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Permalink Reply by onfire on March 16, 2012 at 1:49am

Aim? What? No. Lmao. That is funny. For a min i thought you really knew me. You scared the s*** out of me. Lol

Tone said:

So you aim is not abetterose and your not really 42 years old trolling the internet

onfire said:

Thats funny. Whoever she is. Im not her. This my first anonymous blog honey.

Tone said:

She was on some forum i posted on a few years ago she even gave her number out and had convos with women on the site she called herself missfabcookie

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

Enlighten us please

Tone said:

LOL i know who this is you still playing this game

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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on March 16, 2012 at 1:52am

do tell tone

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on March 16, 2012 at 1:52am

Then you must be sweetness alias

onfire said:

Aim? What? No. Lmao. That is funny. For a min i thought you really knew me. You scared the s*** out of me. Lol

Tone said:

So you aim is not abetterose and your not really 42 years old trolling the internet

onfire said:

Thats funny. Whoever she is. Im not her. This my first anonymous blog honey.

Tone said:

She was on some forum i posted on a few years ago she even gave her number out and had convos with women on the site she called herself missfabcookie

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

Enlighten us please

Tone said:

LOL i know who this is you still playing this game

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Permalink Reply by mese on March 16, 2012 at 4:00am

*sigh* first things first your always gonna be single with the mentality you have or your gonna end up with some damn loser with no job, bad credit, and great d***. you seriously need to work on YOU!! your still young, you have plenty of time to find a man! This is coming from someone who went thru some major bs with my ex. i gave myself a mancation for awhile and worked on me and i went to therapy! and it was one of the best damn things that ever happen to me. Now im dating someone thats good for me. he came around when I didnt expect it I wasnt looking any of that! your looking for a man although you may not wanna believe it or not. Seriously get yourself togther first, focus on a man later. hell find a hobby this sitting around wondering why your singlr b******* is gonna have you single for the rest of your damn life. Your beating yourself up for no reason just do you. i better you will attract a someone good. Now dont get me wrong im not perfect and i still have lots of work to do but trust me. Once you work on yourself you honestly will feel like you dont want a man. because your happy with yourself. you say that your happy 
, honey chile you arent becsuse if you were you wouldnt be posting this! If you wanna talk you can always message me. 

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Permalink Reply by libramd on March 16, 2012 at 4:55am

but that was a typo,right????

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

lmao...why do i keep reading the LEFTED me part
 
MissBling said:

You sound like a psycho and I hope that you don't look like one too. Please believe if you are, that ish can only be disguised for so long. Honestly, you are probably at the stage where you have that look in your eye if not all over. If so, only dudes that will approach you are mofos that don't have s*** to lose themselves. Focus on your education and finding yourself because that "lefted" ish that you typed twice (so I know it's real) doesn't sit well with me.

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Permalink Reply by Sheli on March 16, 2012 at 9:43am

I'm sorry but I don't think you want help, I think you enjoy throwing this pity party &  I'm not saying this to be mean, but people have offered you a number of ways to 1) get out of your funk and 2) to meet men and you decline our rebut each one. It's like you're waiting on Prince Charming to walk up to you, be perfect & you two instantly fall in love; that's not going to happen, EVER!!! We've given you advice and you've never tried any of it, you just come back here throwing yourself a pity party:

**Focus on yourself (get a hobby, workout, etc)

**Hang with family/friends

**Approach men you find to be your type

**Online dating, blind dating

** Hang out at spots outside your comfort zone

**Meet new people

**Go out alone

**Date multiple men, even if you don't see anything long term with them just to get out of your funk

**Ask your girlfriends boyfriends to introduce you to their male friends.

I tell my guy friend the EXACT same thing & he always has an excuse as to why it won't work before he even tries it.

I was single for 4 years and I NEVER had a problem meeting men and this was during the time where I HATED ALL MEN, lol. Your urgency for a relationship is probably what's scaring men off.  No man wants to meet a woman on Monday & have her talking about being in a relationship by Wednesday night. There are much more exciting things in life than a man.

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Permalink Reply by can i kick it on March 16, 2012 at 10:25am

Hey i'm new to the site so i haven't really seen your previous posts but i have a friend like you she always is depressed about not getting or being able to maintain a relationship but once she gets one she acts bat s*** crazy and then she is crying about why do men always leave her etc. So again i dont fully know your situation and im not saying your crazy but maybe you have some self-sabatoge going on and thats why you find it hard to find and maitain a relationship, and contacting exes never good

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Permalink Reply by Ms. BoiBye on March 16, 2012 at 10:44am

Good Advice given by all parties.  Just chill out and go with the flow. I just fell in love with a  blog called http://peepgame.net/

Maybe she can help you.

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Permalink Reply by Mochacashmere on March 16, 2012 at 10:51am

OMG, you sound just like me. I've been single for quite some time and no matter what anyone says being single is for the birds. Everyone tells me to go do this, go do that, be happy to single, all the while they are cuddled up with their boo. FOH!! I spend my b-day, holiday, weekends, etc alone and it just makes you feel even worse. I love myself and I have done the dating me thing and it's just not enough.

It's natural as humans to desire companionship, but when you voice that to others the first thing people say "you don't love yourself." I don't know what the answer is to finding a man. It's like I've been in a holding pattern. I too have been contemplating contacting my ex to see what was up with him and it we could work on getting back together. I'm not sure if I want that, but I don't want to be alone either. 

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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on March 16, 2012 at 10:59am

Why is it that soooo many women find that approaching men thing like so bad? I find it sexy that a woman can approach me and tell me whats on her mind. Hell sometimes we dont notice yall a**** n need a reminder

Sheli said:

I'm sorry but I don't think you want help, I think you enjoy throwing this pity party &  I'm not saying this to be mean, but people have offered you a number of ways to 1) get out of your funk and 2) to meet men and you decline our rebut each one. It's like you're waiting on Prince Charming to walk up to you, be perfect & you two instantly fall in love; that's not going to happen, EVER!!! We've given you advice and you've never tried any of it, you just come back here throwing yourself a pity party:

**Focus on yourself (get a hobby, workout, etc)

**Hang with family/friends

**Approach men you find to be your type

**Online dating, blind dating

** Hang out at spots outside your comfort zone

**Meet new people

**Go out alone

**Date multiple men, even if you don't see anything long term with them just to get out of your funk

**Ask your girlfriends boyfriends to introduce you to their male friends.

I tell my guy friend the EXACT same thing & he always has an excuse as to why it won't work before he even tries it.

I was single for 4 years and I NEVER had a problem meeting men and this was during the time where I HATED ALL MEN, lol. Your urgency for a relationship is probably what's scaring men off.  No man wants to meet a woman on Monday & have her talking about being in a relationship by Wednesday night. There are much more exciting things in life than a man.

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Permalink Reply by Skytz0100 on March 16, 2012 at 11:01am

That could possibly work but you have to be sure the information you are givin is coming from a good place. That's going to be hard to do so maybe you should just seek a professional cause you are coming off as depressed and sad about it and you shouldn't be. Life is more than just who wants to be with you or date you. It's not a big deal!

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Permalink Reply by Skytz0100 on March 16, 2012 at 11:04am

And he's not lying my last two long-term relationships this is how I got em! Men like to be pursued too, they just don't like stalking, LMAO! But you can go up to a dude and be like them and say hey, what's your name, where you from, etc. You will be able to tell if guy is interested if he turns and acknowledges your questions with long-drawn out answers. A dude that just answers the question and turns away is not interested.

blackfujones said:

Why is it that soooo many women find that approaching men thing like so bad? I find it sexy that a woman can approach me and tell me whats on her mind. Hell sometimes we dont notice yall a**** n need a reminder
Sheli said:

I'm sorry but I don't think you want help, I think you enjoy throwing this pity party &  I'm not saying this to be mean, but people have offered you a number of ways to 1) get out of your funk and 2) to meet men and you decline our rebut each one. It's like you're waiting on Prince Charming to walk up to you, be perfect & you two instantly fall in love; that's not going to happen, EVER!!! We've given you advice and you've never tried any of it, you just come back here throwing yourself a pity party:

**Focus on yourself (get a hobby, workout, etc)

**Hang with family/friends

**Approach men you find to be your type

**Online dating, blind dating

** Hang out at spots outside your comfort zone

**Meet new people

**Go out alone

**Date multiple men, even if you don't see anything long term with them just to get out of your funk

**Ask your girlfriends boyfriends to introduce you to their male friends.

I tell my guy friend the EXACT same thing & he always has an excuse as to why it won't work before he even tries it.

I was single for 4 years and I NEVER had a problem meeting men and this was during the time where I HATED ALL MEN, lol. Your urgency for a relationship is probably what's scaring men off.  No man wants to meet a woman on Monday & have her talking about being in a relationship by Wednesday night. There are much more exciting things in life than a man.

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