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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on March 16, 2012 at 12:38am

Ive read some of your posts before and your typing just really gives off a desperate vibe. IM not saying you're desperate but your typing is.  Have you ever asked any of your girlfriends what they think you could be doing wrong.  What did they say???  Do you ever approach men??  Some may say thats desperate, but I disagree..I think it takes a confident woman to be able to approach a man, but you have to know how NOT to seem desperate. 

 

Why dont you want to be hooked up?  Its obviously something about you that cant or wont catch a mans attention so maybe you should try the blind dating thing.  They may get to like you before they can write you off if you think you are as good as you say you are.  Does your breath stink?  Are you attractive or do YOU think youre attractive? 

 

OAN:  Im going to go against the grain and say maybe you should ask an ex why yall broke up. I would only ask if the break up wasnt bad and we still have an okay relationship.  I've done this before, not only with ex's, but with a girlfriend as well, because I wanted to know my faults that I probably refuse to recognize, just a self-improvement thing for myself.  Mine was just in general conversation.  You would have to ask someone you think would be honest with you and wont sugar coat it. 

 

 

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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on March 16, 2012 at 12:42am

life did..got no joy by f****** over and f****** women after awhile. After so long p**** is p**** and one set of tits n ass is just like the next set of tits n ass. I rather have one great set of both n chill out in watch my little girls grow.

nalaLOVE said:

well damn..who soften yo ass up???

blackfujones said:

'yall plz dont kill me for saying this' 

Love if I was the old me I'd be thanking don magic juan for allowing me to lay eyes on you, because you sound like the first dude that runs up on you is gone have all of you.  Fuck are you so pressed for someone for. Yeah it sucks being alone, dont let anyone say companionship is for the birds. However, its the RIGHT type of companionship that makes it great.  You do have to LOVE yourself first before other folks who are in that frame of my can find you. Because believe me, folks who love themselves can quickly decipher folks that they know they have no business f****** with. 

damn go take a vacation

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Permalink Reply by onfire on March 16, 2012 at 12:45am

No my breathe doesnt stink lmao. I am attractive. Not all that. But far from ugly. Far. I dont approach men. Ever. No blind dating. Not interested. I've asked them they say they dont know. They should have some idea from hangin around but why should they care they got a man. Its mean. But i wouldnt care if they had man issues if i had a man. *shrugs*. i know i seem desperate but im not. When i meet guys tho i do think like "is this the one" or imma make this work no matter what if i LIKE him. If i hit a guy up i dont like its because im bored or lonely and im not tryna f*** neither jus go out but when they bs me i just delete their # and be back at sq 1. Its a pitiful situation im in.  My breakups werent bad bad but i dont know 1 dide who would be honest with me thats why im not even gonna do it.

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

Ive read some of your posts before and your typing just really gives off a desperate vibe. IM not saying you're desperate but your typing is.  Have you ever asked any of your girlfriends what they think you could be doing wrong.  What did they say???  Do you ever approach men??  Some may say thats desperate, but I disagree..I think it takes a confident woman to be able to approach a man, but you have to know how NOT to seem desperate. 

 

Why dont you want to be hooked up?  Its obviously something about you that cant or wont catch a mans attention so maybe you should try the blind dating thing.  They may get to like you before they can write you off if you think you are as good as you say you are.  Does your breath stink?  Are you attractive or do YOU think youre attractive? 

 

OAN:  Im going to go against the grain and say maybe you should ask an ex why yall broke up. I would only ask if the break up wasnt bad and we still have an okay relationship.  I've done this before, not only with ex's, but with a girlfriend as well, because I wanted to know my faults that I probably refuse to recognize, just a self-improvement thing for myself.  Mine was just in general conversation.  You would have to ask someone you think would be honest with you and wont sugar coat it. 

 

 

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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on March 16, 2012 at 12:46am

lol..true story. In college i'd go  back home and work at a car lot.The owner dave miller knew me since I was a kid and would give me any car I asked for. So one day I went to the mall to pick up my shoes that I had cleaned/polished etc. So coming out I see a group of women and I speak to one that caught my eye. We converse n she takes my number n just chuckles. Now mind you im in my work coveralls/dirty/etc etc. lol. So I run up stairs for something n when I come back down i see them again, and one of them says "here come mr dirty " lol.  Needless to say they s****** themselves when they saw my 19yr old ass in an escalade that hadnt even came out  yet lol. I ended up f***** her in front of the strip club that night n never called again...im callous like that i guess

onfire said:

Today actually lol but i wasnt interested. He was not attractive to my eyes. Terrible whip. Swag(clothes/style) like ugh really and he kept pressin so i took his # but i will not be callin. No one is approachin me that i feel at least off looks. When i do they just want to f***. How can i get em to STAY around before and after sex damn.. This is frustrating.

Love is a Losing Game said:

I'm really interested....when is the last time you were approached by a man?

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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on March 16, 2012 at 12:48am

I remember reading some of your posts too. Honestly you don't sound desperate to me. You sound something else. Your situation is not a physical one, but how do you look?

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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on March 16, 2012 at 12:49am

smh

Sheli said:

What city you live in? I have a homie who is almost as lonely & borderline depressed as you and I'm tired of hearing his whining almost as much as I'm tired of reading yours. Maybe you two will fair well together He has a facebook if you're interested. He's a cool dude, easy on the eyes. Let me know I'll hook it up.

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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on March 16, 2012 at 12:50am

-just sent out a manlaw distress call to stay away from this woman fa real...*headache waiting to happen*

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Permalink Reply by Rad on March 16, 2012 at 12:52am

So what you're saying is you're not willing to do anything new to change your situation since obviously everything you are/aren't doing is keeping you in said situation. A situation you're clearly unhappy with. lol. Good luck being single.

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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on March 16, 2012 at 12:54am

LMAO that was mean

blackfujones said:

-just sent out a manlaw distress call to stay away from this woman fa real...*headache waiting to happen*

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on March 16, 2012 at 12:56am

Try something different.  If you see a guy that you think is attractive, approach him, just say hi, Im so and so....and carry on a conversation.  You say yout type never approaches you so aproach your type.  I feel you on that though because my type hardly ever approaches me either....but if I see something I like, I will flirt and see if he's interested, thats also one of the reasons Im single, but I just figure everything happens for a reason so it doesn't bother me.  I spend holidays with my family, and so what they have their BF's/husbands with them...they always ask me when you get a man..I tell them when I find MY perfect one....Good Luck...and what city are u in
 
onfire said:

No my breathe doesnt stink lmao. I am attractive. Not all that. But far from ugly. Far. I dont approach men. Ever. No blind dating. Not interested. I've asked them they say they dont know. They should have some idea from hangin around but why should they care they got a man. Its mean. But i wouldnt care if they had man issues if i had a man. *shrugs*. i know i seem desperate but im not. When i meet guys tho i do think like "is this the one" or imma make this work no matter what if i LIKE him. If i hit a guy up i dont like its because im bored or lonely and im not tryna f*** neither jus go out but when they bs me i just delete their # and be back at sq 1. Its a pitiful situation im in.  My breakups werent bad bad but i dont know 1 dide who would be honest with me thats why im not even gonna do it.

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

Ive read some of your posts before and your typing just really gives off a desperate vibe. IM not saying you're desperate but your typing is.  Have you ever asked any of your girlfriends what they think you could be doing wrong.  What did they say???  Do you ever approach men??  Some may say thats desperate, but I disagree..I think it takes a confident woman to be able to approach a man, but you have to know how NOT to seem desperate. 

 

Why dont you want to be hooked up?  Its obviously something about you that cant or wont catch a mans attention so maybe you should try the blind dating thing.  They may get to like you before they can write you off if you think you are as good as you say you are.  Does your breath stink?  Are you attractive or do YOU think youre attractive? 

 

OAN:  Im going to go against the grain and say maybe you should ask an ex why yall broke up. I would only ask if the break up wasnt bad and we still have an okay relationship.  I've done this before, not only with ex's, but with a girlfriend as well, because I wanted to know my faults that I probably refuse to recognize, just a self-improvement thing for myself.  Mine was just in general conversation.  You would have to ask someone you think would be honest with you and wont sugar coat it. 

 

 

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Permalink Reply by onfire on March 16, 2012 at 12:57am

lol. yea stay away from  me. cause i'm looking for love.

Love is a Losing Game said:

LMAO that was mean
blackfujones said:

-just sent out a manlaw distress call to stay away from this woman fa real...*headache waiting to happen*

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Permalink Reply by onfire on March 16, 2012 at 12:58am

LA

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

Try something different.  If you see a guy that you think is attractive, approach him, just say hi, Im so and so....and carry on a conversation.  You say yout type never approaches you so aproach your type.  I feel you on that though because my type hardly ever approaches me either....but if I see something I like, I will flirt and see if he's interested, thats also one of the reasons Im single, but I just figure everything happens for a reason so it doesn't bother me.  I spend holidays with my family, and so what they have their BF's/husbands with them...they always ask me when you get a man..I tell them when I find MY perfect one....Good Luck...and what city are u in  
onfire said:

No my breathe doesnt stink lmao. I am attractive. Not all that. But far from ugly. Far. I dont approach men. Ever. No blind dating. Not interested. I've asked them they say they dont know. They should have some idea from hangin around but why should they care they got a man. Its mean. But i wouldnt care if they had man issues if i had a man. *shrugs*. i know i seem desperate but im not. When i meet guys tho i do think like "is this the one" or imma make this work no matter what if i LIKE him. If i hit a guy up i dont like its because im bored or lonely and im not tryna f*** neither jus go out but when they bs me i just delete their # and be back at sq 1. Its a pitiful situation im in.  My breakups werent bad bad but i dont know 1 dide who would be honest with me thats why im not even gonna do it.
MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

Ive read some of your posts before and your typing just really gives off a desperate vibe. IM not saying you're desperate but your typing is.  Have you ever asked any of your girlfriends what they think you could be doing wrong.  What did they say???  Do you ever approach men??  Some may say thats desperate, but I disagree..I think it takes a confident woman to be able to approach a man, but you have to know how NOT to seem desperate. 

 

Why dont you want to be hooked up?  Its obviously something about you that cant or wont catch a mans attention so maybe you should try the blind dating thing.  They may get to like you before they can write you off if you think you are as good as you say you are.  Does your breath stink?  Are you attractive or do YOU think youre attractive? 

 

OAN:  Im going to go against the grain and say maybe you should ask an ex why yall broke up. I would only ask if the break up wasnt bad and we still have an okay relationship.  I've done this before, not only with ex's, but with a girlfriend as well, because I wanted to know my faults that I probably refuse to recognize, just a self-improvement thing for myself.  Mine was just in general conversation.  You would have to ask someone you think would be honest with you and wont sugar coat it. 

 

 

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