So how do you usually enter relationships?

Is it through implied actions (constantly spending time together, sleeping at each others homes, inclusion on family trips and events, etc) OR is there a talk involved where both partners come to the decision that a monogamous relationship exists? 

 

I'm asking because apparently I was in a relationship and didn't know it. My now Ex ( I guess) left me a long ass voice-mail telling me how I shouldn't play with people emotions and the damage I've done will come back ( I think he just put a Color Purple curse on me...).  I'm so confused. He's not P---y whipped because we haven't had sex. When we first met, he told me he could easily fall in love with me, I laughed and brushed it off. We've talked every day since we met. His actions and conversation led me to think that he would eventually want a relationship, NOT that we were actually in one.  So 2 questions:

 

1. How do I get this root (curse) he just put on me lifted?

2. Do you crazy ninjas and bishes do this? Just go around signing people up for relationships without their permission?

 

I kind of wish I'd known we were in a relationship, because Christmas is coming up and my nephews & nieces want some expensive S***, he could have helped out with that...smh!!!

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Lol, girl my sis says I'm going to end up hogtied in the back of some ones truck, cause I always attract crazy men>

SACK CHASER said:

this ninja sound like one of those "If I can't have you NOBODY will" dudes! Lmao

You are crazy for thinking he put a root on you!!! hahahahaha

*hollering* Girrrrrrrrrrrrrl!  Did you leave any hair around? Are you missing anything personal? lol iCan't with you right now!

Sheli's Publicist said:

Girl, my car battery died trying to leave work, he cursed me for real!!I'm going to apologize ASAP! I thought I explained to him when we met that i'd just ended a relationship & just wanted to chill, guess he heard what he wanted. His brothers girlfriend hinted that he was crazy, but I thought she meant crazy in the fun way. Sucks too b/c dude is PAID and it's legal.
CCDreamer aka Eve Davis said:

I had to walk away from the computer to catch my breath from laughing at you and TCP curse. For me it has always been we spend so much time together it is just understood we are together. You and he need to talk. Start by apologizing and letting him know you didn't realize that you two had become exclusive. Tell him you are accustomed to a relationship boundary discussion or some such thing before becoming exclusive. That should get him out of his feelings and get the curse lifted. lol

However, decide whether you want Mr. Feelings to be your man before you go through all this.

I once asked this chic to be my arm candy on a ski trip...i ended up telling her to kick rocks the day before so I can take my now honey lol.

Tone said:


Why would a guy just spend that much money on a woman that he was not dealing with.
Sheli's Publicist said:

No. The only thing he's paid for related to me are the New Years ski trip & the cruise for next year and since I am now excluding myself from both, he can either get a refund or substitute a chick in my face. No harm no foul.

Tone said:

Did he give you money?

I feel as though if you don't say the words we are not exclusive...buying me a great dinner and a couple of pieces of jewelry when we only see each other sporadically does not mean much. I need more, much more. 

 

Sheli if this nigga is putting hexes on you then please don't call him back. I'll take sanity and a BMW over batshit crazy with a Maserati anyday.

 

Oh...and head down to Louisiana to raise that Eve's Bayou curse. 

Lol funny story...when we aint thinking about relationships here dey come! I think we have to agree to be together to b together ... How else will I know the anniversary date? Lol but I think somebody on here told me that was 'high school stuff' lol

I'm beginning to think that Tone is just cheap. Men give nice things in order to get the girl/coochie they want. Women give up coochie in order to get the guy they want or things they want from a guy. Simple as that. I'm more than sure that had he not curked out, if I went on both trips he probably would have made his move on the cruise. 

blackfujones said:

I once asked this chic to be my arm candy on a ski trip...i ended up telling her to kick rocks the day before so I can take my now honey lol.

Tone said:


Why would a guy just spend that much money on a woman that he was not dealing with.
Sheli's Publicist said:

No. The only thing he's paid for related to me are the New Years ski trip & the cruise for next year and since I am now excluding myself from both, he can either get a refund or substitute a chick in my face. No harm no foul.

Tone said:

Did he give you money?

*spits coffee* I cannot with y'all first thing in the morning! lol

PlaneJaneLane said:

I feel as though if you don't say the words we are not exclusive...buying me a great dinner and a couple of pieces of jewelry when we only see each other sporadically does not mean much. I need more, much more. 

 

Sheli if this nigga is putting hexes on you then please don't call him back. I'll take sanity and a BMW over batshit crazy with a Maserati anyday.

 

Oh...and head down to Louisiana to raise that Eve's Bayou curse. 

not hardly...i just wanted company really. didnt want to be on a couples retreat stag lol. But I did notice that her ass aint never been nowwhere before bc she was overly excited lol

Sheli's Publicist said:

I'm beginning to think that Tone is just cheap. Men give nice things in order to get the girl/coochie they want. Women give up coochie in order to get the guy they want or things they want from a guy. Simple as that. I'm more than sure that had he not curked out, if I went on both trips he probably would have made his move on the cruise. 

blackfujones said:

I once asked this chic to be my arm candy on a ski trip...i ended up telling her to kick rocks the day before so I can take my now honey lol.

Tone said:


Why would a guy just spend that much money on a woman that he was not dealing with.
Sheli's Publicist said:

No. The only thing he's paid for related to me are the New Years ski trip & the cruise for next year and since I am now excluding myself from both, he can either get a refund or substitute a chick in my face. No harm no foul.

Tone said:

Did he give you money?

LMAO!!! Too funny.

PlaneJaneLane said:

I feel as though if you don't say the words we are not exclusive...buying me a great dinner and a couple of pieces of jewelry when we only see each other sporadically does not mean much. I need more, much more. 

 

Sheli if this nigga is putting hexes on you then please don't call him back. I'll take sanity and a BMW over batshit crazy with a Maserati anyday.

 

Oh...and head down to Louisiana to raise that Eve's Bayou curse. 

Lol at "just put a  Color purple  curse on me". He is too grown to have a fit like that. Grown men ask grown men questions like "where is this relationship going" and "I am thinking we make this relationship official and exclusive what about you?" so no one gets hurt.  To get the root off call the guy and dont fall for his emotional tricks and don't let him get you defensive. Say things like " I see how you can feel that" or "i am sorry you feel that way". Say your apology and then run for the hills cause he is a messy man-boy.

Me thinks he's just tryna get back in dem drawers but wants regular f*** sessions so wants you thinkin you officially his. Dudes do this s*** all the time. Laying some non-existent issue on the table where girl is at fault.. "baby, my feelings were hurt when X, Y, Z happened.." girl still draws blanks but likes that guy is showing emotion towards her, girl falls back in his arms, gives him ass on the regular till ol boy grows tired again and stops calling.

SN: Since when are relationship statuses unclear? If he's your boyfriend (not cut buddy, guy, dude, friend, boo) its understood.

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