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Raped; Is it ever the woman's fault?
There's a video on WSHH with Deelishis and her husband talking about when she got raped when she was 18. She stated she let the guy give her head but afterwards didn't want to have sex but he forced it anyway. Her husband and some chick in the back ground were saying she should have expected dude to want sex since she let him go down on her. So basically she is at fault for what happened because she lead him on. No means no is the rape law however men tend to think in certain situations the woman is at fault and could have avoided the rape had she practiced better judgement.
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Permalink Reply by Baller Alert on -
No means no... period end of discussion.
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on -
They are both at fault in this situation she took advantage of him with her words and he used force to take advantage of her. You can't play victim if you plan to manipulate someone and they end up getting over on you.
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Permalink Reply by Sw33tNeSS on -
I can't believe this is even up for discussion. And tone you're an ignorant ass for your comment. That's like saying if a woman bends down in a short skirt in front of u and winks then she's asking for it. No the f*** she's not. As a rape SURVIVOR I know first hand how people can manipulate and say oh well your clothes was off or you know you wanted it. No that's just some sick twisted f*** s*** niggas say to boost their heavily bruised ego. NOBODY but nobody wants to be FORCED to have sex. If u say no then no u stop. I love my boo now. I didn't wanna go to far and I was like no no and he stopped. Right then and there. No questions asked. If he woulda kept going and saying I know u want it (which damn y'all I really did its been seven months lol) then that's rape and no it's not my fault for kissing him. It's the mans fault for not being able to control himself. Wtf. I hate u tone
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Permalink Reply by Baller Alert on
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You are an idiot... a big one. SMH
Tone said:They are both at fault in this situation she took advantage of him with her words and he used force to take advantage of her. You can't play victim if you plan to manipulate someone and they end up getting over on you.
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on
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So it is ok for a woman to trick a man into preformimg oral sex on her knowing that she never plans to have sex with him but lets him think they are going to have sex?
Sw33tNeSS said:I can't believe this is even up for discussion. And tone you're an ignorant ass for your comment. That's like saying if a woman bends down in a short skirt in front of u and winks then she's asking for it. No the f*** she's not. As a rape SURVIVOR I know first hand how people can manipulate and say oh well your clothes was off or you know you wanted it. No that's just some sick twisted f*** s*** niggas say to boost their heavily bruised ego. NOBODY but nobody wants to be FORCED to have sex. If u say no then no u stop. I love my boo now. I didn't wanna go to far and I was like no no and he stopped. Right then and there. No questions asked. If he woulda kept going and saying I know u want it (which damn y'all I really did its been seven months lol) then that's rape and no it's not my fault for kissing him. It's the mans fault for not being able to control himself. Wtf. I hate u tone
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Permalink Reply by Baller Alert on
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Trick??? How did she trick him?
Furthermore you are on a website that is 85% women and probably over half of them have been raped. I don't care if they were kissing and she sucked his d***... if she wanted to stop at any given time that means STOP.
You don't understand that? You think its ok to go ahead and take it just because he gave her some head? Wow... smh
Tone said:
So it is ok for a woman to trick a man into preformimg oral sex on her knowing that she never plans to have sex with him but lets him think they are going to have sex?
Sw33tNeSS said:I can't believe this is even up for discussion. And tone you're an ignorant ass for your comment. That's like saying if a woman bends down in a short skirt in front of u and winks then she's asking for it. No the f*** she's not. As a rape SURVIVOR I know first hand how people can manipulate and say oh well your clothes was off or you know you wanted it. No that's just some sick twisted f*** s*** niggas say to boost their heavily bruised ego. NOBODY but nobody wants to be FORCED to have sex. If u say no then no u stop. I love my boo now. I didn't wanna go to far and I was like no no and he stopped. Right then and there. No questions asked. If he woulda kept going and saying I know u want it (which damn y'all I really did its been seven months lol) then that's rape and no it's not my fault for kissing him. It's the mans fault for not being able to control himself. Wtf. I hate u tone
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Permalink Reply by Brii on -
I see why you get cussed out... You're a dumbass for that post.. And if your daughter was raped what would you say? Oh well? Smh please start thinking before you write stupidity
Tone said:They are both at fault in this situation she took advantage of him with her words and he used force to take advantage of her. You can't play victim if you plan to manipulate someone and they end up getting over on you.
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Permalink Reply by lady lynxx- ladylynxx.ning.com on -
I'm not even gonna address Tone, but no means no.
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Permalink Reply by Baller Alert on
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I posted the video in question...
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on
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I never said what he did was ok I said he was wrong for his actions.
Baller Alert said:Trick??? How did she trick him?
Furthermore you are on a website that is 85% women and probably over half of them have been raped. I don't care if they were kissing and she sucked his d***... if she wanted to stop at any given time that means STOP.
You don't understand that? You think its ok to go ahead and take it just because he gave her some head? Wow... smh
Tone said:
So it is ok for a woman to trick a man into preformimg oral sex on her knowing that she never plans to have sex with him but lets him think they are going to have sex?
Sw33tNeSS said:I can't believe this is even up for discussion. And tone you're an ignorant ass for your comment. That's like saying if a woman bends down in a short skirt in front of u and winks then she's asking for it. No the f*** she's not. As a rape SURVIVOR I know first hand how people can manipulate and say oh well your clothes was off or you know you wanted it. No that's just some sick twisted f*** s*** niggas say to boost their heavily bruised ego. NOBODY but nobody wants to be FORCED to have sex. If u say no then no u stop. I love my boo now. I didn't wanna go to far and I was like no no and he stopped. Right then and there. No questions asked. If he woulda kept going and saying I know u want it (which damn y'all I really did its been seven months lol) then that's rape and no it's not my fault for kissing him. It's the mans fault for not being able to control himself. Wtf. I hate u tone
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