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Selfish or not??
My friend came over last night and then he left. I dont know if it was because I didnt give him any or I didnt answer when he asked me how I felt about him. We've been dealing close to a year. The relationship is what it is, I dont have any deep feelings for him but I like him. We JUST had the discussion about a week ago and I told him I like him but we know the relationship is what it is, its not like we would be together. Well, then he started complaining about I only have sex with him when i want to, not when he wants to and I should compromise. (THE SEX IS GREAT) I told him that I shouldnt have to compromise with him on sex because Im doing what I feel like doing and I care more about how I feel that how he feels. WHY should i have sex with him just to please him but im feeling a different way. Plus, i MAY be more willing to compromise if he gave me more money. He called me selfish talking bout i should treat ppl how i want to be treated and bounced. The thing is Ive been like this the ENTIRE time, I havent changed- I talk to other ppl but he's the only one i have sex with even though he dont believe that- he says, why should he give me money when im talking to other dudes. if u sexing me, i dont care, u coming out yo pockets or u wont get none. And honestly, sometimes I want to but Im like nope, not until I get..... ex. He laying in my bed, thinking he gone get some- I asked him if he was going to pay for my All-Star ticket- he asked me why he gotta pay for them? cuz you f*uckin me thats why- then he talking about depends on what else he needs for his truck... Okay, and I rolled over and went to sleep. not until he said okay, did he get any from me. Anyways, back on track....... was I being selfish because i said I care more about how i feel than him?
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Permalink Reply by Janay on -
Well said. Skyttles seems to be okay with being a groupie so no fingers pointed at you because youare pointing them at yourself. Anywho, you shouldn't be demanding money for sex. If he wants to give you money, that is fine. When you demand something for being sexually active, it's callled prositution. By law, that is illegal! You should go to jail for messing with our troops hearts. You need God to put this man through emotional stress while he is a part of the military. He has a lot to worry about, he is saving our country and you want him to pay for your coochie? I'll say a prayer.
MoCha M. said:Your absolutly correct this Site is called Baller alert but dude is in the military so how much of a"BALLER" can he be??? c'mon son im just sayin...oh yeah and not everybody that comes on this site is a groupie but the stories be funny as s***!! lol
skyttlez77563 said:The web site is called baller alert. Hello, isn't the main focus of this website for groupies and ballers to connect. Also, what makes what she doing wrong versus the other people on the web site posting about how they used to date a baller or they used to date someone high up on the corporate ladder, etc. etc. Now I don't believe most of the BS that i see posted but if you were to believe it,isn't that prostitution as well if you are excepting money or trips from guys that are technically not your man. Isn't it prostitution when someone fly's you around the world with them so ya'll can party and go to shows yet you claim you are not having sex with em but they find it in their hearts to call you and fly you out to see them,just to party with you keep in mind? I see a lot of pots calling the kettle black and before you say or judge this lady's intentions, how bout we switch your profiles from groupie to what i don't know hypocrite. Then you can post whatever stupidy you like concerning this lady's post.
MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:I'll take prostitution anyday over f****** for nothing. Almost EVERY relationship is a form of prostitution so you can say what you want. buut I dont NEED his money, I just want it- I have my own and as long as im f***** anyone- will keep my own. and I dont want something ALL the time, just a balance- I refuse to have sex with you every night like we married and come up with ..nothing
@ JANAY - well It seems as if u may be just a tad bit cheaper than I, because you would rather f*** for.....nothing!!!
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on -
the only reason prostitution is legal is because the governement can't tell the hoes charging from the hoes f**king for free. it's all about taxes. the government should be arrested in that instance.
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Permalink Reply by Ms. KissyFace on -
Yes. But you don't owe him s***. He isn't your husband or child. Go on and be selfish. That's what being young and single (singleish) is all about. You doin You. He is trying to get the upper hand. If you are happy with the way things are why change it. If it aint broke don't fix it.
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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on -
Umm, I never said he was in the militaty, I said i was in Iraq, and not sure of how much you know assuming not much, but there are civilians in Iraq, which I am, and we cant mess with the soldiers. Annnd EVERYONE here makes close to or WELL over six figures, its a win-win situation for me all around.
in response to MoCha M.
Your absolutly correct this Site is called Baller alert but dude is in the military so how much of a"BALLER" can he be??? c'mon son im just sayin...oh yeah and not everybody that comes on this site is a groupie but the stories be funny as s***!! lol
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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on
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When you ASSUME you make an ass out of you.
In response to Janay
By law, that is illegal! You should go to jail for messing with our troops hearts. You need God to put this man through emotional stress while he is a part of the military. He has a lot to worry about, he is saving our country and you want him to pay for your coochie?
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Permalink Reply by Dee Knight on -
I think if you are upfront with a man then their are no surprises. So captain Save em need not apply! I tell a man what I like and what I don't like and what it will take to make me( when I'm happy I can make him happy) and each other happy. If there is something in there that he doesn't like (like paying for things) and he still sticks around then it is his fault. Men are jus like woman in relationships they will try to hold on and commit to it in hopes of changing you. Which is in fact selfish on their part because it's usually for the wrong reasons... (she look like trophy material, she give the best head etc...) if you say who you are and how you are they have the choice to accept it or move on and let the next man take lead. Handcuffing when you know the girl don't won't you or their in no real change of a relationship is wasting time.
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Permalink Reply by Skytz0100 on -
This is not bible study pretty thinker. I don't date men because of the size of their wallets neither. And I am pointing the finger right at hypocrites like you. You on here talking about praying for people. Well start praying that god gives you something to do with your time besides posting about subjects that you obviously know nothing about.Kay,:)
Janay said:Well said. Skyttles seems to be okay with being a groupie so no fingers pointed at you because youare pointing them at yourself. Anywho, you shouldn't be demanding money for sex. If he wants to give you money, that is fine. When you demand something for being sexually active, it's callled prositution. By law, that is illegal! You should go to jail for messing with our troops hearts. You need God to put this man through emotional stress while he is a part of the military. He has a lot to worry about, he is saving our country and you want him to pay for your coochie? I'll say a prayer.
MoCha M. said:Your absolutly correct this Site is called Baller alert but dude is in the military so how much of a"BALLER" can he be??? c'mon son im just sayin...oh yeah and not everybody that comes on this site is a groupie but the stories be funny as s***!! lol
skyttlez77563 said:The web site is called baller alert. Hello, isn't the main focus of this website for groupies and ballers to connect. Also, what makes what she doing wrong versus the other people on the web site posting about how they used to date a baller or they used to date someone high up on the corporate ladder, etc. etc. Now I don't believe most of the BS that i see posted but if you were to believe it,isn't that prostitution as well if you are excepting money or trips from guys that are technically not your man. Isn't it prostitution when someone fly's you around the world with them so ya'll can party and go to shows yet you claim you are not having sex with em but they find it in their hearts to call you and fly you out to see them,just to party with you keep in mind? I see a lot of pots calling the kettle black and before you say or judge this lady's intentions, how bout we switch your profiles from groupie to what i don't know hypocrite. Then you can post whatever stupidy you like concerning this lady's post.
MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:I'll take prostitution anyday over f****** for nothing. Almost EVERY relationship is a form of prostitution so you can say what you want. buut I dont NEED his money, I just want it- I have my own and as long as im f***** anyone- will keep my own. and I dont want something ALL the time, just a balance- I refuse to have sex with you every night like we married and come up with ..nothing
@ JANAY - well It seems as if u may be just a tad bit cheaper than I, because you would rather f*** for.....nothing!!!
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Permalink Reply by Janay on
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You can keep calling me pretty thinker. I hope she does come back. Seems like she can let me know who the REAL haters are on this site. I find you to be in compeition with Siren for first place. Good luck. May God bless you on this Christmas Eve.
skyttlez77563 said:This is not bible study pretty thinker. I don't date men because of the size of their wallets neither. And I am pointing the finger right at hypocrites like you. You on here talking about praying for people. Well start praying that god gives you something to do with your time besides posting about subjects that you obviously know nothing about.Kay,:)
Janay said:Well said. Skyttles seems to be okay with being a groupie so no fingers pointed at you because youare pointing them at yourself. Anywho, you shouldn't be demanding money for sex. If he wants to give you money, that is fine. When you demand something for being sexually active, it's callled prositution. By law, that is illegal! You should go to jail for messing with our troops hearts. You need God to put this man through emotional stress while he is a part of the military. He has a lot to worry about, he is saving our country and you want him to pay for your coochie? I'll say a prayer.
MoCha M. said:Your absolutly correct this Site is called Baller alert but dude is in the military so how much of a"BALLER" can he be??? c'mon son im just sayin...oh yeah and not everybody that comes on this site is a groupie but the stories be funny as s***!! lol
skyttlez77563 said:The web site is called baller alert. Hello, isn't the main focus of this website for groupies and ballers to connect. Also, what makes what she doing wrong versus the other people on the web site posting about how they used to date a baller or they used to date someone high up on the corporate ladder, etc. etc. Now I don't believe most of the BS that i see posted but if you were to believe it,isn't that prostitution as well if you are excepting money or trips from guys that are technically not your man. Isn't it prostitution when someone fly's you around the world with them so ya'll can party and go to shows yet you claim you are not having sex with em but they find it in their hearts to call you and fly you out to see them,just to party with you keep in mind? I see a lot of pots calling the kettle black and before you say or judge this lady's intentions, how bout we switch your profiles from groupie to what i don't know hypocrite. Then you can post whatever stupidy you like concerning this lady's post.
MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:I'll take prostitution anyday over f****** for nothing. Almost EVERY relationship is a form of prostitution so you can say what you want. buut I dont NEED his money, I just want it- I have my own and as long as im f***** anyone- will keep my own. and I dont want something ALL the time, just a balance- I refuse to have sex with you every night like we married and come up with ..nothing
@ JANAY - well It seems as if u may be just a tad bit cheaper than I, because you would rather f*** for.....nothing!!!
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Permalink Reply by Dee Knight on
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I totally agree with this...play or be played.
Ms. KissyFace said:Yes. But you don't owe him s***. He isn't your husband or child. Go on and be selfish. That's what being young and single (singleish) is all about. You doin You. He is trying to get the upper hand. If you are happy with the way things are why change it. If it aint broke don't fix it.
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