zip zero STINGY WIT DINERO!!! Lol wow..we went  out (mall) he bought a shirt I got NOTHING! Of course I didn't ask. But that situation is DEAD!! Lol

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Permalink Reply by Bad2theGristle on June 9, 2012 at 1:05am

He Suggested the mall. I'm not a dummy tho.. He wasn't really feelin me y'all he made a quick escape! Said he had a meeting to go to! -_- I knew that was a lie. & to clear things up he tweeted that while we were together! I just ask him to clarify.  But in all honesty I wasn't really when I think about it! It's not worth it. He's low key arrogant & he stayed on his phone the ENTIRE TIME TWEETIN & textin!! He didn't give me a chance to make an impression 

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

ditto.....So he invited you to brunch initially, but yall didn't even eat?  Who suggested the mall?  
 
Bonita said:

Sorry but he sounds like a jerk..did you even get coffee from the mall trip anything..wow

Next time do not text someone about a tweet..now it seems like you have stalker tendencies.

Michella said:

Now he sounds a lil arrogant. You should have been nonchalant about the situation and antennas if you weren't bothered by it. You shouldn't have contacted him you should have waited at least a few days before you took any of his calls

Bad2theGristle said:

That's exactly how I felt!!! Like he was just allowing me In his presence! Mind you while we were together he tweeted first impressions can make or break you... Not really sure what that's about ? I texted and asked. No response. I'm kinda disappointed I ain't gone lie he was very cool & laid back
Goldie F***'n Fish said:

that's a CUTE test and all but that's hardly a good option for a date. He needs to take you out to a nice dinner or to wine festival(something romantic), not allow you in his presence as he picks up a shirt from the mall. I've had firefighters do more for me than that.  He doesn't value your presence or time. 

Just cause you have money, doesn't excuse you from courtship. But that's also why I don't like young boys. They don't know how to act... at all.

Michella said:

Maybe he is testing you. . . .wanna see if you got your hand out for something, especially on the first date.
Tricky. . .

Bad2theGristle said:

Zip zero STINGY WIT DINERO!!! Lol wow..we went  out (mall) he bought a shirt I got NOTHING! Of course I didn't ask. But that situation is DEAD!! Lol

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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on June 9, 2012 at 2:24am

I'm curious to know wtf happened wit the first impression. What were u wearing? Did u call him bro or mane? Lol dude?? Was ur hair tight? I really wanna know what 'made' him flip like this??

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Permalink Reply by Goldie F***'n Fish on June 9, 2012 at 4:40am

waaaaack point blank period. chile NFL stands for Not For Long. You see Evelyn bout to be supportin this dude?

Get yourself a lil white boy that will worship the ground you contemplate walking on. 

Bad2theGristle said:

He Suggested the mall. I'm not a dummy tho.. He wasn't really feelin me y'all he made a quick escape! Said he had a meeting to go to! -_- I knew that was a lie. & to clear things up he tweeted that while we were together! I just ask him to clarify.  But in all honesty I wasn't really when I think about it! It's not worth it. He's low key arrogant & he stayed on his phone the ENTIRE TIME TWEETIN & textin!! He didn't give me a chance to make an impression 

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

ditto.....So he invited you to brunch initially, but yall didn't even eat?  Who suggested the mall?  
 
Bonita said:

Sorry but he sounds like a jerk..did you even get coffee from the mall trip anything..wow

Next time do not text someone about a tweet..now it seems like you have stalker tendencies.

Michella said:

Now he sounds a lil arrogant. You should have been nonchalant about the situation and antennas if you weren't bothered by it. You shouldn't have contacted him you should have waited at least a few days before you took any of his calls

Bad2theGristle said:

That's exactly how I felt!!! Like he was just allowing me In his presence! Mind you while we were together he tweeted first impressions can make or break you... Not really sure what that's about ? I texted and asked. No response. I'm kinda disappointed I ain't gone lie he was very cool & laid back
Goldie F***'n Fish said:

that's a CUTE test and all but that's hardly a good option for a date. He needs to take you out to a nice dinner or to wine festival(something romantic), not allow you in his presence as he picks up a shirt from the mall. I've had firefighters do more for me than that.  He doesn't value your presence or time. 

Just cause you have money, doesn't excuse you from courtship. But that's also why I don't like young boys. They don't know how to act... at all.

Michella said:

Maybe he is testing you. . . .wanna see if you got your hand out for something, especially on the first date.
Tricky. . .

Bad2theGristle said:

Zip zero STINGY WIT DINERO!!! Lol wow..we went  out (mall) he bought a shirt I got NOTHING! Of course I didn't ask. But that situation is DEAD!! Lol

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Permalink Reply by BlkButtafly on June 9, 2012 at 7:26am

Oh noooo that was a waste. Yea when he invited you to his crib, it was just to get some p****. Obviously. SMH. Then when he saw that you were not going that route, he chose the mall for two reasons: 1) For that little test you guys were talking about and 2) Just because he didn't want to seem like a total douche for just calling the "date" off by saying no when you suggested going out (if you write him off as a douche early on, then he's never getting the p****). Then when you went out, he used that as an opportunity to see if you would be worth keeping around to try to f*** but perhaps on a later date. Whatever happened (or didn't happen) showed him that you wouldn't be that easy. I'd count your blessings, girl.

Bad2theGristle said:

He Suggested the mall. I'm not a dummy tho.. He wasn't really feelin me y'all he made a quick escape! Said he had a meeting to go to! -_- I knew that was a lie. & to clear things up he tweeted that while we were together! I just ask him to clarify.  But in all honesty I wasn't really when I think about it! It's not worth it. He's low key arrogant & he stayed on his phone the ENTIRE TIME TWEETIN & textin!! He didn't give me a chance to make an impression 

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

ditto.....So he invited you to brunch initially, but yall didn't even eat?  Who suggested the mall?  
 
Bonita said:

Sorry but he sounds like a jerk..did you even get coffee from the mall trip anything..wow

Next time do not text someone about a tweet..now it seems like you have stalker tendencies.

Michella said:

Now he sounds a lil arrogant. You should have been nonchalant about the situation and antennas if you weren't bothered by it. You shouldn't have contacted him you should have waited at least a few days before you took any of his calls

Bad2theGristle said:

That's exactly how I felt!!! Like he was just allowing me In his presence! Mind you while we were together he tweeted first impressions can make or break you... Not really sure what that's about ? I texted and asked. No response. I'm kinda disappointed I ain't gone lie he was very cool & laid back
Goldie F***'n Fish said:

that's a CUTE test and all but that's hardly a good option for a date. He needs to take you out to a nice dinner or to wine festival(something romantic), not allow you in his presence as he picks up a shirt from the mall. I've had firefighters do more for me than that.  He doesn't value your presence or time. 

Just cause you have money, doesn't excuse you from courtship. But that's also why I don't like young boys. They don't know how to act... at all.

Michella said:

Maybe he is testing you. . . .wanna see if you got your hand out for something, especially on the first date.
Tricky. . .

Bad2theGristle said:

Zip zero STINGY WIT DINERO!!! Lol wow..we went  out (mall) he bought a shirt I got NOTHING! Of course I didn't ask. But that situation is DEAD!! Lol

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on June 9, 2012 at 10:36am

 Ditto.  If you would have went to the house, he could have still not been feeling you, but he woulda still being tryna hit.  Didn't yall meet when you guys were out so you saw each other before?  And if yall had good conversations, then he went totally left?  Yeah, count you blessings girl.  No time wasted. 

BlkButtafly said:

Oh noooo that was a waste. Yea when he invited you to his crib, it was just to get some p****. Obviously. SMH. Then when he saw that you were not going that route, he chose the mall for two reasons: 1) For that little test you guys were talking about and 2) Just because he didn't want to seem like a total douche for just calling the "date" off by saying no when you suggested going out (if you write him off as a douche early on, then he's never getting the p****). Then when you went out, he used that as an opportunity to see if you would be worth keeping around to try to f*** but perhaps on a later date. Whatever happened (or didn't happen) showed him that you wouldn't be that easy. I'd count your blessings, girl.

Bad2theGristle said:

He Suggested the mall. I'm not a dummy tho.. He wasn't really feelin me y'all he made a quick escape! Said he had a meeting to go to! -_- I knew that was a lie. & to clear things up he tweeted that while we were together! I just ask him to clarify.  But in all honesty I wasn't really when I think about it! It's not worth it. He's low key arrogant & he stayed on his phone the ENTIRE TIME TWEETIN & textin!! He didn't give me a chance to make an impression 

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

ditto.....So he invited you to brunch initially, but yall didn't even eat?  Who suggested the mall?  
 
Bonita said:

Sorry but he sounds like a jerk..did you even get coffee from the mall trip anything..wow

Next time do not text someone about a tweet..now it seems like you have stalker tendencies.

Michella said:

Now he sounds a lil arrogant. You should have been nonchalant about the situation and antennas if you weren't bothered by it. You shouldn't have contacted him you should have waited at least a few days before you took any of his calls

Bad2theGristle said:

That's exactly how I felt!!! Like he was just allowing me In his presence! Mind you while we were together he tweeted first impressions can make or break you... Not really sure what that's about ? I texted and asked. No response. I'm kinda disappointed I ain't gone lie he was very cool & laid back
Goldie F***'n Fish said:

that's a CUTE test and all but that's hardly a good option for a date. He needs to take you out to a nice dinner or to wine festival(something romantic), not allow you in his presence as he picks up a shirt from the mall. I've had firefighters do more for me than that.  He doesn't value your presence or time. 

Just cause you have money, doesn't excuse you from courtship. But that's also why I don't like young boys. They don't know how to act... at all.

Michella said:

Maybe he is testing you. . . .wanna see if you got your hand out for something, especially on the first date.
Tricky. . .

Bad2theGristle said:

Zip zero STINGY WIT DINERO!!! Lol wow..we went  out (mall) he bought a shirt I got NOTHING! Of course I didn't ask. But that situation is DEAD!! Lol

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Permalink Reply by SinSin on June 9, 2012 at 11:37am

I Agree!

BeautyandBrains said:

It all depends on what you want it to become...personally I wouldn't go that way.If you guys have already established you want to build a friendship it should now be on him as the man to pursue you and not the other way around.im sure many girls are on his tail at the moment don't be one of them it'll make you different.this is just my opinion and nothing more.lol..if he wants to hang w/you he will reach out to you.

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