If you read any of my post  then you know a lil about me and my problem. I cant get a man for s***. Nobody is interested. Sad. All that gettin myself together is BS nobody i know with a man did it so why should i? So i was thinkin would it be a good idea to contact some of my old boo's that LeFTED me so sad.. And see why they lefted me and maybe i will find a pattern/problem and could possibly fix it?  Dont be rude just be straight up.

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it wasnt really crowded. The people that were there were in their own groups. all the areas were dark. since i was alone i was smiling and singing along with the music that was playing.
it was kind of dead too that night. but i was just happy to be out the house lol. i smiled. i just dont want to send the wrong impression that im trying to f*** or thirsty for a damn drink that i can buy myself. i dont be THAT friendly. but friendly enough. i be so scared somebody i know will see me there alone and try to clown so i think i pick wack nights to avoid them lol hoping theres a gentlemen in there just out enjoyinh himself and see me!!!!!!! Boom!! lol
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

We all do that/go through that. Did you make eye contact, were you hiding in the corner?

Did you post up at the bar (where there is light) and you can look and smile at the guys when they were buying their drinks? They won't approach you if you didn't look friendly.
onfire said:

that night i posted that i went out alone. no one approached me though. but i did feel good and a bit awkward going out alone and trying to enjoy myself
Honeycoated said:

Didnt you make a post one about you were going to try the going out by yourself thing? Did you do it?

i agree. that whole approaching men thing is like i like them more and i cant deal. i want to always be approached so i can make sure i never feel like i like you more. unless were like in line somewhere and theres a hold up and he comments and i laugh or vice versa where neither of us is approaching each other but we made that connect then thats like the only time i would speak up  but again im speaking up on the situation thats in front of us not on some "whats up" s***.. no not my style. sorry. one of ym long term relationships started because i approached him and it was a horrible relatioship. even tho it was 4 years. omg were they a mess. he was something i wanted but was i really something he wanted??? he stayed but i think it was soley the sex. but thatss another story....

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

I kind of believe this also.  Its like when you approach a man, in a way you become the chaser, its like you automatically "like him more than he likes you"  I cant explain it but I feel you, but it still doesnt stop me from meeting new ppl.  If it seem as if its heading in that direction, then I'll just let it go and wont put any effort into it. 

  Love is a Losing Game said:

@black this is refreshing to read....I always thought men did not like to be approached by women. For me, I think the dynamic automatically changes once a woman appoaches the man. Its like his natural 'chase' mechanisims are turned off. I think men treat u differently if u approach them v. them approaching us. I'm not shy to approach a man but I've stopped doing it. I guess I wanna know that he 'chose' me. I might get back into it after reading this

lol @ all this. u a fool wit it mb.

MissBling said:

You sound like a psycho and I hope that you don't look like one too. Please believe if you are, that ish can only be disguised for so long. Honestly, you are probably at the stage where you have that look in your eye if not all over. If so, only dudes that will approach you are mofos that don't have s*** to lose themselves. Focus on your education and finding yourself because that "lefted" ish that you typed twice (so I know it's real) doesn't sit well with me.

no it does change anything for the simple fact as blk was saying....my bad bishes travel with a nice sized group of bad bishes so when u pick one and attempt to approach her, its like ur being evaluated by the whole group......i never approach women in groups because i fear that one of the other chicks i didnt choose will be a lil hot cuz im not trying to get at her and f*** it all up. so i usually catch her off by herself. (just my thing) if a woman steps away from her group or gives u the "eyes" then i think thats wuz up. instant turn on for me. women can approach men (just to show interest) then continue to let the man pursue u. this is why so many women or single because they are to busy with all these damn rules!! u gotta let down some ur guard walls in the begining. not saying u gotta give up the puss right away but s*** u just trying to meet a nigga. its ok if u come holla at me first or start the conversation.

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

I kind of believe this also.  Its like when you approach a man, in a way you become the chaser, its like you automatically "like him more than he likes you"  I cant explain it but I feel you, but it still doesnt stop me from meeting new ppl.  If it seem as if its heading in that direction, then I'll just let it go and wont put any effort into it. 

  Love is a Losing Game said:

@black this is refreshing to read....I always thought men did not like to be approached by women. For me, I think the dynamic automatically changes once a woman appoaches the man. Its like his natural 'chase' mechanisims are turned off. I think men treat u differently if u approach them v. them approaching us. I'm not shy to approach a man but I've stopped doing it. I guess I wanna know that he 'chose' me. I might get back into it after reading this

LMAO

DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN said:

no it does change anything for the simple fact as blk was saying....my bad bishes travel with a nice sized group of bad bishes so when u pick one and attempt to approach her, its like ur being evaluated by the whole group......i never approach women in groups because i fear that one of the other chicks i didnt choose will be a lil hot cuz im not trying to get at her and f*** it all up. so i usually catch her off by herself. (just my thing) if a woman steps away from her group or gives u the "eyes" then i think thats wuz up. instant turn on for me. women can approach men (just to show interest) then continue to let the man pursue u. this is why so many women or single because they are to busy with all these damn rules!! u gotta let down some ur guard walls in the begining. not saying u gotta give up the puss right away but s*** u just trying to meet a nigga. its ok if u come holla at me first or start the conversation.

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

I kind of believe this also.  Its like when you approach a man, in a way you become the chaser, its like you automatically "like him more than he likes you"  I cant explain it but I feel you, but it still doesnt stop me from meeting new ppl.  If it seem as if its heading in that direction, then I'll just let it go and wont put any effort into it. 

  Love is a Losing Game said:

@black this is refreshing to read....I always thought men did not like to be approached by women. For me, I think the dynamic automatically changes once a woman appoaches the man. Its like his natural 'chase' mechanisims are turned off. I think men treat u differently if u approach them v. them approaching us. I'm not shy to approach a man but I've stopped doing it. I guess I wanna know that he 'chose' me. I might get back into it after reading this

damn, sorry about all the errors.....im typing a denial letter on one screen and typing a response on the other screen. i better chill out before i type some s*** meant for ba in this person's claim. hahahaha

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

LMAO

DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN said:

no it does change anything for the simple fact as blk was saying....my bad bishes travel with a nice sized group of bad bishes so when u pick one and attempt to approach her, its like ur being evaluated by the whole group......i never approach women in groups because i fear that one of the other chicks i didnt choose will be a lil hot cuz im not trying to get at her and f*** it all up. so i usually catch her off by herself. (just my thing) if a woman steps away from her group or gives u the "eyes" then i think thats wuz up. instant turn on for me. women can approach men (just to show interest) then continue to let the man pursue u. this is why so many women or single because they are to busy with all these damn rules!! u gotta let down some ur guard walls in the begining. not saying u gotta give up the puss right away but s*** u just trying to meet a nigga. its ok if u come holla at me first or start the conversation.

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

I kind of believe this also.  Its like when you approach a man, in a way you become the chaser, its like you automatically "like him more than he likes you"  I cant explain it but I feel you, but it still doesnt stop me from meeting new ppl.  If it seem as if its heading in that direction, then I'll just let it go and wont put any effort into it. 

  Love is a Losing Game said:

@black this is refreshing to read....I always thought men did not like to be approached by women. For me, I think the dynamic automatically changes once a woman appoaches the man. Its like his natural 'chase' mechanisims are turned off. I think men treat u differently if u approach them v. them approaching us. I'm not shy to approach a man but I've stopped doing it. I guess I wanna know that he 'chose' me. I might get back into it after reading this

lol, awww don't deny, break the rules and make some one's day

DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN said:

damn, sorry about all the errors.....im typing a denial letter on one screen and typing a response on the other screen. i better chill out before i type some s*** meant for ba in this person's claim. hahahaha

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

LMAO

DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN said:

no it does change anything for the simple fact as blk was saying....my bad bishes travel with a nice sized group of bad bishes so when u pick one and attempt to approach her, its like ur being evaluated by the whole group......i never approach women in groups because i fear that one of the other chicks i didnt choose will be a lil hot cuz im not trying to get at her and f*** it all up. so i usually catch her off by herself. (just my thing) if a woman steps away from her group or gives u the "eyes" then i think thats wuz up. instant turn on for me. women can approach men (just to show interest) then continue to let the man pursue u. this is why so many women or single because they are to busy with all these damn rules!! u gotta let down some ur guard walls in the begining. not saying u gotta give up the puss right away but s*** u just trying to meet a nigga. its ok if u come holla at me first or start the conversation.

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

I kind of believe this also.  Its like when you approach a man, in a way you become the chaser, its like you automatically "like him more than he likes you"  I cant explain it but I feel you, but it still doesnt stop me from meeting new ppl.  If it seem as if its heading in that direction, then I'll just let it go and wont put any effort into it. 

  Love is a Losing Game said:

@black this is refreshing to read....I always thought men did not like to be approached by women. For me, I think the dynamic automatically changes once a woman appoaches the man. Its like his natural 'chase' mechanisims are turned off. I think men treat u differently if u approach them v. them approaching us. I'm not shy to approach a man but I've stopped doing it. I guess I wanna know that he 'chose' me. I might get back into it after reading this

lol ikr

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

lol, awww don't deny, break the rules and make some one's day

DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN said:

damn, sorry about all the errors.....im typing a denial letter on one screen and typing a response on the other screen. i better chill out before i type some s*** meant for ba in this person's claim. hahahaha

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

LMAO

DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN said:

no it does change anything for the simple fact as blk was saying....my bad bishes travel with a nice sized group of bad bishes so when u pick one and attempt to approach her, its like ur being evaluated by the whole group......i never approach women in groups because i fear that one of the other chicks i didnt choose will be a lil hot cuz im not trying to get at her and f*** it all up. so i usually catch her off by herself. (just my thing) if a woman steps away from her group or gives u the "eyes" then i think thats wuz up. instant turn on for me. women can approach men (just to show interest) then continue to let the man pursue u. this is why so many women or single because they are to busy with all these damn rules!! u gotta let down some ur guard walls in the begining. not saying u gotta give up the puss right away but s*** u just trying to meet a nigga. its ok if u come holla at me first or start the conversation.

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

I kind of believe this also.  Its like when you approach a man, in a way you become the chaser, its like you automatically "like him more than he likes you"  I cant explain it but I feel you, but it still doesnt stop me from meeting new ppl.  If it seem as if its heading in that direction, then I'll just let it go and wont put any effort into it. 

  Love is a Losing Game said:

@black this is refreshing to read....I always thought men did not like to be approached by women. For me, I think the dynamic automatically changes once a woman appoaches the man. Its like his natural 'chase' mechanisims are turned off. I think men treat u differently if u approach them v. them approaching us. I'm not shy to approach a man but I've stopped doing it. I guess I wanna know that he 'chose' me. I might get back into it after reading this

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