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See, this is why when I signed up for the gym, I was not interested in dating anybody I met at the gym. I meet this guy, we end up working out together and usually go out to eat after working out. He's coming at me on this friendship angle. He wants to be "friends" and wants someone who will help him reach his goals and he will help them reach their goals. Ok, cool, that's what friends do. But I knew he wanted to be more than friends, but he kept saying "friends" so I went with it.
We go to his place after working out, he needs to change clothes to get ready for his other job which is security of this nightclub. I;m sitting on the couch waiting and he comes out and surprises me with this bag he bought me. It's a cute bag, too big for me since I dont like carrying big purses, but I like it and would carry it on those days when I need to carry more than I usually do.
That same night, we're walking alont the street where there are lots of boutiques, he knows the owners of this one place so we go in and they are chatting, while I look around and I start trying on stuff. I look really good in this one dress and he buys it and some earrings to go with it.
We then start talking about dating and he finally reveals that he wants to start dating. I reluctantly said ok.
Couple weeks go by and yesterday, he calls and we talk a little bit and he asks me "are you seeing someone else?" I said no, but then I asked him what was his definition of dating? "do you think dating means a relationship or dating means you go out on dates with a person to feel them out to see if you want to take things further" he said "dating IS a relationship" So I had to pump the brakes and we came to the conclusion we wouldnt date anymore. But then this negro says 'I guess I'll take the stuff back" I'm thinking he had bought some other stuff I didnt know about, but he was talking about the stuff he bought me, that I have in my possession, at my house already. I'm like so you a conditional gift giver, you want me to throw back up the food we ate all those times we went out? Since things didnt go your way, you want the stuff back? Nah, homie.
So, tonight at the gym, he's like "I want my stuff back" I'm like how is it YOUR stuff. You bought it for me as a gift. How is it YOUR stuff??!!"
What do ya'll think? I mean, when you buy someone a gift, it is then theirs, right?
Now I gotta go to the gym at a different time now.
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Permalink Reply by Brii on -
Hell na... A gift is a gift which means he's out of luck or as my aunt says
G-Giving or
I-Investing
F-For a Future
T-Together
*Sometimes the gift helps/works and sometimes it doesn't but it will never be returned LOL
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Permalink Reply by Nene2 on -
When we were "friends" he was telling me how Bed BAth & beyond donates stuff to his job, so he was gonna give me stuff for my place; a juicer, sheet sets, pictuers for th wall, stuff like that. I knew in the back of my mind that he was only gonna give me that stuff if we were dating but he made the mistake of saying "i like to help my FRIENDS out" so he need to come up off that friendship angle and be like some guys that say up front what their intentions are
~ now HC u knew this ninja was on Sucka ish, there is no difference between dating and friends. friends don't ask for ish back but a disgruntled, pressed and petty ninja will tho. get ready for the shanangins...don't give it back, he needs to learn some manners.
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on -
Please tell me that I had NOTHING to do with that. I dont give sh*t back....EVER!!!!!
Love is a Losing Game said:Lol @ bling and ms. U can! I just wanna know why yall, black fu included, told me to give that man his money back?? I had already mentally spent that ish!
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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on
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i know! I was gonna keep dating him to get more s***, i had no problem dating him , I just didnt want it to go to boyfriend/girlfriend status. But I had to pump the brakes. That's why although I could have alot more than I have, you have to put up with b******* sometimes and I'm not willing to deal with it. Acting like I like a mofo when I really dont.Acting like he's attractive when he really isnt. ANd I'm not just talking about this dude from the gym, There have been other guys too that I knew I could milk it for all it's worth, but I didnt want to put up with it, and I knew I wouldnt want nobody doing that to me.
Nene2 said:When we were "friends" he was telling me how Bed BAth & beyond donates stuff to his job, so he was gonna give me stuff for my place; a juicer, sheet sets, pictuers for th wall, stuff like that. I knew in the back of my mind that he was only gonna give me that stuff if we were dating but he made the mistake of saying "i like to help my FRIENDS out" so he need to come up off that friendship angle and be like some guys that say up front what their intentions are
~ now HC u knew this ninja was on Sucka ish, there is no difference between dating and friends. friends don't ask for ish back but a disgruntled, pressed and petty ninja will tho. get ready for the shanangins...don't give it back, he needs to learn some manners.
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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on
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Lol, I don't know, i gotta re-read it. It all ended up working out good though. I gave him the ish back and he left me alone. He was mad like this dude is too and was tryna argue about dumb ish, lol. I felt like if he wanted his ish back THAT bad, then give it back. Now he throwing money at me. BUT IN THE FUTURE, lol, I aint givin s*** back.
University of Smitty said:Please tell me that I had NOTHING to do with that. I dont give sh*t back....EVER!!!!!
Love is a Losing Game said:Lol @ bling and ms. U can! I just wanna know why yall, black fu included, told me to give that man his money back?? I had already mentally spent that ish!
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This ish is like lookin in a mirror
Honeycoated said:i know! I was gonna keep dating him to get more s***, i had no problem dating him , I just didnt want it to go to boyfriend/girlfriend status. But I had to pump the brakes. That's why although I could have alot more than I have, you have to put up with b******* sometimes and I'm not willing to deal with it. Acting like I like a mofo when I really dont.Acting like he's attractive when he really isnt. ANd I'm not just talking about this dude from the gym, There have been other guys too that I knew I could milk it for all it's worth, but I didnt want to put up with it, and I knew I wouldnt want nobody doing that to me.
Nene2 said:When we were "friends" he was telling me how Bed BAth & beyond donates stuff to his job, so he was gonna give me stuff for my place; a juicer, sheet sets, pictuers for th wall, stuff like that. I knew in the back of my mind that he was only gonna give me that stuff if we were dating but he made the mistake of saying "i like to help my FRIENDS out" so he need to come up off that friendship angle and be like some guys that say up front what their intentions are
~ now HC u knew this ninja was on Sucka ish, there is no difference between dating and friends. friends don't ask for ish back but a disgruntled, pressed and petty ninja will tho. get ready for the shanangins...don't give it back, he needs to learn some manners.
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Permalink Reply by Miss Good on -
lmao, i like that!
Brii said:Hell na... A gift is a gift which means he's out of luck or as my aunt says
G-Giving or
I-Investing
F-For a Future
T-Together
*Sometimes the gift helps/works and sometimes it doesn't but it will never be returned LOL
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Permalink Reply by P*Y*T on -
This just hit home...my ex broke into my apt and stole gifts that he gave me during our relationship smh
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Permalink Reply by Brii on
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Wow.. Are you ok?
P*Y*T said:This just hit home...my ex broke into my apt and stole gifts that he gave me during our relationship smh
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