It seems like "send me a pic" is universal amongst men. When i am asked to send a pic, I get annoyed. Its not that i dont mind sending one but EVERY man I meet asks for one. Why do they do this??? Ive even had someone ask me to send them to his email. WTF. I get that men are visual creatures, but i dont see why it is necessary to send pictures especially if you have already seen what I look like. How do I tell a man no, im not sending one w/o sounding like a b****?

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what women you deal wih because I've NEVER known women to ask as much as men





Kedrick Evans said:

Ladies, 

I think Women are guilty of ask for pictures just as often. I'm constantly  asked to send "A Picture" to every single new female I meet. I'm not sure if they're requesting a photo to show to their friends, caller ID contact, or just to jog their memories since the "Thirst Epidemic" has most of you ladies getting hit on every passing hour but either way I'm always inclined to do so especially since I rarely approach someone I'm not genuinely  interested in.  

OMG..I HATE THAT SHITTT WITH A PASSION.  I ignore them most of the time.  Then I tell them my phone doesn't take pictures, or good pictures.  (I don't have a iphone or Android).  If it's someone I kinda like, I'll ask what for, he knws what I look like and they're are plenty of pics of me on facebook.  I met this guy online, we were chatting yahoo and he asked me why I was being secretive because I didn't wanna swap photo's.  That was the end.  I hate it. I hate it.  I hate it.  The End!!

Ugh it is an epidemic, and I've stopped sending pix to guys because I understand okay, you may want to see one to remember what I look like, but then they want to keep asking for more...and more....and I'm like....okay this is just dumb.....what are you doing with these pix?  I also don't trust it because I've had this guy send me pictures of this girl, several different ones, like "Yeah, I'm talking to her and we're seriously dating." (He was trying to make me jealous.) Little did he know, the girl was actually related to someone I knew, so I asked her directly if she knew him.  She said, no, she met him online a few months ago but wasn't into him and they no longer spoke.  The pictures he was flashing were pictures she had sent him during the "getting to know you" process.

I thought it was more about the TYPE of pic then the pic itself... from hangin out wit my guy friends (showin me their breezies) some women send ass shots, lots of cleavage or whatever on the 1st pic... i thought it was jus another way to assess ur presonality- (read: hoeness) 

To be honest ...the Question ... doesn't really bother me ... but it depends on who ... If it is someone u have interest in  ..Then that may not get under skin so much ....Some men like to have pics of the woman they like... Just to show friends ... They wanna show u off ... some men are pigs and u are just another picture in the sea  H*o*e*S.... so with this situation i am selective .

Im gonna start doing this!

Baller Alert said:

My friend will send them a pic of a monkey or some funny picture... and the guys will laugh.

I though of this too

Tone said:
Many reasons why we might ask. Most likely he is telling his boys about you and they like let me see a picture.
Woooooow really??

Bonita said:

+1 its a turn off for me. I have several guy friends and they swap pics when they get together

Sheli said:

I HATE that!! I just say no, couple dudes have been persistent in asking, but I'm more persistent in saying NO!

Where are you meeting these females? Ive never asked a man to send me a pic.. Nor even a pic of his penile. If he volunteers, ok, but otherwise i wont ask. My thing is if im texting you 9 times out of 10 ive already seen you before so i dont need a pic

Kedrick Evans said:

Ladies, 

I think Women are guilty of ask for pictures just as often. I'm constantly  asked to send "A Picture" to every single new female I meet. I'm not sure if they're requesting a photo to show to their friends, caller ID contact, or just to jog their memories since the "Thirst Epidemic" has most of you ladies getting hit on every passing hour but either way I'm always inclined to do so especially since I rarely approach someone I'm not genuinely  interested in.  

Smh foolery! And thats why i dont like to send em. Say i go out and meet 5 diff guys and begin txting them and they all ask for a pic and i send it.. Over the nxt few months i stop all communication w/ them. Now these 5 random men just have my pics in their phones. I just dont get it

livelife25 said:

Ugh it is an epidemic, and I've stopped sending pix to guys because I understand okay, you may want to see one to remember what I look like, but then they want to keep asking for more...and more....and I'm like....okay this is just dumb.....what are you doing with these pix?  I also don't trust it because I've had this guy send me pictures of this girl, several different ones, like "Yeah, I'm talking to her and we're seriously dating." (He was trying to make me jealous.) Little did he know, the girl was actually related to someone I knew, so I asked her directly if she knew him.  She said, no, she met him online a few months ago but wasn't into him and they no longer spoke.  The pictures he was flashing were pictures she had sent him during the "getting to know you" process.

a friend of mine told me that instead of giving out numbers women these days give out their twitter or facebook names...like wtf is that

+1

Kedrick Evans said:

Ladies, 

I think Women are guilty of ask for pictures just as often. I'm constantly  asked to send "A Picture" to every single new female I meet. I'm not sure if they're requesting a photo to show to their friends, caller ID contact, or just to jog their memories since the "Thirst Epidemic" has most of you ladies getting hit on every passing hour but either way I'm always inclined to do so especially since I rarely approach someone I'm not genuinely  interested in.  

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