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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on June 8, 2012 at 4:20pm

Im wit Siren......Sex is not all that important if I am in a relationship. I mean I want to be pleased, but for me, if I am emotionally involved with you, in love and all that, I get off on those feelings alone. That is how I almost married a guy with the tinest dyc I ever saw. *shrugs* lol

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Permalink Reply by SinSin on June 9, 2012 at 12:01pm

Totally Agree! The other elements in a relationship have to be on point as well in order for the sex to continue to be at a 10 on my list. If communication & other things going down hill so will the sex! I'm a Scorpio so I'm big on mental sex before physical. If you got me mentally you damn sure gotta get the best sex, p****, and head of your life! Lol

Siren said:

There was a time I would have said a 8-10, however after being married for over a year yes it is still important but I realize now that what ia more important and essential for the sex to stay good is communication, love, support, affection & a sense of humor. Life is real and when the rain comes it gets easy to get distracted from the sex. The other elements allow you to reconnect sexually.

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on June 9, 2012 at 2:34pm

OMG...we really are twins..lol.  But Im the exact same way and the exact thing happened to me.  The sex was about physically bout a 5 but once I realized I was soo much in love with him, the sex was a 10.  When loves involved, to me, the sex really isn't all that important.  Don't get me wrong, I did think, can I live with this forever?  We talked about it and we both tried to make sure we pleased each other, besides, he always performed oral so I was good anyway. 

If we just f******..the sex HAS to be good.

 
Love is a Losing Game said:

Im wit Siren......Sex is not all that important if I am in a relationship. I mean I want to be pleased, but for me, if I am emotionally involved with you, in love and all that, I get off on those feelings alone. That is how I almost married a guy with the tinest dyc I ever saw. *shrugs* lol

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Permalink Reply by marissa taylor on June 9, 2012 at 2:57pm

sex is important ... but it's not everything ... everyone has to age one day ... and ya bedroom skills will fade with age as well ... I just want to be happy and kep't happy ... to me honesty and consideration is worth far more then sex .... and i apperciate a man that takes time to out to be sweet and romantic ... and man that provides for his family and respects his wife ... and loves GOD.... i don't want terrible sex ...but the other things i mentioned holds more value to me .

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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on June 9, 2012 at 3:01pm

I will never ever call him if I'm just tryna get some. lol

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

OMG...we really are twins..lol.  But Im the exact same way and the exact thing happened to me.  The sex was about physically bout a 5 but once I realized I was soo much in love with him, the sex was a 10.  When loves involved, to me, the sex really isn't all that important.  Don't get me wrong, I did think, can I live with this forever?  We talked about it and we both tried to make sure we pleased each other, besides, he always performed oral so I was good anyway. 

If we just f******..the sex HAS to be good.

 
Love is a Losing Game said:

Im wit Siren......Sex is not all that important if I am in a relationship. I mean I want to be pleased, but for me, if I am emotionally involved with you, in love and all that, I get off on those feelings alone. That is how I almost married a guy with the tinest dyc I ever saw. *shrugs* lol

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Permalink Reply by marissa taylor on June 9, 2012 at 3:14pm

I agree also ladies ... when you are in love ... the sex is always great ...I have had that ... i am in love and the sex is so good i wanna cry sex ... its easier to please your man when u truly love him and when he tries to please u... u love it cuz u love him ... thats some good sex

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

OMG...we really are twins..lol.  But Im the exact same way and the exact thing happened to me.  The sex was about physically bout a 5 but once I realized I was soo much in love with him, the sex was a 10.  When loves involved, to me, the sex really isn't all that important.  Don't get me wrong, I did think, can I live with this forever?  We talked about it and we both tried to make sure we pleased each other, besides, he always performed oral so I was good anyway. 

If we just f******..the sex HAS to be good.

 
Love is a Losing Game said:

Im wit Siren......Sex is not all that important if I am in a relationship. I mean I want to be pleased, but for me, if I am emotionally involved with you, in love and all that, I get off on those feelings alone. That is how I almost married a guy with the tinest dyc I ever saw. *shrugs* lol

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Permalink Reply by Collete on June 10, 2012 at 1:05am

Siren...i love this

Siren said:

There was a time I would have said a 8-10, however after being married for over a year yes it is still important but I realize now that what ia more important and essential for the sex to stay good is communication, love, support, affection & a sense of humor. Life is real and when the rain comes it gets easy to get distracted from the sex. The other elements allow you to reconnect sexually.

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