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Permalink Reply by Sheli on March 15, 2010 at 11:22pm

Not really, as long as the helfa isn't speaking ill of me and they aren't being disrespectful towards our relationship, I don't care if they talk on FB. We're adults, he should have some sense of right & wrong, so I don't see the point in monitoring his wall or tweets or getting upset over it.

I'm FB friends with all of my exes that have pages and I comment on their pages & I still text my exes & it's only been a problem with one chick.

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on March 16, 2010 at 1:04am

i dont care as long as there is no disrespect and if it is he should put her in her place if I have a problem with something. facebook contibuted to me and my ex breaking up. his "friends" and some who he SAY were ex's were leaving things on his wall like miss u, love u - he shoulda checked her, he said he did, but it didnt stop thats ur friend she would respect ur relationship, he didnt delete her them so i deleted him
Sheli said:

Not really, as long as the helfa isn't speaking ill of me and they aren't being disrespectful towards our relationship, I don't care if they talk on FB. We're adults, he should have some sense of right & wrong, so I don't see the point in monitoring his wall or tweets or getting upset over it.

I'm FB friends with all of my exes that have pages and I comment on their pages & I still text my exes & it's only been a problem with one chick.

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Permalink Reply by a_BilLi on March 16, 2010 at 1:20am

I've always been up and down with this one. Dirt goes down on fb - I get it in my inbox/wall/requests every day!

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on March 16, 2010 at 2:30am

Yes! I would have a problem with his exes being all on his FB, myspace, twitter, and whatever comes next pages. I know of a marriage that FB didn't exactly help. She was feeling lonely and unhappy and one of her exes reached out to her and that was the beginning of the end of her marriage.

Its not the bizness. Everyone says they can check themselves or their mate but you never know when you'll get hit at a weak moment. The devil stays busy.

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Permalink Reply by Siren on March 16, 2010 at 8:57am

I am soooooooo glad that my guy does not tweet, FB, myspace! He hates computers and that keeps one less thing to worry about in our relationship! Thank God! The messages I get are crazy I just got a message from my prom date talking about he been looking for me for years with his 8 kids Ninja Bye! The cyber stalking is so sincere

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Permalink Reply by Sheli on March 16, 2010 at 9:30am

I just think that the strength of the relationship has a lot to do with it. I'm not going to let a chick saying "i luv u" on my dudes wall break us up. When other people see you happy it becomes their mission to come between that happiness. I've seen myspace & FB end relationships in the past. The only way I would step to my dude over some FB wall posts is if he was engaging & co-signing on the disrespectful posting with the chick.

A chick I know was upset b/c her boyfriend didn't accept her friend request on FB, he said it was because he didn't want him questioning her about every lil comment made on his page, which is what she does to him on Twitter.

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Permalink Reply by Irreplaceable_me on March 16, 2010 at 10:55am

Exactly. Im friends with my ex on FB & twitter, and he doesnt disrespect my new relationship. I wouldnt mind it as long as she's cordial and respectful of what he has going on.

Sheli said:

Not really, as long as the helfa isn't speaking ill of me and they aren't being disrespectful towards our relationship, I don't care if they talk on FB. We're adults, he should have some sense of right & wrong, so I don't see the point in monitoring his wall or tweets or getting upset over it.

I'm FB friends with all of my exes that have pages and I comment on their pages & I still text my exes & it's only been a problem with one chick.

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Permalink Reply by Tiff-Tiff C on March 16, 2010 at 11:13am

Yes Lawd SMDH

a_BilLi said:

I've always been up and down with this one. Dirt goes down on fb - I get it in my inbox/wall/requests every day!

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Permalink Reply by Skytz0100 on March 16, 2010 at 11:43am

Yes i would and if I found out mines is talkin to exes while he in face book I am going to slap the sh!% out of him.

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Permalink Reply by Elise' on March 16, 2010 at 12:26pm

I'm sooo glad neither one of us bother with that mess..

I don't need it in my life and he is not that into computers.

its the devil

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Permalink Reply by Denise on March 16, 2010 at 12:35pm

I don't date men who have these pages.......unless your an artist/model/photog, you don't really need this mess

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Permalink Reply by PrettyThinker on March 16, 2010 at 12:35pm

Lol @ Skyttles...Yes I would Not appreciate it...and Pray he would be Mature enough to not even entertain the sites (the player I like does not like the sites)...I think that the sitest are entertaining but not a necessity...I have only had a FB for a few months... I have reconnected w/some friends from H.S. But I could careless about the Page...I prefer human contactand am busy with my business, so I can do without the pages and so can he...Plus they (men) would be jealous of exes commenting on my Body...so we can be ProActive instead of Reactive and discuss this in the beginning...*kanye shrug*

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