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There's a video on WSHH with Deelishis and her husband talking about when she got raped when she was 18. She stated she let the guy give her head but afterwards didn't want to have sex but he forced it anyway. Her husband and some chick in the back ground were saying she should have expected dude to want sex since she let him go down on her. So basically she is at fault for what happened because she lead him on. No means no is the rape law however men tend to think in certain situations the woman is at fault and could have avoided the rape had she practiced better judgement.
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Permalink Reply by Sw33tNeSS on January 22, 2012 at 3:42pm
I never said what he did was ok I said he was wrong for his actions.
Baller Alert said:Trick??? How did she trick him?
Furthermore you are on a website that is 85% women and probably over half of them have been raped. I don't care if they were kissing and she sucked his d***... if she wanted to stop at any given time that means STOP.
You don't understand that? You think its ok to go ahead and take it just because he gave her some head? Wow... smh
Tone said:
So it is ok for a woman to trick a man into preformimg oral sex on her knowing that she never plans to have sex with him but lets him think they are going to have sex?
Sw33tNeSS said:I can't believe this is even up for discussion. And tone you're an ignorant ass for your comment. That's like saying if a woman bends down in a short skirt in front of u and winks then she's asking for it. No the f*** she's not. As a rape SURVIVOR I know first hand how people can manipulate and say oh well your clothes was off or you know you wanted it. No that's just some sick twisted f*** s*** niggas say to boost their heavily bruised ego. NOBODY but nobody wants to be FORCED to have sex. If u say no then no u stop. I love my boo now. I didn't wanna go to far and I was like no no and he stopped. Right then and there. No questions asked. If he woulda kept going and saying I know u want it (which damn y'all I really did its been seven months lol) then that's rape and no it's not my fault for kissing him. It's the mans fault for not being able to control himself. Wtf. I hate u tone
Permalink Reply by Dolla on January 22, 2012 at 4:00pm
Permalink Reply by Dolla on January 22, 2012 at 4:09pm
Permalink Reply by Dolla on January 22, 2012 at 4:13pm She shouldnt have went in the house with him, some men cant control their urges and women need to know that so if you dont plan on having sex then dont put yourself in that position. Now if he snatched her up somewhere in public and took the p**** then THATS RAPE. She likes to play games, you see shes still playing the same games 15 years later with her curent husband, talkin bout she made him eat the p**** first
Permalink Reply by MissMidwest on January 22, 2012 at 4:47pm WHAT?!? Where the hell did you get that definition of Rape from? When a female says STOP or NO and the guy proceeds to finish anyway that's RAPE
Dolla said:She shouldnt have went in the house with him, some men cant control their urges and women need to know that so if you dont plan on having sex then dont put yourself in that position. Now if he snatched her up somewhere in public and took the p**** then THATS RAPE. She likes to play games, you see shes still playing the same games 15 years later with her curent husband, talkin bout she made him eat the p**** first
Permalink Reply by Dolla on January 22, 2012 at 4:54pm
Permalink Reply by Dolla on January 22, 2012 at 4:57pm legally it does constitute as rape but in my and most mens mind its not rape if you put yourself in that situation.
Permalink Reply by Dolla on January 22, 2012 at 5:06pm
Permalink Reply by MissMidwest on January 22, 2012 at 5:11pm nah, i would stop because i have self control but some men dont, women should realize this and not put themselves in that situation.
nah, i would stop because i have self control but some men dont, women should realize this and not put themselves in that situation.
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