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Permalink Reply by Brii on March 15, 2012 at 9:56pm

Uh.. I don't know you but I'm going to be as straight up as I can and I mean no harm but if you don't get out your damn feelings please do.. Stop worrying about what everybody else has done or doing to get a man and get your life it seems you're too focused on getting a man.. What are you going to do when you do get one? Contacting your exes sounds like a b**** move to me let them stay in the past and you figure out YOU.. Sorry

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Permalink Reply by onfire on March 15, 2012 at 10:05pm

It is my focus. My main focus. I dont understand why im single so it bothers me 24/7. What you said was straight up. I respect it. I know contactin them wouldnt be a good idea but how am i supposed to know whats wrong with me and fix if i dont know.. I cant assume its because i dont have this and that together. Everybody aint all together but still managed to get a man.. I want to know so bad what im doin wrong. And whenever i finally do get a man omg imma be beyond happy and imma live my life and have fun and do couple stuff. Lol

Brii said:

Uh.. I don't know you but I'm going to be as straight up as I can and I mean no harm but if you don't get out your damn feelings please do.. Stop worrying about what everybody else has done or doing to get a man and get your life it seems you're too focused on getting a man.. What are you going to do when you do get one? Contacting your exes sounds like a b**** move to me let them stay in the past and you figure out YOU.. Sorry

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Permalink Reply by onfire on March 15, 2012 at 10:13pm

Everybody talks about everybody get over it.

nalaLOVE said:

&& they talk about me ... *shrugs*

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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on March 15, 2012 at 10:14pm

'yall plz dont kill me for saying this' 

Love if I was the old me I'd be thanking don magic juan for allowing me to lay eyes on you, because you sound like the first dude that runs up on you is gone have all of you.  Fuck are you so pressed for someone for. Yeah it sucks being alone, dont let anyone say companionship is for the birds. However, its the RIGHT type of companionship that makes it great.  You do have to LOVE yourself first before other folks who are in that frame of my can find you. Because believe me, folks who love themselves can quickly decipher folks that they know they have no business f****** with. 

damn go take a vacation

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Permalink Reply by Paris on March 15, 2012 at 10:18pm

Just my opinion but the vibes your sending out say desperate...some people connect being single with being lonely and maybe thats what your feeling I dont know... If so.. spend time with your family, read a book, get a dog...do something that will take your mind off of getting a man..seems like your not ready... *side eye* to "imma live my life"...you should be doing that now. Once you can be good with being alone then maybe a good man will come along because he see's your happy and content with yourself.

Good Luck

I'm new yall!

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Permalink Reply by JustMe on March 15, 2012 at 10:27pm

nope... cause them ninjas that lefted you will sense the desperation...

 

Just work on being the best you possible.  Most women I know in successful relationships found Mr. Right when they weren't even looking... Myself included...

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Permalink Reply by onfire on March 15, 2012 at 10:27pm

I'm pressed because i been single for 4 years. Spend my holidays alone. Spend my bdays alone. Come home to no one everyday. Spend my weekends alone. No any man that approaches me can have me but im not gonna sit here and try to convince you oft that i know whats up. Life is borin. I jus work as go to school.. I lose focus at work i daydream about how my life is turning out. Trust me no vacation will help. Now if i was goin with a guy then i would love to go on a vacation lol. Im open to ya'll advice but its funny the people i know who go in & out of relationships dont do all this ya'll tellin me to do. Where ya'll get this information from? Lol

blackfujones said:

'yall plz dont kill me for saying this' 

Love if I was the old me I'd be thanking don magic juan for allowing me to lay eyes on you, because you sound like the first dude that runs up on you is gone have all of you.  Fuck are you so pressed for someone for. Yeah it sucks being alone, dont let anyone say companionship is for the birds. However, its the RIGHT type of companionship that makes it great.  You do have to LOVE yourself first before other folks who are in that frame of my can find you. Because believe me, folks who love themselves can quickly decipher folks that they know they have no business f****** with. 

damn go take a vacation

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Permalink Reply by Brii on March 15, 2012 at 10:30pm

Why is that your main focus? Whining and worrying about why you don't have a man is the problem sunshine and yeah they might have one but who knows what happens behind closed doors...When the times right and when you're ready one will appear.. If you don't mind me asking how old are you?

onfire said:

It is my focus. My main focus. I dont understand why im single so it bothers me 24/7. What you said was straight up. I respect it. I know contactin them wouldnt be a good idea but how am i supposed to know whats wrong with me and fix if i dont know.. I cant assume its because i dont have this and that together. Everybody aint all together but still managed to get a man.. I want to know so bad what im doin wrong. And whenever i finally do get a man omg imma be beyond happy and imma live my life and have fun and do couple stuff. Lol

Brii said:

Uh.. I don't know you but I'm going to be as straight up as I can and I mean no harm but if you don't get out your damn feelings please do.. Stop worrying about what everybody else has done or doing to get a man and get your life it seems you're too focused on getting a man.. What are you going to do when you do get one? Contacting your exes sounds like a b**** move to me let them stay in the past and you figure out YOU.. Sorry

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Permalink Reply by onfire on March 15, 2012 at 10:34pm

Thank you for focusing on the question that i asked.

JustMe said:

nope... cause them ninjas that lefted you will sense the desperation...

 

Just work on being the best you possible.  Most women I know in successful relationships found Mr. Right when they weren't even looking... Myself included...

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Permalink Reply by Sheli on March 15, 2012 at 10:40pm

What city you live in? I have a homie who is almost as lonely & borderline depressed as you and I'm tired of hearing his whining almost as much as I'm tired of reading yours. Maybe you two will fair well together He has a facebook if you're interested. He's a cool dude, easy on the eyes. Let me know I'll hook it up.

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Permalink Reply by onfire on March 15, 2012 at 10:43pm

Thanks. But no thanks. I dont want to be hooked up. I need for a guy to see me ad see somethin he wants.

Sheli said:

What city you live in? I have a homie who is almost as lonely & borderline depressed as you and I'm tired of hearing his whining almost as much as I'm tired of reading yours. Maybe you two will fair well together He has a facebook if you're interested. He's a cool dude, easy on the eyes. Let me know I'll hook it up.

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Permalink Reply by SACK CHASER on March 15, 2012 at 11:14pm

Go ahead and call one of your old boos. your ass will be begging to be single after they get done with you! 

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